Ndikhumbula indlela ekubuntlukweni ekudeni, mna, mna, umntwana, ndinike iintsontelo, iibhanana, iibhutsi ... Bangaphi abazali abavuyayo! Ndinenkani ndalinda enye into ... iithoyi. Nasi isipho esiphambili somntwana. Ngokukhawuleza iba yipropathi yakhe, ayipheli, ihlala idweliswa. Ngokutsho koochwephesha bezengqondo, kunye nabahlobo bokwenene, iithoyi kufuneka zibencinci, ukuze umntwana ayokuya kwinye.
Kubalulekile!
-Ufanele ungagxili kumnqweno wokuqala womntwana, kuba kuyadlula ngokukhawuleza, utshintsho, ulibale. Ukuba kukho into etsala into kwivenkile okanye kwi-buddy, kwaye izicelo eziqhubekayo zawa phezu kwakho, yitshintshela kwenye into kwaye unike ingqalelo ngakumbi kuye.
- Zama ukuba ungazalisekisi iminqweno yakho. Cinga nje ukuba ukuthanda kwakho kungahambelana. Kwaye ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, umlilo wakho unokulinganisa inzala emntwaneni, kodwa ukuba ayingowakhe, iya kukhawuleza iphume ngokukhawuleza. Okanye uya kudlala lo mdlalo kuphela nawe.
Izipho zabantwana nabazali zabantwana - akukho nto inye. Sithetha ngezinto eziza kusetyenziswa ngumntu omdala, kodwa awukakwazi ukuqonda ukuba nguye. "
"Khumbula ukuba umntwana uqhele ukuba aqhelane nembasa yezinto ezibonakalayo ngokuziphatha okuhle, impumelelo ekufundeni, kwaye iqala ukuyifuna emva kokuphindaphinda enye okanye ezimbini. Ke ngoko, kungcono ukumnika enye indlela: imidlalo edibeneyo, ukuhamba, umsebenzi.
Ukhetho olukhulu lweSipho luzenziwe izinto ngesandla. Kubalulekile ukuba umzali wakho akhuthaze ukudalwa kweethoyi ngezandla zakho. Zama ukwenza kunye into onokuyithenga. Kwangelo xesha, nikela ingqalelo kwinto yokuba i-toy yasekhaya ilunge ngakumbi, ithengwe kakuhle. Zive ukhululekile ukunxibelelana nenkqubo yazo zonke "isandla" izalamane- iya kuba ngumdlalo omangalisayo onesiphumo esibonakalayo.
-Funda umntwana ukuba anikezele-akuyi kumnandi kunokufumana. Ukuba ucinga ngokwakho, yibani noxolo umntwana: Uya kusulelwa lugonyo lwakho, kwaye umbuzo wezibonda uza kunyamalala ngokwayo.
Ukuya kwi-whims's whims
Nceda umntwana ukuba aphephe 'ukutya kakhulu ". Makamkele uloliwe, kodwa akunyanzelekanga ukuba aguqule uloliwe wonke abantwana. Ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana uthanda into embi ka-Best, engalunganga, ekhohlakele, enqumamisa iikhathuni, imidlalo yekhompyuter. Imbuyekezo, yiyise emfanekisweni, i-gallery yefoto, imyuziyam. Xoxa ngezinto endizithanda ukuba akukho kwaye kutheni. Qwalasela amakhaya okuzala. Khetha indlela yokuxhoma eludongeni.
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali abancinci bakwazi ukuba umzamo omkhulu uhlala ukhokelela kwiziphumo ezichaseneyo. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ukhangele into yokuba uthathe into yokudlala egqibeleleyo (ekhanyayo, entle, evela kwizixhobo zendalo, iqela lesizwe, njl njl), kwaye umntwana ubuyekelele kuyo. Yintoni omele uyenze kule meko?
-Angcamkisa abantwana batshintsha ngokukhawuleza. Namhlanje andisithandi isipho-kakuhle: yifihle kude kube ngomso kwaye ubonise kwakhona.
-UsenguDeros. Kufuneka akwazi ukwenza ubuchule obuthile ukuba bazibuze.
-Ukuba into yokudlala ibekwe, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba: Ufumene isipho esihle nabantwana abahlobo, kwaye mhlawumbi nomntwana wakho olandelayo!
Imidlalo ye-elektroniki
Imele inqunyelwe kumandla kunye nomonde wanele. Kwiminyaka yethu, umntwana usesaya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza ubuchule bokusebenza ngekhompyuter, kodwa uthando lokufunda lunzima ngakumbi. I-iPad ilungele abazali, kunzima kakhulu ukuyinqanda. Kodwa ukwala ukwala izabelo ezinkulu: Imidlalo yenethiwekhi yabantwana yokukhula yimidlalo, kodwa ngeyure. Kunye nenguqu evela kwiinkqubo zoqeqesho (amanani-onobumba) ukuya kwiintlanga kunye neefindows zenzekile ukukhanya kwaye kungalindeleki nto.
Iphepha lokukhuphela kubazali
Izipho ezimbi:
Tamagotchi;
Imidlalo ye-elektroniki;
iidosi ezisoyikisayo okanye ezimbi zabantu;
iithoyi ezibuthathaka;
Izipho zesimo (iifowuni, iitafile, njl. Njl.).
Izipho ezilungileyo:
Iincwadi;
-Izixhobo zomculo (i-xelophone, i sweatshi, ye-Dacha-Drum);
-Umosaic / domino;
- iimveliso zeplanga (uninzi, kodwa ngaphandle kokuhlonitshwa);
- umqobo wendalo iphela;
- Iithoyimitha ezenziwe ekhaya;
-Imidlalo / i-ART.
Unganika njani-iskripthi sakho
-Unika into yokudlala kwindawo enomtsalane yendawo. Unomdla. Mcele ukuba akubonise indlela yokuyisebenzisa.
-Unika into entsha, engaqhelekanga. Ukulungiselela kuyafuneka apha. Ibali lokuqala ngaphandle komdlalo, ke ukubek 'ityala, kunye ukuba banciphise. Kwaye qiniseka ukuba udlala kunye. Ukuba inzala ayivuswanga, susa yonke into ukuya kwixesha elizayo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuthatha izihlandlo ezihlanu ukuze umntwana aqhele, eyixabisa into yokudlala.
-Umntwana ngokukhawuleza uqhekezwa kwizipho ezinxulumene nesizathu sekhonkrithi. Kungcono ukunika ngokungalindelekanga, kwaye ngeholide - kwinani eliphakathi.