Namhlanje ndingathanda ukuchukumisa isihloko semali, ibaluleke kakhulu kakhulu kwaye ayixakekanga ngokupheleleyo. Kwikholamu yangaphambili ndibhale malunga neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokusasazwa kohlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho-ezifumana umvuzo, kwaye othatha isigqibo sokuba uza kuchitha ntoni, kwaye ichaphazela njani ukusebenza kwentsapho. Namhlanje ndiza kunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuphepha iingxabano malunga nemali.
Ke, okokuqala, kufuneka kubekho imigaqo efanayo ethunyelwa kuyo imali. Kuya kufuneka bachazwe nosapho lonke ukuze baqondwe kuye wonke umntu. Umzekelo, ukuba abazali banika imali yomntwana, kuya kufuneka acace ukuba imali yipokotho yakhe, ayifumana kanye ngenyanga, okanye lo ngumvuzo wokuthobela kunye namabakala amahle.
Okulandelayo, kufuneka ukhethe usuku olunye kangangexesha elithile ukuze uxoxe ngemicimbi yezemali. Masithi ngenye imini ngonyaka, qho kwiinyanga ezintandathu okanye kwiinyanga ezimbini. Kungolu suku (kodwa akusekho ezinye) ezinokubonakaliswa kwaye zenze izikhalazo. Onke amalungu osapho-kwaye afumana umvuzo, kwaye akafumananga, nabazali, kwaye abantwana kufuneka bacinge imeko yezemali yosapho kunye nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba onke amalungu osapho avumelana ngokucacileyo malunga nokuba ngubani owenza izigqibo malunga nokusasazwa kwemali kwaye alandele esi sivumelwano.
Ewe, ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo nako ukuphikisana? Inyani yile yokuba uninzi lweengxaki zosapho zizuzwe kubazali. Ke ngoko, isizathu seembambano sakhe sinengqondo ukuba singakhathali kwaye singabi kwiqabane lakhe, kodwa kubazali. Akukho nto ithengisayo amaqabane njengobukho botshaba oluqhelekileyo. Abazali bakho banokwenza wonwabe emtshatweni wakho, ukuba yithagethi yezityholo. Umzekelo, ukuba uqhotyoshelwe, awufuni ukuba nenxaxheba kwimali yakho kunye nenkosikazi yakho okanye inqabe ukwenza izipho, kwenzeka kuba uvuselelwe yimfesane .. . Konke oku kukuzincama okuqaqambileyo kwesisa sakho esingonelanga.
Rhoqo kwiintsapho, omnye wabatshati uyawungumphefumlo, kwaye enye i-Trans. Ngaphezu kwento enye iba yinye, kokukhona uchithe omnye. Oku kwenzeka ukuba kuqhankqalazo, okanye ukubuyisela imbuyekezo. Ukuze ingaphumi phambi koqhawulo-mtshato, omnye wabatshati kufuneka atshintshe indlela yokuziphatha kwixesha eliphezulu. Umzekelo, umyeni wakhe onkwantyisa kakhulu engekawumi rhoqo ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba uyithenga into ebiza into yokuthenga into engafunekiyo yokuthenga yonke into ebiza kakhulu. Emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, isiphumo siya kucacile. :)
Kweli nqaku, bendithembele kwizixhobo ze-American Psychotherapist ClChotherapist cl.