Emva kokuhlukanisa kubonakala ngathi awusoze udibane nomntu. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha elihambayo, upholile, kwaye ngoku umntu omtsha ubonakala phezulu, ebonakalisa ububele. Ngokwemvelo, iya kwisondo, kwaye uqalisa ukoyikeka - iya kuba njani kwaye iphoxeke ukuba zombini? Siza kuzama ukukunceda ukuba ungene kubusuku bokuqala kunye neqabane ukuze yonke into ihamba kakuhle.
Kwaye ulungele njani?
Ewe kona, ayingabo bonke, kodwa amantombazana amaninzi kwimizamo yokuzibonakalisa ngokwawo nakwabanye, emva kokophula, baphilile, baxakekile kubudlelwane obutsha. Eyona nto iphambili kukuvavanya imeko - ubudlelwane obutsha buyafuneka kuwe okanye kwimimandla yakho? Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene isiqingatha sesibini kwaye awunakuba sedwa, ke kukho ingqondo yokuqalisa ukukhangela ngokusebenzayo kwaye, mhlawumbi, vumelana ngomhla kunye nendoda efana neklabhu, kodwa kuphela ukuba uyifuna. Ke awuyi kuba nemvakalelo yokuba "ucinyiwe apho."
Mxelele malunga nokhetho lwam
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Sukulinda kakhulu
Emva kokuba ugqibe kwelokuba balungele ubudlelwane nomntu omtsha, uqala ukunxibelelana ngesondo lokuqala, apho uhlala ulindele into emangalisayo. Ewe, umntu omaziyo akhoyo unokuthi ahleke, uyabathanda, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ungumntu oqhelekileyo kwaye ulinde umhla wakho ngokuqhubeka kwefilimu-ngokuqinisekileyo ayifanelekanga. Iinyawo ezinkulu olinde le ndoda, iphakame kakhulu ukuba ukuphoxeka okuqinileyo akulinde.
Khetha iimpahla kunye nengubo yangaphantsi
Njengokuziqhelanisa nemiboniso, amadoda anqabile ukuba athabathele ingqalelo ngamaqabane eempahla, ngakumbi ukuba bagutyungelwe yinkanuko. Kodwa akuthethi konke onokuthi unxibe oko kuwa. Zikhulule kule meko: Ukuba uyakumema kwindawo yokutyela, nxiba isinxibo, kwaye phantsi kwaso impahla ecekeceke incinci, ayifunayo ekupheleni kwangokuhlwa. Uyakumema ukuba uchithe ubusuku ekhaya? Hayi ingxaki, thabatha iimpahla ezintle, ekungafuneki ukuba uneengxaki zokuvalwa kwenkanuko. Kodwa khumbula ukuba i-bras yezemidlalo, impahla yangaphantsi yangaphantsi-ngokuqinisekileyo ayichaphazeli i-nyakaed ngokuhlwa.
Musa ukulinda ngaphandle kwanto yakudala
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Xoxa yonke into "elunxwemeni"
Ewe, iziyolo zesondo uya kufumana ngakumbi ukuba iqabane lakho elizayo liya kukwazi ukhetho lwakho. Ukuba kukho ithuba elinjalo, zama ukungangqinelani malunga ne-hint malunga nendoda: Ingqwalaselo ekhethekileyo ihlawulwe kwinto leyo "engayithandiyo". Oku kuya kunceda kwinqanaba lokuqala ukulumkisa indoda kwizenzo eziya kukunika imvakalelo engathandekiyo. Ngenye indlela, unokuziqhelanisa nesondo esibonakalayo, kodwa ulungiselele ukuhlangabezana nokunganyangeki - ayinguye wonke umntu olungele iimvavanyo ezikwi-Intanethi.