Kwiinyanga ezininzi ngoku, eli lizwe longamela ubudlelwane obunzima phakathi kothando lwengcinga nentombi yakhe. Kutshanje, uTatiana wabuyela kuMama eMoscow. Ngokwemvumi, sele bengcangcazela into ebambi. Ewe kunjalo, emva kokudibana okukhawulezayo, abaninzi babenombuzo wendlela yokuseka impikiswano, eyayibonakala ingapheli. Kwavela ukuba ayibanga ngaphandle koncedo lwengcali. Incoko i-theschologist yengqondo ye-teragubist ugqirha we-psynalogist i-Pescyyaist i-Pescyyashinova, eyathi ngoku yenzeka e-USpenskaya kwaye yintoni ingqolowa yengxaki yobudlelwane phakathi kukaMama nentombi. Ngokutsho kwe-INNA, wasebenzisa ubuchule obungaseburhulumenteni ekusebenzeni ngeenkwenkwezi ezinzima.
"Ugqirha wengqondo uthambile ubandakanyekile kwinto yokuba inokwenza into eyinyani yomntu," uxelele i-INATNA. Umzekelo, ukuba uxinzelelo ebantwini, ke oku kungabikho kweehomoni ezithile. Kwaye yintoni enokwenziwa? Faka endaweni, nikezela icwecwe. Ugqirha we-psycloulogical yengqondo unokugungxula ukungangqinelani ukuze kuveliswe iihomera. Kwaye le ayisiyonto ekufuneka siyikholelwa kwinto ethile, sibhala umnqweno kumagqabi. Oku akuyiyo. Ingqondo isebenza njengemoto yendalo iphela. Umzekelo, ukuba imbali ukuba utat'omkhulu kunye nogogo wayengenakuba nemali eninzi, siya kwenza imizamo emininzi, kodwa singaphumeleli. Kwaye sisoloko singasiqondi isizathu sokuba singafumani le nto siyifunayo.
— Singatsho ukuba ukhe uncede ukuphinda ube nokudibana nabani na nentombi yakhe?
- Yayingumsebenzi odibeneyo, kuba xa umntu engafuni, akunakwenzeka ukuba uyenze. Ke ihlala isebenza. Ngoku siphuhlisa isiCwangciso soBudlelwane ukuze siqhubeke nokusebenza. Yena, mna, mna, mna, kubantwana abane, asiyombuzo nje ukubuyisela umntwana, kodwa siyilungelelanise nangokunjalo.
—Yintoni eyona nto yayiyingxaki yobudlelwane phakathi kwemvumi nentombi yakhe?
-Ndicinga ukuba akukho ntombi ingafani nomntu ongenalona nonina. Kwaye rhoqo singasiqondi isizathu sokuba abazali bethu basithande kakhulu, besenzakalisa. Inyani yile yokuba zibizwa ngokuba zibizwa ngokuba ziintshukumo zentshabalalo, xa ezi nkcaso zidluliselwa kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana njengekhephu. Kwaye umama akanakuyeka. Ukuba sinokusebenza kunye nexesha elidlulileyo, unokuhlala uvumela le ngxabano. Yingxabano nje-isoloko indala ngaphakathi. Oko kukuthi, ndikhangela, ngubani oza kundikhonza kulo mbandela. Umzekelo, andinayo imo entle kakhulu, uhlobo oluthile lokuxinana, kwaye ngulowo ubeka imbambano. Kwelinye icala: Xa intliziyo yam ivutha, imeko ihlala ikhula kakuhle. Umsebenzi wethu kukusebenza nje: Kutheni unakho oku? Kwaye yintoni ingxaki yakho? Isizathu esithile. Sukuphulaphula nje, kodwa ufumana ingxaki yengcambu ebuntwaneni. Ukuba sijonga ingxaki yothando uZalmanovna, unemeko enzima. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, wahlukunyezwa ngokusondelelana nonina ngenxa yeziganeko zembali. Kwaye ke oku kwenzeka ukuba ukuba asisiva uthando lwabazali bethu, sifuna olu thando ngaphandle kwaye ufumane iintlungu. Yinyani.
