"Uyintombazana yentombazana, nentombazana, ungabili. Ngaba uyasithambisa impaphu, kuhle, kutheni usithi, Ngaba le yimfazwe nawe? " -Imigca enjalo evela kwingoma yeKeban Omabhan, umyeni waseKenia Borodina, ifoto yawo edibeneyo, eyayipapashwe engaphantsi kosuku olulandelayo kwisomashishini. Isithuba esingaqhelekanga sendoda ngoko nangoko sikhupha ubunzima bokuhleba kangangokuba kukho impikiswano enkulu phakathi kweBorodina naseOmarov. Ndifundile kwi-psychological, yeTarogist kunye ne-psychologistry marianna Abravitova, eyenzekileyo phakathi kwamaqabane.
UMarianna Asavitova
Zisibini kwaye ziphila ixesha elide. Abantu kuphela kwiinyanga zokuqala zokuthandana bazama ukuphepha iingxabano kunye neengxabano. Ungatsho nokuba azizibonakalisi ukuba zingoyiki. Ngokwemvelo, ezinye iingxaki zinokwenzeka ngaphakathi, kodwa wonke umntu uzama ukuthoba iikona. Nangona kunjalo, ngoku usapho lude luyimodeli yobomi babo, kwaye kule meko kukho imbambano, "ukuqala kukaMarianne.
"Ihlala kwakudala. I-Borodina iphakamisa umyeni wakhe. Esi sisigwebo esithile kwinkosikazi yakhe. Ungene kwezinye izinto eziqinisekileyo kwaye uzama ukudlulisela umyeni wakhe ukuba ngamanye amaxesha wayengalunganga. Kwaye, njengoko amakhadi ebonisa, yavela. Uyazazi iimpazamo zakhe. Akafuni kutshabalalisa usapho, kwaye akukho mntu unokuvunyelwa. Izenzo zakhe zixolelane. Umntu unomsindo oshushu, eneenkani kwaye eyenzakalisayo. Hayi isibini esilula, ukuze sithethe. Andiboni ngokuvisisana kakhulu, xa ihobe ezimbini zahlala phantsi kwaye yamkelekile. Kukho ipendulum, kwaye kuwo onke amanqaku akalibaziseki. Ukuba yayiqaqambile kwaye ilungile, iya kuba imbi. Iguquka kwaye ayimi kwizibonda ezithile. Yonke into ikwiintshukumo. Oku kukuvumelana kwesi sibini. Thabatha ungene kwi-dibanisa. Abafuni xolo rhoqo okanye balinganise ubomi bentsapho. Bafuna umlilo kunye nesaqhwithi. Ulwalamano lwabo luyinkqubo. Kukho uphuhliso kunye nokukhuthaza apha, "watsho ukuba abvitov.
Abalandeli baqikelela ukuba inza impikiswano phakathi kwamaqabane
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"Kufuneka siqonde ukuba sele sifunde kwaye sazi ukuba balinde ntoni. Kwaye i-Kseni borodin iseyiqabane elingalindelekanga ngakumbi, kwaye ngoku wayebonisa umyeni wakhe amazinyo akhe. Makhe sibone ukuba ubudlelwane babo buya kuphuhliswa njani, sinethemba lokuba esi sibini siya kuthembela ixesha elide ukuze sikholise kunye nezikhuselo zakho, "i-PSYCHICCHIC iqukunjelwe.