Akukho mntu ufuna ukuba ngumzali ombi, nangona kunjalo akukho nkozelelo ngokuchasene neempazamo. Usenokungakrokrela ukuba unqwenela ukupela kwakho, kwangaxeshanye kusebenza umothuko wengqondo emntwaneni.
Uphakamisa umntwana nge-kukhala
Akukho namnye umzali ongancedikiyo kunalowo une-ngokweemvakalelo umntwana ngokwasemphefumlweni embindini wendawo yokuthenga. Sonke sabona iimeko ezifanayo. Okokuqala, umntwana woyika, akasayi kuba nakho ukuthobela oko umntu omdala ofuna ukufezekisa kuye. Okwesibini, umntwana wakho uncamathisela iqhotyoshelweyo kwi-spish enjalo kwimvakalelo kunye nekamva iya kunxibelelana nomntwana wakhe.
Yiba ngumhlobo womntwana
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Uyamgculela
Sukuyenza! Ngakumbi phambi kwabanye abantu. Into ocinga ukuba isiphelo sinokuba sisiphelo sehlabathi. I-psyche yabantwana ayikazelwanga ukuba ibone i-sarcasm eyoneleyo kunye nee-pods ezincinci zakho.
Awumxhasi umntwana
Abazali kuphela komthombo wokuphefumlelwa emntwaneni, ngakumbi incinci kakhulu. Alubalulekanga ekuqondeni kwakho, ibinzana elikhuthelelweyo linokujika ilizwe lomntwana, limnyanzela ukuba akholwe ngamandla akhe. Ukongeza, inkxaso yabantu abasondeleyo inceda umntwana ukuba afumane iimpawu zobunkokeli ezaziya kumzukisa kwakhe emdala.
Ingqondo yabantwana ayizinzanga kakhulu
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Uyithelekisa nabanye abantwana
Kuyimpazamo ukukholelwa ukuba ukuthelekiswa neVasya-Sashake kuya kwenza ukuba umntwana abe ngcono kwaye asebenze kuye. Hayi. Umntwana wakho ungazibamba, uya kukhulisa ungazithembi, kwaye nemiphumo yoncedo lwakho kuya kufuneka ulwele ubomi bakhe bonke. Ukufezekisa impumelelo kule meko, uya kuba nzima kakhulu.
Ulawula ubomi bakhe
Oku kusebenza kwabazali abakwishumi elivisayo. Okokuqala, sibona uthando lomntwana wakho njengento entle kakhulu, emva kwexesha elithile, uninzi lwabazali luqala ukusikhathalela ukuba nobomi bomntwana wakhe okwishumi elivisayo ngenxa yoko kulawula, njengommiselo, Mama. Akumangalisi ukuba umntwana uya kucaphukisa.