Nangona abantu bathanda ukugxila kwiinkalo ezininzi ezintle zobudlelwane obunempilo, kubalulekile na ukulwa kakubi, ngakumbi xa indlela yokuziphatha eguqukayo iguqulwa ibe yityhefu yobungozi kunye nokugula. Ubundlobongela kubudlelwane bunokuthatha iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukongeza kubundlobongela obuphathekayo, kukho ubundlobongela beemvakalelo kunye nengqondo, ekunzima ngakumbi ukuyamkela. Abafazi, ngokweenkcukacha-manani, zihlala zibonisa. Kufanelekile ukuba siqonda ukuba singobuqili kwaye sihlala sinoncedo lweentsilelo. Siqulunqe uluhlu lweempawu ezisisiseko zobudlelwane obungenampilo:
"Undihlawula ixesha elincinci"
Imvakalelo yokude kubantu kufutshane nawe yiflegi ebomvu. Mhlawumbi bakwenza uzive uxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kubo okanye tyala ngenxa yokuba uchitha ixesha nabanye. Nokuba bakwenza njani, iqabane lakho alinakwenza ukuba uzive lube lodwa kusapho, izihlobo kunye nabanye abantu abasondeleyo.
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"Yiza, yiya kwiintombi zakho, zibhetele"
Nangona ikhwele liyindalo kwaye lingenakufikeleleka kwiimeko ezithile, linokuba yityhefu kuxhomekeke kwindlela wena okanye iqabane lakho lijamelana neemvakalelo. Ikhwele liyingozi kakhulu xa lisetyenziswa njengesizathu sokufumana i-proprietary, enomsindo okanye elawula iintshukumo. Ukongeza, umona ogqithisileyo unokungabonakalise ukungazithembi, kuyinto etyhefu ngayo nayiphi na intlonipho.
"Uphinde wenze yonke into"
Xa kufikwa kwizityholo, wonke umntu uphulukana. Ukususa ngokukhawuleza ityala xa ukungqubana nengxaki akukuvumeli kwaye iqabane lakho limamele omnye komnye kwaye lisombulule ingxaki kunye. Nokuba bakufuphi, amava abo exesha elidlulileyo okanye omnye umntu, ukungakwazi ukuthatha uxanduva ngezenzo zabo - uphawu olubi.
"Kufuneka sithethe ngokunzulu"
Iimbambano ezigqithisileyo kunye nenkanuko akufuneki zidideke. Nokuba iimpikiswano zibonakala zingabalulekanga, rhoqo iingxabano ezincinci zinokubonisa ingxaki enzulu. Ukuba uhlala unyusa ilizwi lakho omnye komnye, unokuba neengxaki ezingasonjululwanga kunxibelelwano.
"Kulungile, xa sele ukhulile"
Iindawo zemibhalo nganye njengeeprojekthi, hayi kubantu yintlekele. Ayilunganga ngokunxulumene nawe zombini zama ukuguqula iqabane kwinguqulelo yakho yomntu ogqibeleleyo. Nangona nganye inemimandla enokuphuculwa, imizamo yokutshintsha iinkalo eziphambili zabanye-umqondiso wokuba awungqinelani.
Abafazi abakhweleyo abanomdla kuye nabani na
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Ukuba wena okanye umntu obaziyo unako ukwindawo emzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo okanye kubunyani bengqondo, ungoyiki ukucela uncedo. Izixhobo zasimahla neziyimfihlo ezinjenge-shorewness kubundlobongela basekhaya okanye amaziko e-risis inokubonelela ngoncedo kunye nenkxaso efunekayo ukubuyisela ulawulo kulawulo lobomi bakho.