Ewe kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba uzole yonke imzuzu. Ubomi bumnyama kwaye bumhlophe, kwaye wonke umntu unengxaki, amaxesha angathandekiyo. Kodwa kufuneka ulwelise ukuvumelana. Kuba impilo ikakhulu - zombini ezenzeka ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwenyama. Esi sisiseko solonwabo. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba ulinde. Kuyimfuneko ukonwabela yonke imihla. Ungayenza njani? Zininzi iinkalo ezinxulumene ngokusondeleyo omnye komnye, kwaye eziphefumlelweyo - ukuphefumlelwa ngobomi.
Ndifumene iresiphi yendlela yokuvumelana kwam, ukonwaba kwam, nto leyo kubonakala kum, iphela iphela.
Ubufazi
Lo mgangatho ubaluleke kakhulu. Kwaye ibonakaliswa zombini ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Kubalulekile ukuba uzinikele ngokwakho, zilandele. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhambe rhoqo kwi-cosmetologists, unokukhathalela ulusu ekhaya. Umzekelo, ndiye kwi-Ontle xa ufuna ukusombulula umsebenzi othile, ukuze ufumane i-massage. Izenzo zikwakwindlela kagogo, nakwitekhnoloji entsha. Fumana isitayile sakho sokunxiba apho kuya kuba kukhululeka khona.
Ndine-bidrobe enkulu efanelekileyo. Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba kukho izinto ezenziwayo ngoyilo. Bayeke bakumgangatho ophezulu kwaye bahle. Umfazi kufuneka anxibe ngolonwabo! Nguwuphi umfazi ongafuni kubonakala ulungile kwaye ubambe iimbono eziqinisekisayo kunye nezincomo? Iphakamisa kakhulu imood!
Ngelishwa, ngakumbi ibhinqa elihlala lingumfazi kwihlabathi lethu lanamhlanje kufuneka lifunde. Funda ukuthamba, ukhathalelo, ubulumko. Unokuba sesopolitiko, nabani na, kodwa xa uziva kwaye uziphatha njengomfazi. Ngaphezulu kwecandelo elingaphakathi kufuneka usebenze kuqala ngaphezulu kwakho. Ukuba uyavumelana nendawo oya kuyo, emva koko uzithabathela ngokwakho, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho ukukhanya okungaphakathi, uthando lwehlabathi, amehlo aqaqambileyo. Oko kukukhanya, ukukhanya okungaphakathi kutsala abantu.
Ndithanda
Iphuma kwinto yokuqala. Ewe kunjalo, akukho lula, kwaye le yindlela ihlala ixesha elide ebomini. Ubomi, ndiyafunda. Ndim indlela endiyiyo. Ngezibonelelo zayo kunye nezinto ezingalunganga. Kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha ezinye iimpawu ukuze uzisebenzele ngokwakho, kodwa kungabi natyala lokulwa nawe. Jonga ngokwakho ayinxaxhileyo, kodwa ngothando. Kwaye, ukujonga esipilini, yithi: "Ndiyakuthanda, kodwa kufuneka usebenze kuyo."
Imvisiswano yindibaniselwano yezinto ezininzi: impilo entle, amandla okwazisa ngokwaneleyo okwenzekayo kwaye asamkeli ngokuchanekileyo, amandla okubona iimpazamo kwaye azilungiselele, ukuze Umhlaba. Inika amandla kuyo yonke into. Kwaye kufuneka uqale nawe. Ukuba awuzithandi ngokwakho, awunakubathanda abanye.
Usapho
Ukonwaba kwabasetyhini yinto ebalulekileyo yobomi. Nabani na ufuna usapho. Kwaye usapho lonwabile. Kwaye oko bekunjalo, wonke umntu kufuneka enze iindima zabo kuyo.
Kum, intsapho ibisoloko ikwindawo yokuqala. ETherah, kukho ingcinga yokuba umntu ejija ibhola ubomi bakhe bonke. Zininzi zazo, nganye-yindawo ethile yobomi bakhe: abahlobo, sebenza, usapho lunokuwa, lungaphulukani kwaye luthathelwe indawo ezintsha. Inye kuphela yezi bhola ukuze ilahle kwaye ayinakuphulukana, kuba iglasi. Kwaye le ball yintsapho. Siphulukane nomsebenzi kwaye sifumana esinye, ngokutshintsha abahlobo phantsi kwempembelelo yeemeko. Kodwa ibhola yeglasi ayinakwenzeka ukulungisa ibhola yeglasi.
Kum, umba wezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka awunamsebenzi. Ngeshedyuli efanelekileyo yokucinga, unokuhlawula ixesha kuyo yonke into. Akukho sidingo sokutshiza kubo bonke ngokulandelelana. Ndiyawazi ngokucacileyo umsebenzi wam kunye nento endiyifunayo. Kwaye kulula ukwala ezo ziphakamiso ndingenamdlanga kwaye ungayichaphazeli eyona njongo yam iphambili. Kungcono ndichithe ixesha elininzi nosapho lwakho kunokuyichitha.
