Isiqalo sobomi besini asinakucwangciswa, zininzi izinto ezazithanda okanye zithintele la mava. Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, malunga ne-10% yamadoda angamaRashiya aqalisa ukuba sesondo emva kweminyaka engama-25 ukuya kwengama-29, eyakwizinyani zanamhlanje ngendlela engakufaneleyo. Ukuba uqala ubudlelwane kwaye ngaxa lithile uyaqonda ukuba iqabane lakho liseyi "nkwenkwana", okona kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuba ingayisi ngaphezulu kwendoda, oko kuthetha ukwenza isenzo ngokucocekileyo. Kwenzeka njani? Masiyifumane.
Inyathelo alisoloko lisohlwaywa
Ukuba iseza kulala, ungakuvuyisa kakhulu - ukwazi ukuqhubela phambili kuwo onke amahlakani akho ngalo mzuzu umntu ongenamava. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, indoda ukuba ingadideki, ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kunyanzelisa ukuba ubuncinci ubusuku bakho bokuqala. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu ufuna ukuzama ukuzama, kule meko, azame ukuyixhasa, kodwa ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni wena ungahambelani nolingo.
Ukwala ithoni
Uninzi lwabasetyhini bathanda kakhulu ukukhokela amadoda, kwaye akusoloko kunjalo imeko ixhalabela izesondo. Kwimeko yethu, i-odolo kunye nethoyi eyakhayo inokuba sisiqalo sokuphela - kwaye iqhutywa kwaye indoda engaqinisekanga ingayivala nangakumbi, kwaye ngaphandle kokufumana okoneleyo kwixesha lakhe lokuqala. Ewe, ngamanqaku athile kuya kufuneka umxelele into, kodwa zama ukuyenza ukuze indoda ayivanga ukuba iphakamile, kumgangatho onamandla onobunzima obubeka isini esincinci njengokwabelana ngesondo.
Ungakuvumeli tshathi engenabungozi
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Sukujolisa kubuntombi bakhe
Akukho nto imbi ngakumbi kunelikhulu lokufumana isikhumbuzo sakho, kwaye okwangoku xa kufuneka kufezekise ulonwabo oluphezulu, kwaye le nkqubo inikwe ubunzima, le nkqubo inikwa ubunzima obukhulu. Ndikholelwe, indoda kunye nokuya kuthi ga kwixesha lokukhusela kwakhe ngokwesini, isikhumbuzo esongezelelweyo, kwaye okwangoku xa esenza ezinye zeengxaki, kwaye usukelo lwethu kukuqinisekisa ukuba okokuqala Kwintombi enyulu kakhulu kakhulu.
Sukuphakamisa
Ukuvumelana ngesondo nomntu ngaphandle kwamava, kufanelekile ukuvavanya ubuchule bakhe kwaye uqonde ukuba ubusuku bakho buya kufumana okungaqhelekanga kwaye busekuphelelekanga. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu ukuba umntu obhinqileyo anokuthi akwazi ukukhwela iqabane. Ukuba indoda ngokwenene yindlela kwaye kuwe, ngokomgaqo, ungafuni ukwenzakalisa kakhulu iimvakalelo zakhe, ungavumeli naziphi na iziqhulo ezingenabungozi malunga namava kunye namathuba emzimbeni.