Ngaphambi kweholide zesikolo-ixesha apho abantwana bahlala bengabikho ngaphandle kwabantu abadala. Ungawukhusela njani umntwana kwiinkampani ezimbi, ungavumeli ukuba bubudenge? Ingcali yeyona nto iphambili "kwimicimbi encinci", utitshala wecandelo lemithetho ye-MGIM Vilchenko.
IVictoria Dilchenko
Xa abantwana bengena kwinkampani embi, ke abazali, njengomthetho, bafunda ngayo emva kwexesha. Kwaye rhoqo zenza iimpazamo ezifanayo-banqabisela umntwana okwishumi elivisayo ukuba babe ngabahlobo kwaye banxibelelane nabahlobo abakhethwe nguye. Ewe kunjalo, umntwana uqalisa ukuqhanqalaza, kuba sele emntwini. Ingxaki engapheliyo ivela-ukusilela kokuqonda phakathi kwabazali nabantwana.
Kutheni abantwana bethu betsala kwiinkampani ezibi? Kukholelwa ukuba abakwishumi elivisayo baqalisa ukunxibelelana nabo bantwana, ubume kunye nokuziphatha kwabo banxamnye nabo. Ke, umzekelo, inkwenkwe ene-strongs yokuthatha isigqibo, ngesibindi. Ngamanye amaxesha isizathu sokuba ubuhlobo bube yiyo kwaye umnqweno wokuba njengayo yonke into. "Inkampani ethi" Abantwana abaninzi bazame kuqala icuba, utywala. Ishumi elivisayo ihamba ngobuntu, kwabo banemvukelo kubazali babo, oosehlani boluntu nasezikolweni.
Ukuba uziva unefuthe elibi lenkampani entsha, ukuba umntwana wakho ukwisifihlo, ukukuthintela, izikhalazo zabanye zibonakala ngathi ziyanda, ngaphandle kokuqala, zama ukuqalisa incoko evulekileyo, ethembekileyo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umtyhola umntwana, njengoko evava nangaphezulu. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukuseka ukuqonda. Zama ukuxelela umntwana ibali elivela kulutsha lwam malunga nendlela onayo phantsi kwempembelelo yomnye umntu xa uzichaphazela ngayo loo meko nokuba kuluchaphazela njani ubomi bakho. Nokuba akukho mabali anjalo kwimithwalo yakho ebomini - yiza nabo. Iya kunika ithuba lokuqonda umntwana ukuba uyafana njengoko uza kudala imeko yokuthembana phakathi kwakho.
Into ephambili kukuba ungazibandakanyi indlela yokwenza amagqabaza ezingenanto - abakwishumi elivisayo abathandi. Ndiqinisekile ukuba: Ukuba abazali baphila kungekuphela nje ngeengxaki zabo, kodwa neengxaki zomntwana, ke incoko iya kuphumelela.
Ukuphazamisa umntwana, ungazama ukufumana ukwabelana naye, ukwazi ukuyifumana nge-Adventures enomdla, umzekelo, intaba, ukhenketho, ezemidlalo. Into ephambili ayikuqhutywanga ngezikhuni, ayiyi kuba yintsingiselo yale nto. Sukuqhuba umntwana kwii-mugs kumgaqo: kuba andikwazanga, kufanele! Ayisebenzi, ngokuchanekileyo, iyasebenza, kodwa kwithuba elifutshane kakhulu. Ewe, inkampani yomntwana ombi luvavanyo olunzima kubazali. Kuyimfuneko ukuba wazi ukuba umntwana okwimeko enjalo kuyimfuneko ukuhlawula ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze angabi naxesha lokunxibelelana nolutsha olunzima.