Ukubandezeleka okuthandayo
Umfazi, njengendoda, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uzifumane. Kufuneka ayonwabele ishishini lakhe. Ndizifumene kumculo. Kwaye indlela yam yomculo, umsebenzi wam undinika izinto ezininzi. Ndiyabulela kuye, ndihamba kakhulu, ndiqhelene nabantu abakhwazayo, ndihlala ndibona into entsha. Olu luhlu rhoqo, iimvavanyo, iintlanganiso ezinomdla.
Umculo wam yiseti yokufunda, iincwadi ezintle, iifilimu, ukuhamba, ulwazi lwembali ... Ndiyiphatha kakuhle kwimicu eyahlukeneyo, imbali yamazwe ahlukeneyo, kwaye, okokuqala, i-Russian . Umculo wam kukubonisa kwam imvakalelo yam, imo, iminqweno, amava. Kukho amawaka ezithethe ezahlukeneyo, i-Folklore ehlabathini, kwaye ndifuna ukwabelana nabo bonke abaphulaphuli. Ndifuna ukudlulisela unxano lwabo lolwazi kunye nothando ngembali. Kum, abaphulaphuli banjengenxalenye yosapho lwam, kwaye ndithetha nabo, njengababemi bomthonyama.
Kum, obu buBomi. Andicingi nto, kwaye andizange ndicinge. Ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu sele ndizamile ukucula, kwaye ndalichitha lonke ixesha ebomini bam. Umculo luthando lwam, inkanuko yam, umsebenzi wam, ishishini lam, inkanuko. Ngamafutshane, obu bubomi bam.
Ukuphumla
Ndihlala eMoscow, kwaye ndiyasithanda kakhulu esi sixeko sininzi, ndiyasithanda esi sixeko, kodwa ndiphumla kwindalo. Apho kukho isangqa sehlathi, umoya omtsha, akukho bantu kunye ne-suss. Indalo iphefumlelwe kakhulu, apho ndakhawuleza ndifumana amandla. Sinendlu eyi-500 yeekhilomitha ukusuka eMoscow ehlathini, elunxwemeni lwechibi. Apho sichitha lonke ixesha lakho lesimahla, iimpelaveki, iiholide. Le yiParadesi yethu. Indlu yindawo yomlilo yokwenene endikuthandayo ukuhlala kwaye ndiyifunde. Ehlotyeni sichitha ixesha elininzi emoyeni, ndiyakuthanda ukwenza i-yoga kwipier. Olu luqeqesho lokwenyani!
Owona msebenzi ophambili wokuhlala kwam kwilali iholide, umxholo wamandla, impembelelo endinika yona.
Ixesha lakho
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ngamnye kufuneka athathe umhlala phantsi aze ahlale uxolo. Ndinamaxesha emva kokhenketho. Ndiyakuthanda ukuthatha umhlala phantsi ebhedini. Apho sinendawo yokwenyani yase-Antique yaseRussia. Ayiluncedo nje impilo kunye nobuhle, kodwa imvakalelo iphuculwe ngokukhawuleza.
EMoscow, ndiyathanda ukuhamba ezitratweni embindini, ngakumbi xa isixeko sivuka kuphela. Ngendlela, kusasa yeyona nto ibalulekileyo yosuku. Njengoko sizikhetha ekuseni, ke kuya kubakho imvakalelo, nangomhla. Ekuseni ndifuna ixesha elingakumbi, ngcono, kuba kufuneka udibane, ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Ndiyakuthanda ukuyenza kancinci. Ungangxami ukuvuka, hamba ngezicwangciso, jikelele ngokufanelekileyo kuba usuku oluza.
Inkululeko
Ngaphandle kwenkxaso yosapho kunye nomyeni, lo mfazi kufuneka azimele izimeleyo, abe noxanduva lwezenzi kunye nezenzo zabo. Kufuneka kubekho intonga, ukubona kwangaphambili. Kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukongeza, kumnandi ukuziva uzithembile kwaye wanele. Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ubonakalise, amandla kunye nomlinganiswa. Ngaphandle kwale, kwiHlabathi lanamhlanje naliphi na indawo.
Isikhundla sobomi esisebenzayo
Ngokuchanekileyo uthi intshukumo bubomi! Kunye nokusebenza ukuba ngamandla, ufuna ishedyuli efanelekileyo kunye nephupha elinempilo. Ndivuka kwangoko, andikhange ndijonge kade. Ndifuna ukwenza yonke into. Kwaye, ewe, kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo into ofuna ukuya kuyo. Kum, ukongeza kwintsapho, umsebenzi ubalulekile. Ndiwuthanda ngokunyaniseka umsebenzi wam, ndixelwe kuye. Ewe kunjalo, inceda ukunyamezelwa, ukusebenza nzima kunye nesimilo, kodwa kufanele ukuba kube nobulumko bokuya ngokuchanekileyo, yenza amanyathelo afanelekileyo. Ngaphandle koko ungasasaza kwaye akukho nto uyiphumezileyo.
