U-Iza Anobekote wagqiba kwelokuba aluvavanyi ngokungaqhelekanga - ukuze akwazi ukuziqhelanisa, ngoko ke akuthandwayo phakathi kwamantombazana, ukuze "alipompo" ubutshaba babo. Ngokudibeneyo kunye neentombi zesakhelo somboniso, waya kwi-camcation ethandwayo ebizwa ngokuba "yisangqa" sabasetyhini ngoku. Iinkcukacha ze-alohhin zabelana ngayo.
"Ndivile ukuba kukho iziganeko ezinjalo xa iqela lamantombazana lihlanganisana ngosuku oluthile lwekhalenda yenyanga kwaye badlula ngendlela enzulu kunye. Ndandibiza ngokuba ngumhlobo kolu camngca, kodwa ndathandabuza de kwangomzuzu wokugqibela, okanye hayi. Inyani yile yokuba umntu wam wangaphakathi wayesoloko ehlekisa ezo zinto, kwaye umfazi ongaphakathi wajongwa ngokuthanda kwakhe kwaye eqonda ukuba uyafuneka apho. Ngokubanzi, indoda yam yangaphakathi kunye nebhinqa lihlala liphikisana. Ngapha koko, ebomini, kufuneka ndenze umsebenzi wamadoda, kwaye kunzima kakhulu: ndiziva ngathi ngumfazi ngamaxesha anje, "umkhenkce uxelele.
Ngexesha lokucamngca, bekungekho ngaphandle kweenyembezi
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Njengoko i-alobile icacile, ngexesha lokutyikitywa kobufazi bakhe azange zixabiseke ngaphandle kobunzima, njengoko uIsis aqhele ukuzibamba. Umzekelo, ezona zinzima kuba yayisisidingo sokuhlala nje ngamehlo avalekile kwaye ucamngce.
"Khubaza ukwazi kwaye ungacingi ngayo nantoni na ayinakwenzeka! Ndinomjelo ohamba rhoqo entlokweni yam, bendihlala ndiphila ngoluhlobo. Kodwa ke ngequbuliso kwenzeka into, ndaphumla, ndayeka ukulawula, ndalibala ngayo yonke into kwaye yayingumfazi nje. Kwaye ukusuka kwiimvakalelo eziqhumayo zaqalisa ukukhala, - ukhumbula u-Isa. -Ndifuna ukuba ngumfazi. Kodwa kundenzele ubufazi kukucinga ngentliziyo. Xa intliziyo iqhuba, kwaye ingqondo ihlala kwisitulo sabakhweli. Ke yoyikisa kum, ngokuba intliziyo ineliso elingenalo, nelapho iya kukhokelela khona - kuyinto engaqondakaliyo.