Njengomzali, udlulisa abantwana bakho hayi kuphela. Kananjalo abantwana bamkela imikhwa yakho - okuhle nokubi. Bonisa abantwana bakho ukuba ubakhathalele ngokwabelana ngezi ngcebiso kwisondlo, eziya kusetyenziswa ixesha elide emva:
Umkhwa woku-1: Yenza ukutya okumibalabala
Ukutya kwiimveliso zokutya zombala owahlukileyo akuzolo kuphela, kodwa kunye nezibonelelo zempilo. Nceda abantwana bakho baqonde ixabiso lesondlo sokungabandakanywa kufundo lwabo oluqhelekileyo lweemveliso ezinemibala emininzi. Oku akuthethi ukuba isidlo ngasinye kufuneka sibe nemibala emininzi. Kodwa kufuneka uzame ukubandakanya iziqhamo kunye nemifuno ekutyeni kwakho kwezithunzi ezahlukeneyo. Vumela imibala eyahluka ukusuka ebomvu, iblowu kunye neorenji ibe tyheli, eluhlaza nomhlophe.
Kuya kufuneka uzame ukubandakanya iziqhamo kunye nemifuno ekutyeni kwakho kwezithunzi ezahlukeneyo.
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Umkhwa 2: Sukutsiba isidlo sakusasa
Ukuba ufundisa abantwana ukuba batye rhoqo ebuntwaneni, iya kwandisa amathuba ukuba aya kuwugcina lo mkhwa ukuba mdala xa sele aluphele. Bafundise ukuba isidlo sakusasa esisempilweni: idlulisela ingqondo namandla abo, ibanceda bahlale bomelele, bohlwaye uhlaselo lwezifo ezingapheliyo. Isikolo sezonyango saseHarvard siqinisekisa ukuba ukwala isidlo sakusasa ngamaxesha amane ukubakho. Kunye nomxholo omkhulu wefayibha kwiifletshi ezininzi zesidlo sakusasa zinokunceda ukunciphisa umngcipheko wesifo seswekile kunye nesifo sentliziyo.
Umkhwa 3: Khetha ukuzilolonga okumnandi
Asinguye wonke umntwana othanda ezemidlalo, abanye banokoyika imfundo yomzimba. Kodwa ukuba bayabona ukuba uyasebenza, kwaye ufumana umthambo ukuba bayathanda, bahlala besempilweni kwaye bayasebenza kuya kuba lula. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, banokuhlehlisa uthando lwezi klasi xa bebadala. Ukuba umntwana wakho akakayifumani imidlalo yezemidlalo yakhe, khuthaza ukuba uqhubeke nokuzama kwaye ubonise umsebenzi kunye naye. Nika ukubandakanyeka kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo zomsebenzi womzimba, njengokubhukuda, ukuthambisa okanye umthambo okanye umthambo. Ngokuqinisekileyo baya kufumana into abayithandayo.
Umkhwa we-4: Sela amanzi, hayi igesi
Amanzi aluncedo, kwaye iziselo ziyingozi kwimpilo. Nokuba abantwana bakho abaziqondi zonke izizathu zokuba unxunguphalo kakhulu zinobungozi, unokubanceda baziqonde iziseko. Umzekelo, ngokombutho we-Cardiogy (ATHA), iswekile kwiziselo ezingenakutyibilikisi ayiqhayisi. Ukwahlula iikhalori, ezinokukhokelela kwiingxaki ubunzima. Kwelinye icala, amanzi sisibonelelo esibalulekileyo, ngaphandle kokuba abantu abanakuphila.
Umkhwa woku-5: Jonga iilebheli
Abantwana bakho, ngakumbi ulutsha, banokukhathalela iileyibheli ezingubeni zabo. Babonise ukuba lolunye uhlobo lweleyibhile, ibaluleke ngakumbi ngempilo yabo: ileyibhile ebonisa ixabiso lesondlo. Bonisa abantwana njengoko iimveliso zabo abazithandayo zenziwe zineelebheli ezinolwazi olubalulekileyo malunga nesondlo. Ukulungiselela ukungayigcwalisi ngaphezulu, gxila kwiinxalenye ezininzi eziphambili zeleyibhile, njengenani lesahlulo: Iikhalori, amafutha agxunyelweyo kunye nokuhambisa iswekile.
I-trapez yosapho inceda ukungabinamali
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Umkhwa woku-6: Yonwabela isidlo sangokuhlwa soSapho
Ngenxa yeshedyuli yosapho exakekileyo, kunzima ukufumana ixesha lokuhlala phantsi kwaye lonwabele isidlo, kodwa kufanelekile ukuzama. Ngokweyunivesithi yaseFlorida, izifundo zibonakalise ukuba iitreyitha zosapho ezidibeneyo zithetha ukuba iibhondi zosapho ziya zinqile, wonke umntu uhlengahlengiswa, wonke umntu utya okunesondlo kakhulu, wonke umntu uhlala egula kakhulu okanye egudileyo, abantwana bambalwa kakhulu iziyobisi okanye utywala.