—Kwaye ngoku uLyubova u-Upenskaya ngumntu owonwabileyo?
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- Kodwa into ayonelanga ngenxa yolonwabo olupheleleyo?
Anditsho ukuba uyilahlekile, wanele. " Unexesha elinje ebomini elipholileyo, lizolile, xa unokuzonwabela, ubuchule, intombi yam ikufuphi. Taya apha apha, yintoni emnandi kakhulu. Yintoni enye enokufunwa?
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Ndakumya ke, ndaye ndanqeshwa, amadolo am ayangcangcazela. " Kule meko, akunakwenzeka ukuba wenze uhlalutyo. Kodwa ngokoqobo kwimizuzu emihlanu wazibeka yena - enobuhlobo! Kwaye okwesihlandlo sokuqala sasebenza iiyure ezisixhenxe. Kwaye okwesibini ngokufanayo, kude kube sekupheleni ebusuku. Kwakunzima, kodwa iziphumo zokuqala zenzeke imizuzu eli-10 emva kokuphangwa. Kwaye ke wonke umntu wayecinga ukuba le nto iphambili. Kodwa inyani yile yokuba ayisiyonto nje eyiyo: nayiphi na imeko yobomi eyenza amandla emntwini, oveliswa kwicandelo lobungakanani. Sonke singayi-athom. Kwaye konke okungaphantsi kwamasuntswana, baziphathe ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunehlabathi elingaphandle, imithetho inabanye. Kwaye basebenza ngendlela yabo.
Ewe kunjalo, uninzi lunomdla kulo mbuzo, ngaba kunyanzelekile ukuba utshate i-thene xa isenzeka?
-Kuxhomekeke kwimali. Baninzi abantu abangonwabanga emtshatweni. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, imfuneko sisidingo, umanyano lokomoya. Ukuba ufuna ukutshata, ndiza kumnceda kule nto. Oko kukuthi, ukuba uthi afuna ukutshata ngabo okanye bathathu okanye bathathu, kwaye uya kutshata.
- Uninzi lunokubonakala ngathi ufuna indoda eya kucombulula iingxaki zikaTaya ...
-Uyazi xa umntu obhinqileyo esiya kubudlelwane nomyalezo: Ndifuna ukutshata nomyeni ukuba asombulule iingxaki zam, iingxaki ziya kusuka apho. Oko kukuthi, kusafuneka utshate xa abantu bephila.
-Kodwa kukholelwa ukuba kufanele ukuba kubekho indoda eyomeleleyo ecaleni kwentombazana ...
-Olu luhambo olunzulu. Abafazi abaninzi ngoku bavele, bahlulwa nomyeni wakhe. Ngoba? Kuba bafuna into kuyo. Akukho sidingo sokukhangela nantoni na nangayiphi na into, mamela intliziyo yakho, umphefumlo wakho kwaye uzame ukuwenza ukuba baphumelele. Kuba i-PAB yethu iphumelele. Kufuneka ukwazi ukuhlengahlengisa. Ndinombono kwenye indawo ngaphakathi, ukuze ndingabuyi nje ukuba ndibuyele nje uTanya, ndinombono othile onokuthi usenzele, nceda wenze umnikelo wakho omncinci. Kuba mna ngokwam ndinesifo sokungafumani nto. Kwaye, ewe, xa ubona intombazana eselula njengoTanya, ekufuneka ukutshata, qalisa abantwana, ndifuna ukunceda. Sisenezicwangciso zokwenza i-paring kunye neTanya. Amadoda akwi-Russian Federation, ebambelele: Siya kuhamba nawe!
I-Liubov I-Uspenskaya yakhe yavuma ukuba yayikuvuyela kakhulu ukuba intombi yakhe ibuya: "Ndingoyena mama owonwabileyo emhlabeni ovela kwinto into yokuba intombi yam inam. Ndonwabile ukuba kwenzeke ukuba ndingaphila, ndiyonwabele, vuyisa ... yinike ixesha elincinci, kwaye uya kubona u-Aeta ukumkanikazi wam ... ngoku kwinkqubo. " Iinkcukacha-kwividiyo.
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