Namhlanje, endaweni yokufumana isiqhelo, phambi komzekelo ngamnye, ndiza kukuxelela "indento-mbengo", kodwa i-anecdote efanelekileyo.
Intombi kaFreud ixelela utata wakhe:
"Utata, ndabona iphupha ngokuhlwanje, ngokungathi ubunzi ke unokolula ibhanana." Sele ndidlulise izandla zam ukubamba, kodwa ngalo mzuzu uGustav uza phezulu kwaye azolula i-banana yam kum. I-Bamana Mama Gustav yayivuthiwe kwaye ihle, kwaye yonke ivila lakho kwaye sele limnyama. Ndiye ndathabatha umalume u-Banana Gustav nasemva koko ndavuke kwangoko.
I-freud, i-steice:
-Intombi, amaphupha akanantsingiselo - amaphupha nje ...
Kwaye ngoku iphupha lamaphupha ethu. Uwuphindaphindile ukuba sikhangela njani iindawo ezifihliweyo kumaphupha amagorha ethu. Kwaye umzekelo wanamhlanje, savala eli thuba, kuba iphupha ngokwalo lizinikele ephupheni ngaphezu kweempendulo ezicacileyo: "Ndiya kwisakhiwo esifana nendawo yomsebenzi wam. Kwaye kukhona sikunye nomyeni wam besiya kwi-claillvoyant yendawo. Uthi kuthi ungacombulula imibuzo ephambili kwisibini sethu. Sifuna i-Erotic ebomini. Eli gama ndikhumbula kakuhle. Ukuqukumbela: Iingxaki zesondo. "
Ewe, ndingadibanisa ntoni apha? Ngaba nje ukuba iphupha labona umfazi, kunjalo, mhlawumbi, uxanduva lwe-Erotistic, umdlalo, ukungcungcutheka kunye nokuzila kunye nokunxibelelana nomyeni wakhe kufanele ukuba kubekho kuye. Endaweni yokulindela inyathelo lokuqala liqabane, imfuneko yokubonakaliswa kwayo mhlawumbi ingaziwa, ephupheni, ikwacebisa ukuba uthathe isikhundla esisebenzayo kulo mbandela.
Ngendlela, ubunzima obuphila ngezesondo, i-attiation yenkanuko kunye nokunqongophala ngokupheleleyo kobomi besini kwizibini zomtshato yingxaki eqhelekileyo. Kwaye inqaku alikho ngokwesondo. Ukuqhubeka nokuba kufuneka sibelane ngesondo? Akunjalo amaxesha amaninzi, enyanisweni. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunesifundo nje solonwabo okanye ukuthabatha abantwana. Ubomi besini sesondo yintloko efihlakeleyo apho amaqabane abonisa indlela abajonga ngayo omnye komnye, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, phambi komnye, ukuba abonakalise, ukuba abonwabise, bahlale bengamava abo, bahlala, kwanaxa ayiyithandi iqabane. Kwinqanaba lenoveli yesaqhwithi, esi sibini sisebenzisa ngokulula ngokwesondo ukubonisa "ezilungileyo" ngokwazo kwaye sizise omnye uyolo. Umdlalo onjalo "kuluntu" emva kwexesha lokudinwa, ngoko ke ukulala ngesondo, njengeqonga lokudibana nelinye, kwimfuno yokukholisa iqabane, ilahle iqabane. Inyathelo elilandelayo malunga noku kukufumana ukuxhomekeka kuwe, iminqweno yakho, iimvakalelo, umdla kunye novavanyo zingaphezulu kwesiphumo esilindelekileyo - ulwaneliseko lwenkosana. Sithetha ngesondo, kodwa enyanisweni - kunokwenzeka ukuziqhelanisa kuwo onke amabakala obomi. Ke isosi ngesondo siya kuba sesinye isenzo sothando kunye nokuxelwa kokwenyani kuye komnye.
Ngoku masibuyele kwi-snodicta. Uye waxelela ukuba ebomini bakhe kwaye kubudlelwane wayengeyonto yanto entle: ubuhlanga, iCuraza, ubumnandi, ukungakholelwa kwaye kunzulu. Ewe, siyathemba ukuba uyayiva!
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin