Ewe, kunjalo, ufumana ngokunyaniseka intombi kwaye uhlangabezana nentiyo ebhekiswe kumfana, wamnika icebiso elingaguqukiyo: "Ewe, uye kuzo zonke ii-hells !!! Kutheni ungakufuni !!! Kuye kwiingxaki !!! " Intombazana ethile ilandela ingcebiso yakho, inika i-buddled ibuye ixesha, kwaye ngokwemvelo ihamba. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva koko kuyavela ukuba umhlobo akanakuphila ngaphandle kwawo, kwaye ngokubanzi ngoku ayilololo. Kwaye into emnyama kukuba umelwe kukoyityala kule meko ... kwaye ngubani onike ibhunga elinje "?
Okanye uyeza indoda ekhaya, idiniwe kwaye ilambile. Kwaye igumbi ilawula ukuphazamiseka kobugcisa, isidlo sangokuhlwa asikulungeli, umfazi wonwabe ekhitshini nomhlobo weglasi yeglasi, umntwana uxakekile ngekhe aqonde ukuba zeziphi izifundo ezenziwe ... Ngokubanzi, zigcwele yodaka. Indoda yam igcwele ligazi, kwaye uqala ukuba bekhwaza ngomfazi wakhe, ukuba agxeke izandla, ukuba angabi nako ukujinga, angenzi lula na ukupheka isidlo sangokuhlwa, nomntwana. Umfazi, eqonda ukuba umyeni wenxalenye kwaye ulungile, uqala ukuziva unetyala, uyaxolisa kwaye ucele uxolo. Iphakamisa kuphela umyeni wakhe kuphela, ukhwaza ihlathi langaphambili, umfazi uqalisa ukulila. Umhlobo uyeza enkundleni, ezama ukukhusela umfazi wakhe. Uvela kumyeni wakhe: "Kwaye wenze into konke konke, ukuba akukho zibophelelo kusapho, akuthethi ukuba akukho abanye." Ngoku umfazi uqala ukuhlasela umyeni wakhe: "Batsho, luhlobo luni lwe-zun ophakamayo !!!". Kwaye umyeni uqalisa ukuqonda ukuba woyika intonga, kwaye ethula. UZina, bengcatsha umyeni wakhe "Inkosi yetyala, yeza, indoda idiniwe ngaye akenzekanga." Kwaye ke inokuqhubeka kwisangqa kwi-infinity.
Ukuba ujonga, kwiimeko zombini, iindima ezi-3 ziyabonakala: amaxhoba, umsuker kunye nomhlangusi. Ngolwesibini, abantu bade batshintshana nabo.
Ke, umsuker, uyacinezela, ungumntu ophumelelweyo. Ihlala ityholwa nokuhlaselwa, ukuzijonga ngokwakhe kuyinyani. Yiba nemihlali imvakalelo yamandla, uzive ulungile.
Ixhoba alonwabanga, lingonwabi ebomini, likhutyekisiwe, lihlala linengxaki, lixhomekeke kwabanye, lifuna uncedo. Ihlala ilungele ukubingelela, ngokufihlakeleyo ukuba iya kuhlawulelwa ukubandezeleka kwayo. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu - akunakuze kugcinwe, nokuba umhlanguli akazange azame kangakanani.
Umhlanguli-Soloko uyanceda, kodwa uncedo lwakhe aluzange luxabiseke kwaye luvuzwe.
Imodeli enjalo yolwalamano iqhelekile, kwaye kuwo onke amabakala obomi. Uninzi luye lwaya kule nto, nasekusebenzeni. Umzekelo, xa umsebenzi esiza kuwe aze athi akakwazi ukujongana nomsebenzi othile. "Uquka" ukuhlangula: ukunyathela, qinisekisa ukuba uza kunceda kunokuba unakho, emva koko uxanduva lukuwe.
Umdlalo kule nxantathu uyonakalisa kakhulu. Kodwa bonke abathathi-nxaxheba bafumana iibhonasi. Ixhoba alizicombululi iingxaki zayo, ukongeza, njengoko linokubonwa kule mizekelo ingentla (ngakumbi kwiimeko zentombi, apho inkwenkwe iphose kakhulu, kwaye inabantu iqabane), ukusuka kulula kakhulu ukuba ibaxhaphaza abanye. Ngokubanzi, kule ndima, wonke umntu uyalwa, yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Umhlanguli uziva ukubaluleka kwayo kunye nemfuno yakhe, enceda ixhoba. Iiprojekthi ezisukelayo ezingenakuncedwa abanye, ngaloo ndlela zifumana impazamo kwaye ziphose uxinzelelo.
Kwaye ngoku eyona nto iphambili- indlela yokuphuma kulo nxantathu?
Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba bakuyo, kwaye bayiqonde indima yakho. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba iindima ziyatshintsha, ngoko nangoko azikhanyele kubo bonke kwaye uzame ukuthatha indawo yombukeli ngokunxulumene noko kuyenzeka. Ukuze angabi lixhoba, kubalulekile ukuthatha uxanduva lolwaneliseko lweminqweno yakho kunye neemfuno zakho, ukungalindeli ukuba baphumelele ngempumelelo kwiimeko kwaye bancede kwabanye. Ukuyeka indima yomsukelo, kuyimfuneko ukubona indima yayo kwinto eyenzekayo kwaye ingazami ukufuna ukugxekwa. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, malunga nomhlanguli-zama ukungaphazamisi ubudlelwane babanye, nokuba ngaba ezinye ziya kuba zizihlobo zakho. Sukuzama ukusombulula iingxaki zabanye abantu xa abantu bengakwazi ukujongana nazo, kwaye nangaphezulu kwiimeko apho ungabuzwa khona. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, enye yomahluko ophambili phakathi komhlanguli ovela kumncedisi kukuba umncedisi ubandakanyekile apho ebuzwa khona, kwaye umhlanguli naphi na ngaphandle kwendawo.
Ngokubanzi, yiba ngokuvisisana kwaye uthathe uxanduva ngobomi bakho - ingfihlakalo iphambili kubudlelwane obuhambelana nabanye;)
P. s.: Kule mbhalo, ndachaza imodeli uStephen Karpman.