Mhlawumbi, phantse sonke sinentombi okanye umhlobo ophupha ukutshata umphambukeli, kwaye mhlawumbi ngaphandle kokuyeka indlela emnandi ngayo iholide. Okanye ngaba wena ungakhathali inoveli engaqhelekanga? Nangona kunjalo, oochwephesha bezengqondo abaqwalaselwa njengenethemba-kubudlelwane kwaye ngakumbi emtshatweni nendoda yenye "imigibe". Siza kukuxelela ngento ekufuneka ucinge ngayo ngaphambi kokuba uye kwelinye ilizwe kwindoda yamaphupha akho.
Amaxabiso akho anokungahambelani
Ukuba ukwimigaqo Akukho ngcinga ngenkcubeko, imbali kunye nendlela yokuphila kwabantu, eyokuhamba, ungalinda lo mthunzi. Ukufakelwa kwintsapho yomntu owukhethileyo unokuhamba ngokuchasene neyakho, kwaye ukuba kwelinye icala akuyi kuba sisithintelo ekudalweni kosapho kunye nendoda esuka kwenye indawo yendalo, yenzeka ukuba inokwenzeka ukuqhubeka.
Amaxabiso akho anokungahambelani
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Phakathi kwakho kuya kuhlala kukho isithintelo solwimi
Unokufumana zonke izatifikethi zehlabathi eziqinisekisa ulwazi lwakho ngolwimi lwakho, kodwa awusoze ungene iqabane lakho "kubunzulu bolwimi" yeqabane lakho. Ewe, akukho nto iya kuphazamisa unxibelelwano, kodwa usenokuba neentloni xa udibana nezalamane okanye izihlobo zakhe, awuyi kuqonda ezinye ze "chip" eziya kutyunjelwa kuwe kwaye Khule ukona, nto leyo eya kuthi iguqukele kwisikrelemnqa ne-halve yakho yangaphandle.
Kuya kufuneka "useke kwakhona" ubomi bakho b
Ukwenze isithembiso, uqokelela izinto ngeli xesha lonwabisayo kwaye uqhubeke. Ixesha liyadlula kwaye uyayiqonda into oyifunayo ukuze ixhotyiswe-ukufuna umsebenzi, unokufuna ukuqhubeka nokufunda, okanye uya kwenza isayensi. Apha ulinde ukuphoxeka: Uninzi lwezatifikethi zakho kunye neediploma kwintsimi yelinye ilizwe alinamsebenzi. Ewe kunjalo, ukuba awunambuza wokufumana amaxwebhu afanelekileyo kwelinye ilizwe. Ngaba ukulungele ukubutha ubomi bakho kumntu wakho onyuliweyo de 'akhusele amalungelo akho oqengqelekayo? Ngokunyaniseka.
Ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato, kubunzima obuthile bunokuvela.
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Iingxaki kuQhawulo-mtshato
Nokuba banoyolo kangakanani na kubudlelwane obutsha, bahlala benendlela yokubuyela. Wonke umntu uya kuba nzima ngakumbi ukuba abantwana abangabaphambukeli baya kuvela. Akukho namnye umntu ophelisa ukuba xa wayeneqabane elingenayo, uya kusola uzola, umntwana uya kuhlala noyise, kuba umntwana wakho nguMntwana wakho. Le nto yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, yakha ikamva lakho kwikamva lomnye umntu: Ngaba ukulungele ukulwela abantwana kwimeko yoqhawulo mtshato? Abantwana abahluthiyo phantsi kwemeko yobuntu obahlukeneyo - le nkqubo enokukufumana kwaye isigqibo senkundla enesiphumo esiphezulu asiyi kuba semsebenzi wakho.