Ingcinga endiyithandayo - "phantsi kwelitye elinobuxoki, amanzi akahambi." Indlela eya empumelelweni lilotha, inzima, ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukuthatha isigqibo esibalulekileyo nesichanekileyo ngokukhawuleza. Impumelelo iyakuthanda isibindi kunye nokusebenza nzima! Emva kokuvuka ekuseni, zibuze yonke imihla: "Ndingenza ntoni namhlanje ngephupha lam?". Kwaye kungcono ukuba uyenze nangokuhlwa ukuze entlokweni sele kukho umsebenzi walo mhla uzayo.
I-chworles enyanisekileyo kunye nethemba
Ngokwam, andikwazi ngaphandle kokuhlekisa, ukuhleka. Ukuba kukho into eyakhayo, enyanisekileyo neyokwenyani, uyakusinda kubunzima. Ndizama ukuhlala ndinemvakalelo elungileyo, ngoncumo. Ubomi buya, kwaye indlela esiyinyula ngayo, kuya kuba njalo. Ke ngoko, ndizama ukukhangela imihla ngemihla, amaxesha amnandi. Kufuneka uqonde nje ukuba awufanele uhlehlise ulonwabo. Ukonwaba akuyonto apho kwenzeka ntoni, yindlela ngokwayo isukelo.
Phila ubomi njengoko ufuna, lulonwabo, ngaphandle kweengxaki ezincinci, onokuthi ungayi ndawo. Kunye nosapho kunye nendlela yokuphila, kunye nomvuzo weza apha. Ke ndifuna ukunqwenelela inkalipho yonke! Isibindi sokuya kwinjongo yakho, yenza amanyathelo okuqala. Kwaye wonwabe, inyani!
Iindlela zokuhamba
Ndininzi apho, kwaye ndingatsho ukuba ukuhamba kuyamangalisa! Eyona nto iphambili kukusondela kubo ngengqondo. Umzekelo, ndikhetha ukudibanisa ukuphumla ngokutya ngengqondo. Ndiyakuthanda ukubona into eyimbali, enomdla, eyiyo. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uhlwayele elunxwemeni, kodwa kunomdla ngakumbi ukudibanisa. Ukuba sithetha ngeendawo zakho ozithandayo, ndingayifumana i-Italiya neAsia. I-Itali bendiyithanda kakhulu, kwaye ndibamkho minyaka le. Kwisibini esidlulileyo seminyaka ephelileyo, sikhangela izixeko ezincinci zase-Itali nosapho. I-Asia libali elahlukileyo. Ndiyayithanda indalo, njengokuba kunjalo, ngaphandle kongenelelo, endle kwaye iyinyani.
E-Asiya, sasikwindawo ezintle kakhulu, siyamangalisa. I-Asia yiParadesi apho ihlala khona kwaye ikhula ngokoqobo yonke into ngokuhambelana nendalo. Apha ungaba nguwe. Kukho ukuzola naphakade. Apha akunakwenzeka ukuba utyele ilanga nokutshona kwelanga, ujonge ezintabeni okanye ulwandle. Kwaye ukubona indlela yeMilky ebusuku, kwaye i-conselting iya kujonga ukusuka phezulu kwaye inqwenelela ubusuku obuhle-isiko, ngaphandle kokuba ungalalanga. Ndiyavuya kuba kukho iindawo eziseplanethi. Endle kwaye uvisisane ngaxeshanye.
Ezemidlalo
Kubaluleke kakhulu kum ukuba izihlunu zikwithoni. Amaxesha amaninzi ngeveki ndibaleka kumkhondo oqhubayo iikhilomitha ezimbalwa. Ebusika, sikhwela kakhulu kunye nosapho. Kwiminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo, sathenga zonke iibhayisikile kwaye ehlotyeni ngoku zikhwela ilali.
Kwigumbi lokuqina okanye ekhaya ndenza imithambo kumaqela ahlukeneyo emisipha. Into ephambili kwezemidlalo ihlala ihleli. Ke kuya kubakho isiphumo. Ngethamsanqa, akufuneki ndizinyanzele. Andiqhelekanga kum, kodwa amandla apho indlela yokuphila esebenzayo kunye nomthwalo azisa, akunakwenzeka ukuba ungabinangxaki.
Oku akuchaphazeli kuphela kumzobo, kodwa nakwimeko, impilo, impilo-ntle, kunye nesiphumo sokuphumelela kunye nobomi obuphumelelayo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba umntu uyasebenza, unexesha elininzi, uyaphumelela kwaye afumane ulwaneliseko kubomi.