Kutshanje, ibhinqa eliselula labelana nam. Ndixakekile, kufuneka ndithethe. Ndiyisondeza njengomzekelo namhlanje:
"Utata, obomi bobuhlobo obuphelileyo, ndiphupha ndiphupha ndithenge ingwenya enkulu kwaye ndaziswa endlwini. Emva koko wathi unemicimbi eninzi kwaye ngandlela ithile wanyamalala endlwini, ndahlala ndedwa ndinengwenya eyingozi. Sinomzabalazo kunye naye, ngenxa yokusinda, ndayixhela le ngwenya. Yintoni? "
Ukulala kunyanisekile kwaye kubonakala ngokucacileyo ukuba akuyi kuba nzima ukuzibamba.
Iphupha lethu mhlawumbi liyayibona utata wakhe, njenge-monster, eyingozi kwaye isoyikisa, ekufuneka isoyike, ekufuneka ihlawulwe. Kungacinga ukuba ubudlelwane babo bunjengemfazwe: Iingxabano, ngokungxamisekileyo, amabango, umgama omkhulu phakathi kwabo.
Kwangelo xesha, iphupha ngokwalo liyicebo: Utata wokwenene washiya indlu ephupheni, eshiya ingwenya endaweni yakhe. Ngamanye amagama, iqhawe lethu lisilwa notata wokwenene, kodwa kwindlela eya kuhlala ngayo ngenxa yamava aqokelelweyo. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, unomsindo omkhulu okanye ukhathazekile nguYise, kuba uhlala elungele ukuhlaselwa okanye ukuzikhusela.
Kwimeko enjalo, kukho amathuba ambalwa okufikelela utata wokwenene, akukho thuba lokuthetha naye lingacacanga ngokudlula iminyaka.
Asililo ixesha ephupheni, kwaye kubomi benene ngo-Anew ukuya kudibana notata wakho. Kuyenzeka ukwazi ukuba ibengcono njengomntu, kwaye hayi njengegunya, apho iimfuno ezilindeleke kuzo.
Ngamanye amagama, njani ukutshintsha umbono "wee-monsters" kwi "PAP-Umntu"?
Umsebenzi awulula, kangangeenxalenye ezininzi zabantu baphile ngombono wokuba izimvo zabo malunga nezithandwa zabo ziyinyaniso kwinyani yokugqibela. Ukuba iinkolelo zohlobo "Umama awusoze uqonde" okanye "utata ufunda kuphela", ukuze kungabikho thuba lokusondelelana nokuxhasa abazali babo. Kodwa oku kuyafuneka ukuba le mithetho iyekile ukuqiniswa: lixesha lokutyala imali ekunxibelelaneni nabantu obathandayo, umngcipheko, zama, ukuchitha ixesha kunye, thetha i-incoko, mema kwingxoxo.
Kubonakala ngathi amaphupha ethu anamathuba ukuba afunde iphupha lakhe ngale ndlela.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni?
UMaria Zmvuskova, ugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango losapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqesho loQeqesho loQeqeshe leMarika Khazina