Indawo yokuhlala edibeneyo kunye nabantu abadala luvavanyo olunzima kakhulu kwisizukulwana esincinci kunye namadoda amadala. Iinguqu zobudala zinyanzelisa ukubamba kwabo ubudlelwane, okwazi ukuba nengxabano, ekuhambeni kwexesha kukuphucula kuphela, kokuthintela nje ukuba baqonde abantu bomthonyama. Ke ngoko, sagqiba kwelokuba sinike icebiso elifutshane elisebenzayo kubantu ababangelwa ziimeko ngendlela efanayo.
Sukuzifihla iimvakalelo zakho
Ngamanye amaxesha imeko yokungqubana inokuba yimeko ethile yokupholisa ubudlelwane, obuye bakhokelela ekugqibeleni ukuba, mhlawumbi awusenazo iimvakalelo ezifudumeleyo njengangaphambili. Kumntu okhulileyo, ingcinga enjalo isenokuba yimoto enzima esenokuqhutywa ngoxinzelelo nangaphezulu, kwaye ukubeleka kwendlu encinci akuyi kuba nesiphelo. Kubalulekile apha ukunika abazali ohlangabezana neemvakalelo ezivuthayo kwaye akukho mpindezelo inokutshintsha. Musa ukoyika ukuthetha ngayo.
Awuyi kuba nakho ukutshintsha
Enye yeempazamo eziphambili zabantwana abadala zizama ukutshintsha abazali babo. Ewe, kulwalamano olunjalo kukho amaxesha apho kunzima ukuxolelanisa nawona mntu unganyangekiyo, ngamanye amaxesha ukuya kuthi ga ngoku ukuba uqale ukuthetha nomzali okanye enye imeko iba yingqungquthela ngakumbi, ukuba sele kukwindawo elandelayo. Ayifanele iyenza loo nto. Khumbula ukuba ukongeza kokungalunganga kubudlelwane bakho kukho amanqaku afanelekileyo, kutheni ungabambeleli kubo kunokuba kulungiswe umntu okhulileyo?
Phinda ufumane nokuqonda kwizalamane ezikhulileyo
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Senza isaphulelo kwiminyaka yobudala
Xa ubudlelwane buqala 'kwi-SEAMIN ", unyana okanye intombi yabantu abadala ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuyigcina into yokuba abazali bekungazange bafumane uhlengahlengiso, kwaye ihlonitshwe rhoqo yenza uhlengahlengiso kumbono we Umhlaba kwaye uhlehlise imbonakalo. Akukho sidingo sokucaphukisa ngenxa yokuba abazali bakho banokuthi baphike kancinci okanye batyhafiswe. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu onokuyenza kule meko injalo kukuqalisa ukuqalisa. Soloko ukhumbula malunga nobudala.
Zama ukuphazamisa isalamane esikhulileyo
Unokucaphukisa inyani yokuba umama okanye uTata uchithe ixesha, njengoko ucinga, kodwa uchithekile, kodwa faka imigangatho yabo - imihla yabo incinci, kwaye ke kubonakala ngathi ubomi babo bubonakala buyintshukumo kwaye ke bungaxelwanga. Azisekukhathazeki ngaloo nto. Endaweni yezityholo, zama ukufumana indlela yokwenza ubomi babo buqaqambile, umzekelo, buza nomsebenzi, obuya kubaphazamisa kwiingxaki nakwiingcinga ezibuhlungu. Inokusombulula ezinye iingxaki zakho.