Inzala yabo baye bafumana ukothuka kwaye baphuke ubomi bobomi bahlala bephupha ngeziqinisekiso. Umzekelo, abantu beza kubonisana kwaye baxelele izinto ezoyikisayo zokuhlaselwa, imfazwe kunye nengcinezelo, abasinda abaz' kunye nabazukileyo, abasindileyo, abasinda kubo abazali. Ngoku, abantu abakhulileyo ngeentsuku zokuhlengahlengiswa, uLyha × 90s, oye wahlasela ngokwabo, wayehleli ngokwamaqela, okanye ababukele abantwana babo nobunzima ebomini. Kwaye ngokufuthi kuya kufuneka uve oko ngoku ebomini ndingathanda ukuzola, ubutyebi kunye neziqinisekiso! Umzekelo, umtshato yi-inshurensi evela kwilolo, kwaye umvuzo wenyanga-uqinisekisa ubomi obunoxolo, ukhathalela abantwana - iholide ka-1-2 izihlandlo ezi-1-2 ngonyaka - kunye nokuthenga I-inshurensi yobomi yingozi nganye. Kwaye yonke into inengqiqo, kuba inokuthi ingakanani ikhefu, amathuba aphukileyo, izicwangciso ezibiweyo kunye nethemba? Abantu bayazikhathalela, gcina izinto ezenziweyo. Kuyinyani, bayabandezeleka ngenxa yokunqongophala, i-monotony, ukuntywila ngokukhawuleza kwamandla. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba imitshato ikhula, abantwana bakhula bandule, ngelo xesha bafumanisa ukuba inzame zokwenza ukuba kubekho ukulalanisa. Ukuba awukhawulezeni, cinga ngononophelo ubomi bakho, emva koko unokufumana indlela enokuthi ilawule ngayo, njengoko ukukhohlisa kukhuseleko kukhuseleko, njengeziqinisekiso ezincinci, njengemiceli mngeni encinci ekuchaseni i-TATER yonke imihla kuyo . Ndiyakuthanda xa bathumela amaphupha ukuya kwimixholo engapheliyo, eqhubekayo. Nantsi enye yazo evela kumaphupha ethu namhlanje:
"Sidanisa kwiliner enkulu yolwandle, kwaye ngequbuliso iqalisa isaqhwithi. Amaza amakhulu anikike inqanawa: amanzi, imvula, umoya. Kwinqanawa eyoyikisayo. Ndiyoyika, kwaye ndiyayiqonda indlela ebaluleke ngayo, kwaye inokuthi iphele njani. Sonke sinako ukufa. Kwangelo xesha, ndinemvakalelo yokuba ndinokufakwa kwinkqubela phambili. Kwaye ndikulungele ukulwela ubomi bam. Amaza anyuka onke entla, umoya kunye nemvula bafumana amandla, ndihlala ndibambelele kumngxunya wenqanawa kwaye ndibone ukuba icala lecala lintywiliselwe emanzini. Ngeli xesha, sizitshabalalisa kwinqanaba lamafu ngeemitha kumakhulu amabini anamakhulu amabini anentyatyambo, simanzi, kwelinye icala, ke amaxesha amaninzi. Yonke into endinayo i-inshurensi, ndiqinile ngokuqinileyo kwaye ndibukele izinto, nditshingcwe, ndinjenge-wing, phezulu nasezantsi. Emanzini nasemanzini. Ndiyamangaliswa kukuba ezinye ii-rags zindibambe, kwaye andikwazi ukubhabha, apho izinto bezizakukhusela ngokukhawuleza.
Ndivuka ndisothusa, ndixakekile kukuba i-inshurensi elula igcinwe kwisiphaqhwithi esinamandla, kwaye malunga nokuzithemba kwehlabathi, ukholo kum namandla akho kunye namandla akho. "
Ukulala kubonakala. Ulwandle, isaqhwithi luphawu logonyamelo, ngeendlela ezininzi ezingalindelekanga, olunamandla nolunamandla kwaye lunamandla lwe-heroine yethu. Kwangelo xesha, igcinwe i-rafrops ye-rafrops - mhlawumbi, ngohlobo lwezicwangciso zobomi ezilula, ezigcinwa yintloko yezinto zezinto.
I-Therapist i-Irwin ye-Irwin yakha indlela ayenzayo yeklinikhi, ibeka isiseko sonyango olukhoyo, oko kukuthi, unyango lwentsingiselo yobomi. Kwaye isiseko sesi sikolo kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo ezisisiseko kwingcinga yobomi bentsingiselo. Omnye wabo uthi intsingiselo ikhona, le yi-akin yolwazi lobuthixo, kufuneka ukuba ivule kwaye imve kuye. Inkqubo yesibini ibonisa ukuba akukho ngqondo, ubomi abunangqondo ecacileyo, kwaye i-yal ilandela, kunoko, kujonga. Intsingiselo kukuba thina siyenza inkululeko yethu yasimahla. Umzekelo, ephupheni, u-Snodicta unokungena kwisigqibo esithandwayo sokuba ubomi buyingozi kwaye ukungaqiniseki ukuba kuyabanjwa: ukuzikhusela kumava aqinileyo, ukuzikhusela kwaye kugcinwe ngaphakathi, kodwa Zabalazela ukuvuma ukuthembana, imvume kunye neqhwithela lobomi. Kwaye kuphela kukhetho olululo sisiqinisekiso sokuthenjwa, hayi upreyini. Ubomi abuqinisekisi nantoni na ngokwayo, kodwa sinokukhetha indlela ethile kuyo, umbono othile. Ngoku iphupha lethu likhetha ukuzithemba.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin