Kubonakala ngathi ukungafumani mntu kwisixeko esikhulu akunakwenzeka, kuba ukhetho lukhulu kakhulu. Ngapha koko, sibona amakhulu amawaka abafazi abanesizungu, kwaye yintoni enomdla - amadoda alodwa. Yintoni ethintela i-lobogs yanaphakade ukuba idibane nezibini ezonwabileyo? Sizamile ukuqonda lo mbuzo unzima.
Umthwalo onzima
Kwiminyaka engamashumi amathathu eyadlulayo, abazali bethu bekuya kuba nzima ukucinga ukuba yonke i-ist yabantu abadibana nabo ubudlelwane banamhlanje. Namhlanje kufanelekile ukuba ungafumani sibini ubusuku okanye iiyure ezimbalwa, kwenzeka ukuba amaqabane amatsha awakhathazeki ukukhumbula amagama omnye komnye. Ukuba ekuqaleni indlela yokuthanda izinto zothando ayizange yamkele inani elikhulu labantu, namhlanje baphantse bagqitywa, kwaye ke, iiklabhu zeveki zigcwalisa abantu abanesithukuthezi. Amadoda ngokuthe ngcembe aqhele ukuba ukuba abantu basetyhini bangaphindi ukuba abantu abaninzi boyise, okuthetha ukuba unokuphumla kwaye uyala ukukhangela kulowo uvumayo ngokuhlwa. Ewe kunjalo, ukufumana umntu ukuba nobuhlobo obunzulu kwaye ixesha elide kuba nzima kakhulu.
Awuhambelani nenqanaba lakho lemibuzo
Ewe, wonke umntu obhinqileyo ufuna ukubona indoda yokwenene ecaleni kwakhe, ibangela umona walowo wonke umntu. Kodwa, ewe, amadoda anjalo akhona kwinani elincinci kwaye abe noluhlu olukhulu lweemfuno zeqabane elizayo. Kudala siya kuba sisidala, iimeko zethu zixakekile zihambelana nendoda-ukunciphisa lula apho sasiqala inoveli entsha. Siyicelomngeni emitsha kwaye sifuna iqabane ukuba lixhase, kodwa wonke umntu unokuxhaswa. Yiyo loo nto yonke idimazayo kunye noluhlu lweemfuno ziyanda nangaphezulu.
Isibini sokukhangela sinokulibazisa iminyaka emininzi
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Amadoda akakulungelanga ukwenza ukhetho
Njengoko sele sithethile, indlela yolwalamano iye yalula, namhlanje ungakhetha phantse wonke umntu. Inkululeko yenkululeko kwimfuno yokuhlala kwibhinqa elinye kuphela. Indoda ilula kakhulu ukufumana amava abafazi abohlukeneyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abasetyhini banokuba ngaxeshanye, abafana abancinci babambelela kweli nqanaba, kodwa le ndlela inokuqhubeka iminyaka emininzi. Ngokwemvelo, kwimeko enjalo, ibhinqa elicwangcisa ubudlelwane bexesha elide kufuneka ikhethe iqabane, kuba isangqa sokukhangela sincitshisiwe.
Amadoda ayoyikisa abafazi abanamandla
Namhlanje, ukwahlukana kwezentlalo nemigangatho ngokuthe ngcembe kuyancipha, oko kuthetha ukuba amabhinqa aqala ukuziphathelela inyala, engakwazi kodwa amadoda acaphukisayo. Ibhinqa liqhela ukusombulula iingxaki zakhe ngokuzimeleyo, elakha ishishini eliyimpumelelo kwaye alisafuneki inkxaso, indoda ayimelani na umfazi onamandla nozithembileyo. Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, inani elikhulu lamadoda lisafuna ukubona abanye bengakhuselekanga kumfazi wabo kwaye beza kolu hlaziyo xa intanda ifuna uncedo oluncinci. Cinga mhlawumbi ubude kakhulu?