Kuphela izolo utshabale umntwana ezingalweni zakho, kwaye namhlanje unoncumo oluchulumancoweyo luye lusebenza nzima? Akukho mfuneko yokuba wakhe abahlobo bakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe, ukuzenza ngathi bangadinwa ngumntwana konke konke kwaye bakulungele ukuba naye kufutshane ne-24/7. Iingcali zengqondo zichaza ukuba kutheni uneminyaka yobudala bonyaka uMntwana unokuthathwa yi-nanny- sithetha malunga neempawu ezi-5 ezingasasebenziyo kwinqanaba lomzimba kunye nengqondo:
Umhla wangaphambili
Kunzima ukuziqhubela kwinkqubo, kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ngokucwangcisiweyo "ukuncancisa", njengo-Swamp. Ekuqaleni awunakucinga ixesha lokujonga uthotho, emva koko ubone ukuba uhlale phambi kwesikrini seyure yesihlanu ngokulandelelana, utye idrooke. Umntwana ufanele ukuba abe sisizathu sokuphuhlisa - bonisa ukuba yintoni umama.
Musa ukunika onke amandla okukhulisa umntwana
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Ukuxhomekeka kweMuga
"Sigqibe", "i lena. Nditshatile, kwaye ndinabantwana abathathu, "" Hayi, andifuni kum, "onke amabinzana athi ukhathazekile ngumyeni wakho kwaye ulibele ngemfuno yokuzifudula . Ngaphambi kokucwangcisa ukukhulelwa, kuya kufuneka ukhathalele inkululeko yethu-ukushiya imali kwiprojekthi yexesha elizayo, ukuvumelana nomsebenzi okude okanye wazise isiko leentlanganiso nabahlobo ngoLwesihlanu. Kodwa nokuba awuzange uyenze ngaphambili, ayipheli ixesha lokuqalisa.
Ukungakhathali kunye nokuthandabuza ukwenza into
Ukuba nesongelwe kwicocon cocoon yokutya okumnandi kunye nempilo-ntle yemali, ukwaphula kwaye kuhambe ngameva kwiinkwenkwezi azifuni konke konke. Yiyo emva kweminyaka engama-5 ukuya kweli-10, ngaba umntwana uza kubaxelela abahlobo ngawe? Umama aphupha njani ngokuba ngumyili, kodwa imizobo yakhe ihleli ephepheni? Okanye, yintoni, endaweni yokufunda i-Italian kunye namaphupha okuhamba e-Itali, abukele ividiyo kwiYubbe? Hlala phantsi kwaye ucinge ngendlela ubomi bakho buqhekeke ngayo ngeminwe yakho ngelixa usomeleza ubuchule.
Ukungahambi kakuhle komntwana
Ukuba unemfundo yemfundo kunye namava abantwana, uyakukhetha iiklasi ezifanelekileyo zomntwana nangaliphi na ubudala. Kodwa ukuba la mava hayi, kuya kuba kukuthatha ngakumbi kwiiklasi kunye nengcali okanye ukuqesha imfuno efanelekileyo ye-nanny-qesha okanye umqeqeshi womdaniso. Yenza isigqibo ngoluhlu lwezinto ezinomdla kwaye ujonge umncedisi weeparamitha ezichaziweyo.
I-nannies ayisoze ibe yinto ebalaseleyo
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Ukungafuni ukwenza into
Uhlobo lokugqibela nolusizi olubi luyingcinga yethemba malunga nokuba loluphi uhlobo lobomi bakho. Ngokwesiqhelo bavela ngokuchasene nokungasemva kokungabikho konxibelelwano kunye nokulahleka kwexesha elidlulileyo nomyeni wakhe. Vala amehlo kubo kwaye uzame ukuziqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ilungile-iyingozi. Bhalisela ukwamkelwa kugqirha wengqondo, kwaye ushiye umntwana ngeli xesha kunye ne-nanny. Unyango olungexesha elifanelekileyo luya kukubuyisa ebomini kwaye lube nemibala kwi-canvas emnyama nemhlophe enemibala eqaqambileyo.
Kutheni uqesha i-nanny? Yabelana ngamava akho nabanye oomama kwizimvo.