Abazali babantwana abadala bahlala bebhekiswa kum: ukuba bazithathele ukuba abantwana babo bakhule, bahlala ngokwahlukeneyo, bayaphila. Bafuna ukubanceda - kwaye iindlalifa ziyavuma ukunceda kwaye ziyeke ukunxibelelana kwaphela.
Umama ukhubekiso, uTata uyacaphuka, abazali bafuna ukuthatha inxaxheba kubomi babantwana njengangaphambili - kwaye abavumelekanga. Andithandi? Ayifuneki? Kwenziwe ntoni?
Kwaye nyani-manzi ntoni? Siboshwe ngokuqinileyo kwiTshathi yobomi babantwana kunye ne-Kindergarten, isikolo, iholide, izangqa, xa abantwana bekhula ngokungathi sithatha iqhekeza elikhulu, kwaye sikhuphe nomphefumlo.
Kubonakala ukuba wonwabile ukuba uvuyelwe: intsimbi ezimeleyo, ikhule, inokwenziwa ngokwazo-akunyanzelekanga ukuba ifune ukuba ifuneke apho ndifuna ukubetha khona ngokubanzi. Kwaye andifuni ukuya naphi na, kwaye ayifundwa, kwaye ayisebenzi. Ubomi, ubomi obuqhelekileyo, oqhele ukusekwa, busasazeke, kwaye kubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka ukuba uzixabise.
Kwaye ayicacanga ukuba ubudlelwane nomyeni ayo buza kwakhiwa njani ngoku ... emva koko bekucacile - uMama \ bawo, kwaye ngoku njani? Ewe, kucacile: Indlu, izalamane, ipropathi, yena weheyayo, izalamane ... emva koko? Ngaba wayephila ngokungathi ngenxa yabantwana, kwaye ngoku ngubani? Kwaye wonke umntu uqala ukukhangela umdla wabo - kwaye uhlala engeyiyo entsatsheni.
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Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu: akucaci indlela yokuqonda ukuba silungile? Ngaphambili, bekunokwenzeka ukuba uphefumlele emntwaneni-impilo, ubuchule, umlinganiso, ukumnyamekela. Ubuncinci kukho iindlela ezithile: "Umama olungileyo", "utata olungileyo". Ngoku kuphela le nkqubo yovavanyo iyeka ukusebenza - "inqaku lesalathiso" lilahlekile.
Kwenzeka ntoni kuwe kubizwa ngokuba yi "Dondrome" engenanto ". Okokuqala, ewe, ichaphazela abasetyhini - emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba nosizi kuthathwa njengendima yabasetyhini, nokuba isebenza njani kuphela nguMama kuphela okanye ukuba ngumphathi wendlu kuphela. Kodwa ootata banokuba nzima ngeli xesha - ngakumbi ukuba bebandakanyiwe kubomi bosapho kwaye bathathe inxaxheba ekukhuliseni.
Eli xesha linzima kubomi bosapho linokudlula ngendlela eqhelekileyo- ngokuxhomekeke kwi Ezinye zeengcebiso ezilula.
Ke, eyokuqala. Jonga indlela yakho, khumbuza amaphupha akho, iminqweno, iinjongo, kwaye uqalise ukubanika abanye ngobomi! Zibhale uluhlu lweminqweno yakho. Ngoku unexesha lokuthetha nabahlobo, khumbula into oyithandayo, kodwa kwakungekho xesha laneleyo. Okanye ngaba uza kuthatha isigqibo sokuhlaziya imfundo? Kwaye uqale imisebenzi entsha yobungcali?
Isibini . Ukuba (njengoko ucinga) kuphela abantwana bamanyene, ngoku lixesha lokudibana kwakhona! Zinike ixesha lokufunda - kwaye ngeli xesha kunokuba mnandi kakhulu kuni nobabini. Kwaye ubudlelwane bakho okanye buza kufumana "ukuphefumla okwesibini", okanye wena, njengesibini, siyahlukana, njengoko sele bengabazi abanye abantu. Ewe, kwaye yenzeka, kodwa ufumana ithuba lokuyenza ngoxolo nangentlonelo yokuhloniphana kunye nombulelo ngexesha elihlala kunye.
Bakhule abantwana bakho, bona ngokwabo banokuba ngabazali - kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo
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Isithathu Kwaye yeyona nto inzima kakhulu - funda ukumamela. Ukumamela nje iqabane lakho okanye umntwana wakho omdala uyakuxelela - kwaye wenze le meko ngokufanelekileyo. Ndiyayithanda lento? Sukuzama ukuthuthuzela, uncedo okanye ukucebisa ukuba iqabane okanye abantwana bayabelana nje. SORCSECS, buza ukuba ngaba yimfuneko ukunceda - kwaye ukuba akuyimfuneko (oko kukuthi, uncedo alubuzwa), ke ungancedi.
Isine . Ukuba usabela ngokweemvakalelo kwiziganeko zobomi kwaye uqhekeze kwinzame yokufumana ingqalelo ngakumbi, iyavela ngokuthe ngqo. Cinga ukuba ufuna ukuqwalaselwa ngendlela enobungozi?
Isihlanu . Akukho namnye umntwana okanye iqabane elinokuthi (kwaye akufuneki) inoxanduva lokungakhethi. Ngale nto-kwingcali. Udlulise elinye inqanaba elibalulekileyo ebomini: Uhlukane nomntwana, kwaye uvela kuwe.
Yiva usizi kunye nosizi xa hlukanisa uqhelekile ngokupheleleyo. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, unokufuna iminyaka emibini okanye emibini. Yiyeke ukubhukuda, thatha olu tshintsho- kwaye ubuye ebomini obuqhelekileyo.