Ukuba umntu onesondo akanakho isenzo kuphela njengenxalenye yobudlelwane, kodwa kwakhona njengokukhutshelwa, emva koko kwinto yabasetyhini, imincili kunye nendlela yokusondela kwesondo ahlukile. Isimo sengqondo seemvakalelo sibaluleke kakhulu kumantombazana, kwaye esona sini sihle kakhulu senzeka kwindoda eyayineemvakalelo. Nangona kunjalo, ayingabo bonke intombi ekwaziyo ukumisela ukuba le ndoda ayixelela ukuba yeyabelana ngesondo. Sigqibe kwelokuba siqwalasele ukuba yeyiphi "iminxeba" ekufuneka ikulumkise kwisithandwa sakho: indlela yokuqonda ukuba ifuna "kuphela kuwe.
Cinga ngokhuseleko lwakho
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Indoda ebhedini iziphatha kakubi
Njengomthetho, umntu, unxanelwe ukuba urhole ebhedini uye kuthintele yonke into yokufezekisa injongo yakho: Uya kukuxelela into ofuna ukuyiva yonke iminqweno yakho, kodwa emva kokuba uzifumene kwindawo ethe tyaba, Ayizukucinga nge-fannent yakho kabini - emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yayingeyonjongo yakhe. Kunqabile ukuba nokuziphatha okunjalo kuthetha ngeemvakalelo ezinzulu kuwe.
Ubuza imibuzo yobudenge
Mhlawumbi enye yezona zimpawu zithembekileyo- kumbuzo malunga nokuba umntu obhinqileyo uyathandwa. Indoda eyayixakekile yayingakwazi ukuqonda ukuba ububandakanyeke kangakanani kwinkqubo, ngoko ke ukuvalwa kwakhe "kwakulungile?" Ungayijonga njengokuziphatha kakuhle okanye indlela yokuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Indoda enothando ayinyanzelekanga ukuba umntu abhinqise imibuzo - akazame yena ngokwakhe, kwaye sele ekwazile ukuvavanya impendulo yakho.
Indlela aziphethe ngayo ngaphambi nasemva
Indoda onomdla kuphela kwi "Bheddown" ayinakuze ichithe ixesha kwiPaketi ende, inkangeleko ende kwaye, ngokubanzi, ukulungiselela le nkqubo. Ngokwesiqhelo, ngokwesondo kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye emva kwakhe umntu oshiyayo, nokuba alala, engabuthethisani ubukho bakho. Njengoko uqonde, asifanele silindele ukuba sinemvakalelo enzulu kwiqabane elinjalo.
Indoda enothando ayizukubuza imibuzo
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Akacingi malunga nokuthintela ukukhulelwa
Ewe kunjalo, kunokuba kukungazithembi, kodwa ngababini eceba ubudlelwane babo, umbuzo wokuthintela ukukhulelwa lixesha okanye emva koko. Ukuba unomdla kwindoda evela kumandla omninzi, uya kucinga ngokhuseleko lwakho lokugqibela, okanye ude umkhumbuze. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba unyango olungathandekiyo kunye nomba wokukhulelwa ongacwangciswanga kuya kuwa emagxeni akho, kwaye amadoda angabakufuphi.