Iingxelo ze-sexy zinezizathu ezininzi-zebhayoloji nezembali. Kwimeko yokuqala, egqabaza ngokuziphatha kwabasetyhini, amadoda nabafazi ngokwabo baguqukela kwi-Phambili bangaphambili kwindima yomgodi, ebusweni bentliziyo ebusweni bomfazi. Njengalo ngobangela wesibini, kukuqhubeka kwesona sizwe sokuqala ukusasazwa ngokwesiko sigcinwe, esihlala sinegalelo. I-Wirhshit ichaphazela ezona zigulana zingumxholo wamabhinqa-ukuqhuba-kwaye icacisa ukuba i-qhube yezakhono ezimbi iya kuqhuba.
Bona i-MEPMS malunga nebhinqa eliqhubayo
Xa iMizognia inyamalale
Ukuthatyathwa kwesondo elithile kunokuchazwa ziingxaki zengqondo zomntu kunye nokufakelwa kwezentlalo. Ukuba kuluntu kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukukholelwa ukuba le ndoda ilawula kakuhle imoto, ibonisa ukuba amabhinqa awela kwinani elincinci lengozi kwaye, ngokubanzi, aziphathe kwisondo elincinci. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uphume esiphelweni unokutshintsha kuphela ngotshintsho lwezizukulwana-Ulutsha lubaluleke kakhulu ukuchaneka kolwazi kwaye luxhasa ngokulinganayo kunesizukulwana salo, kwaye ke siyathemba ukuba abantwana babo abayikhumbuli loo ntlalo Isimo sengqondo.
Indawo yabasetyhini kudala ayizange ikhitshi
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Kutheni sithuka
Umntu ngamnye unoluhlu lwamatyala alungile kulo. Abanye bayayazi indlela yokuzoba, abanye bacula okanye bacule kakuhle okanye badanise, kwaye owesithathu yimoto. Iqela lokugqibela elingayamkeli ubuthathaka bayo phambi kwabantu besini esahlukileyo. Amadoda azama ukuzibeka ezona zikhanyiso zilungileyo, iziqhulo zabasetyhini, kwaye zikhutyekisiwe okanye ziziphatha kakuhle, zizama ukubonisa ubungqina baso. Akukho, nelinye icala elilungile. Abasetyhini kufuneka bangazihoyi iingcibi, kodwa bachaze abantu abaneleyo ukuba amazwi abo angakhi. Kwaye amadoda kufuneka anyaniseke ngakumbi kwaye angamsibeki kum wonke umntu ophantsi kwengqumbo enye: unobangela weempazamo zabasetyhini emva kokuziqhelanisa nokunyuka kwezenzo, eso sizathu sokuba silumkele ngakumbi nangakumbi.
Abantu abangathandekiyo kufuneka bangahoywa ngoxolo lwabo
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Ungasabela njani kwiziyobisi ezingathandekiyo
Eyona ndlela ilula kukunciphisa umda unxibelelwano kunye nomoni. Kuyinyani ngaphambi kokuba kufanelekile ukumbuza umbuzo, ngaba akazange aqaphele ukuba abantu bangenza iimpazamo emva kwevili? Ukuba uyabona ukuba umntu watshintsha intetho ebusweni kwaye waziva engenasisa, ke wavusa isazela kuwo kwaye wakuqonda ukungasebenzi kwamazwi akhe. Kwaye ukuba uqhubeka ukolula izijengo ezinesidenge kwaye avuse, kufuneka waphule naye kwaye ungazinzisi nerves zakho.