Sisoloko sitsalela amadoda aphila ngokwemithetho yabo aze enze into abayifunayo. Nangona kunjalo, kule meko, kukho amathuba aphezulu okukhubeka kumthandi oyingozi oya kuzisa iingxaki ezininzi.
Iingcali zengqondo zibonelela ngeempawu ezininzi apho unokuqikelela umgangatho wobungozi ukuba uthatha isigqibo sobuhlobo nendoda enjalo.
Wenza yonke into ngendlela yakhe
Xa intlanganiso, amadoda anjalo atsala ingqalelo, njengommiselo, abafazi bazimisele kakhulu ukunxibelelana nomntu onjalo. Kubonakala ngathi umntu onokukhusela ngobundlongondlongo ngeyona meko ilukhuni, unokuyeka ngokulula zonke izinto ezibalulekileyo ukuze uchithe ixesha kunye nawe oya kuba nguMthandi ogqibeleleyo. Kwaye kakhulu ukuba ngumfazi ulinde ukuphoxeka xa sele kuviwe ukuba indoda ayizukubonisa imbeko kwaye iyenzakalise into ayithandayo, idla ngokwenzakaliswa kweqabane.
Sukuzithoba ngokwakho
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Indoda iqhubeka nokufuna, mayitsho "hayi"
Kwimixilongo, iimeko ezinjalo ziyathandwa: Indoda eyaliwe, kodwa ayizami ukufezekisa umfazi, kwaye ekugqibeleni kuyanikezela. Ebomini, indlela yokuziphatha ithetha ngendawo yokuhlala yabanye abantu. Xa umntu engaziqondi ukuba abafuni naziphi na iimeko kuye, kodwa baqhubeka ngokuzimela ukuba bahlakulele kubudlelwane obusondeleyo, abalindeli kuye izenzo ezaneleyo ebhedini.
Uyakuthanda ukuthotywa
Kwaye hayi, ayinanto yakwenza ne-BDSM. Ukuba umntu ukhetha izenzo zesondo ezizisa iintlungu kunye nokungakhathazeki kuwe, zinokuthathwa njengengxaki. Ungacingi ukuba kuyakuphumelela, kungcono ukunika abafowunelwa nomntu onjalo kwaye uye kufuna iqabane lakho oza kucinga ngawe xa usenza wena.
Uyakuthintela unxibelelwano kwiinkampani ezinengxolo
Ewe kunjalo, kukho abantu abakunzima ukuqokelela, ukuba phakathi kwabantu. Kodwa kuyenzeka ukuba umntu abe ngumgaqo ongakhathaliyo unxibelelwano, akazikhathalelanga iimvakalelo zabanye abantu, kwaye, ngokomgaqo, into abacinga ngayo ngaye. Kwaye hayi owona mgqatswa obalaseleyo ebhedini yakho. Khumbula ukuba umntu ongakhathaliyo kwintuthuzelo yabanye abantu abayi kunikela ingqalelo kuqhanqalazo lwakho ebhedini.
Indoda kufuneka ikuhlonele
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Ukuphikisa kwakho kuyabonwabisa
Njengomthetho, indoda yanele enye yokwala kwakho ukuyeka ukukubeka kuwe. Kodwa ukuba awukhange kwaye ngaphezulu kwesinye, kwaye akakwazi kuyeka, acinge ukuba ufanele ukuba "ahlukane nokungafezeki kwento ethile. Rhoqo, le ndlela yokuziphatha ibonisa utyekelo logonyamelo.