Umzekelo obonakalayo usenokuba liphupha lomnye wabafundi bethu:
"Ukulala ngokwenyani ngam, ndiphuphe umntu endisebenza naye. Uphupha ukuba uza kum e-ofisini, kodwa ayisebenzi njengesincinci kwaye incinci kwaye ikwere, kwaye inesidima, icocekile, ngaphandle kwe-junk. Eludongeni lixhoma imephu yeRussia. Ndihleli negosa lamadoda, kwaye sijonga eli khadi. Ndimxelela indlela yokufikelela kwisixeko esinye. Ndicacisa ukuba kufuneka uhambe kwimida emithathu. Undibona emva kwetafile ngebhokisi ebonakalayo. Kwaye kuyo inyoka, kwaye imitha enkulu, yemitha emiselweyo, ebomvu. Umbala omnandi, kwimibala, ngokungathi irhabaxa. Akaphili. Kukho isiqwenga esikhulu, umsila, ngaphandle kwentloko. Umntu osebenza naye undibuza ukuba yintoni. Kwaye ndiyamcacisela-bathi, oko kuyinto entle, umntu emvelele. Imimandla ihlala izisa izipho okanye izikhumbuzo. Into yeyakho, enemibala. Umntu endisebenza naye akafanelekanga ukuba akhangele njengesidumbu, ivumba alizange livakale, kodwa kubonakala ngathi ngokuqinisekileyo akunakwenzeka. Ephupheni lakhe, ndiyavumelana naye loo nto, ewe, inyoka ibonakale engaqhelekanga. "
Umntu osebenza naye uxelele eli phupha kumfundi wethu, njengoko bekucinge ukuba le yayiyi-hair yengxaki ethile emsebenzini.
Kwangelo xesha, kufanelekile ukuthetha into ebalulekileyo malunga namaphupha kunye nabantu esibathandayo. Ukulala yimveliso ye-subconstonce yethu: uloyiko lwakho, uloyiko, ubunzima, iingxabano. Ngamanye amagama, ukulala kubonisa i-prism, apho ilizwe lamaphupha liyayibona. Kuyenzeka ukuba lo mfanekiso awuvelelwanga konke malunga nemeko yokwenyani, apho umfundi wethu watyibilika inyoka phantsi kohlobo lokwenene. Akakuthethi ukoyika iingxaki emsebenzini, kuba wonke lo mfanekiso unokuba ngumfanekiso wezinye iziganeko ngokupheleleyo kubomi bamaphupha, esingenalo umbono.
Ukuba usacinga ukuba iphupha libonakalise inyani kwindalo esebenzayo yaba bafazi babini, kwamehlo lowo wayenephupha, le meko ibonakala ngathi umntu osebenza naye uza kuphuma emideni, ngelixa engacingeli loo nto kwi Kwangoko intsimi yohlobo oluthile lokubola, oluthatha isipho, into exabisekileyo.
Ngamanye amagama, iphupha lethu libukele iqabane lakhe likhetha izicwangciso ezifika kude ngaphandle kokulungisa inkunkuma kunye nenyani yokuba uyayityeshela into yokugcina impumlo ngqo phantsi kwempumlo yakhe. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba inyani yile yokuba iphupha lethu lizicwangciso, ngaphandle kokucingisisa into kum kwaye ndityumze ubomi bakhe ngoku.
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UMaria Zmvuskova, ugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango losapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqesho loQeqesho loQeqeshe leMarika Khazina