Akusoloko kunokwenzeka ukubamba loo mzuzu xa ubudlelwane buqala ukuziva kwi-seams. Izibini ezininzi zinengxaki yokuzijonga nje iingxaki entsatsheni, zikhetha ukuvala amehlo kumaxesha athile obubomi babo. Kwaye iisampulu zoqhawulo-mtshato zingakhange ziqwalaselwe ngokupheleleyo. Sigqibe kwelokuba sikhuthaze iimpawu ezintlanu ezithetha kakhulu ngento ekufuneka uyithathe, kungenjalo usapho luya kuwa.
Omnye wabatshati uqalisa ukugxeka isiqingatha sakhe
Mamela intetho malunga nelineni esongelweyo ngokungalunganga okanye iimpahla ezingabonakaliyo zisenokuba njalo, nangona kunjalo, xa ukugxekwa kwentshutshiso ichaphazela ubuntu beqabane, akunakufanelanga ukunyamezela. Umtshato awufanele ukwenze iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo.
Abamakishi abaphambili bokungoneliseki kunye nobuntu bakho baya kuba ngamagama aqala ngo "Uhlala ...", "Awusoze ...". Ngokufanayo, omnye wabatshati uvakalisa ukungabinamsebenzi neqabane lakhe, esithi oko kulindelekileyo nokungalindelekanga.
Ukuba awuthathi uqeqesho loqhawulo-mtshato njengesiphumo sengqondo solwalamano lwakho, zama ukutshintsha indlela yakho yesibini, oko kukuthi, ulandela into oyithethayo kwiqabane. Yigxeke umntu, kodwa iintshukumo, ukuba uyacaphuka ngento ethile, yazise iqabane lakho, endaweni yokuhambisa amabango angenangqondo.
Funda ukuthetha neqabane
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Omnye wabatshati uqalisa ukuyeka okwesibini
Ngamanye amaxesha ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntu othile ube ngulomntu ukuze umntu abe nokungahloniphi. Kwaye awunakuhlala ucinga nantoni na ekhubekisayo, kodwa iqabane likhangela isizathu sokuphikisana nokugcwalisa incoko yababini. Kule meko, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokuthintela imirhumo kwiqabane elimangalisayo, echaza ukuba amazwi nemijelo yakhe ayithandeki kuwe. Emva koko, zama ukubeka esweni kwaye ungasebenzisi amabinzana anqabileyo ngokunxulumene neqabane.
Izityholo ezingapheliyo
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ugwetywe kakubi kangangokuba kufuneka akhulule i-Steam kwaye ahlukane nesiqingatha sakhe sesibini: kuqala iqabane lakhe likhutshiwe kwaye ngamanye amaxesha liqalile, imbambano yenziwa. Intsapho ayiyi kuhlala ixesha elide kwimodi efanayo.
Iingcali zengqondo zizicebisa rhoqo ukuzibeka endaweni yomnye umntu, zama ukuyenza le meko. Sukungxamela ukubeka phambili intlawulo yokuhlawula intlawulo, uqonde into ebangela ukuba sibe netyala.
Yeka ukumangalela kulo lonke iqabane lomphefumlo
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Iqabane livala
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu uzama ukuphepha naziphi na iimeko zokungqubana kwaye uzihlubulele xa isikrelemnqa siyabhalwa. Iqabane liqinisekile ukuba nawaphi na amazwi akhe aya kudibana nako ngokugxeka, kwaye ke ithatha isigqibo kungekuphela kukuthatha inxaxheba kwimbambano, engachanekanga. Ukuba awufuni ukuthatha inxaxheba kwingxabano, oko akuthethi ukuba akunjalo. Kubudlelwane kubaluleke kakhulu ukuseka incoko kwaye ngokubanzi uthethe ngakumbi, kungenjalo ukungaqondi kwaye ndiza kukuhamba nawe emtshatweni.
Iqabane likhumbula ingqumbo yangaphambili
Intsapho nganye inemizuzwana engafuni ukukhumbula ukuba kukho izibini ezifuna ukugcina nokuqinisa ubudlelwane. Izikhumbuzo ezisisigxina zamaxesha angathandekiyo yexesha labo elidlulileyo likunikezo kuphela kwaye ekugqibeleni yonke into iza kuphela ngesikhewu sakho. Iingcali zengqondo zincoma ngamandla ukuba zingaphazanyiswa lixesha elidlulileyo, zihlala zokwenyani kwaye ziyeke ukukhankanya iimeko ezingalunganga, zityhola ekuphunyezweni kweqabane labo. Gxila kwinto elungileyo onayo ngoku, kungenjalo usapho lwakho luya kuqhekezwa kungekudala.
Lungisa incoko
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