Ukuba abafazi baqhele ukuxoxa nakwezona ngxaki zininzi kwinkampani ekwabelwana ngayo, emva koko bafumanisa ukuba yintoni isizathu sokutshintsha imvakalelo yendoda kunzima kakhulu. I-mpembelelo kwiimvakalelo azinakukhetha ubudlelwane, ukanti umntu unzima kakhulu ukwakha kwakhona, nokuba iyimfuneko na? Kuyinyani ukuba ufunde ukuziva iqabane lakho, kwaye ukuba uyamamela kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ungaqaphela "iifowuni", ezicebisa ukuba kukho iingxaki ezithile kubudlelwane, kodwa zombini uphephe incoko. Siza kuxela ukuba indlela yokuziphatha yentanda yakho ifanele ilumkise.
Uzama ukungabizi kwaye ungabhali ngaphandle kwesizathu
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, xa uqala nje ukuba buqaphele nganye, indoda inokuzingisa kwaye ingenakuthembela, kodwa kuthatha ixesha, kwaye loo mzuzu uza kuqala apha xa indoda iqala ukuhamba. Nokuba sele uhlala kunye ixesha elide, unokuqaphela ukuba inani leefowuni kunye nemiyalezo inciphile. Ixhala kufuneka liqale ukuba lenzeke ngequbuliso. Amadoda, njengomthetho, kufuneka ixesha lokuthatha isigqibo sokwenza into ethile, kunqabile ukuba benze into ngokuzenzekelayo. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kunokuthetha ukuba kulwalamano lwakho kangangexesha elithile kukho iingxaki okanye ukunqongophala okutshabalalisa unxibelelwano lwakho lweemvakalelo. Nika ingqalelo ngalo mzuzu kwaye uzame ukucinga ngayo yonke into eyenzekayo phakathi kwakho okwangoku.
Qwalasela indlela indlela yokuziphatha kweqabane elitshintshileyo
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Indoda yakho izama ukuchitha ixesha elincinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Kwindoda ethandekayo eluthandweni, ukusondela komzimba kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye asithethi ngesondo, kodwa malunga nokunxibelelana rhoqo xa uchitha ixesha kunye. Kubandakanya ukuchukumisa kunye nokuqabula yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yolwalamano lwetrasti. Xa indoda ithwala into okanye iqala ukuhlaziya isimo sakhe sengqondo ngakuwe, uqalisa ukufudukela kuyo yonke indawo ngokwasemzimbeni. Ngaba ukhe wayibona loo nto kwiqabane lakho?
Indoda ifuna isizathu sokuchitha ixesha ngaphandle kwakho
Ebudlelwaneni enempilo, omabini amahlakani kufuneka asoloko efumana ixesha ngokwabo ukuze angaphulukani nesazisi somnye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, imizamo esisigxina yokuthintela uluntu lwakho ngeempelaveki nangeeholide kufuneka zilumkise - kutheni iqabane lifuna ukuchitha ixesha kwenye inkampani, nokuba zizihlobo? Kwaye kwakhona, sijonga indlela imeko eguqukayo itshintshile, njengoko indoda yaphatha ngaphambili. Ukuba utshintsho lubukhali kakhulu, ukubakho okunjalo kunokuthetha ukuba kwinkampani yakho umntu akakhululekanga. Umsebenzi wakho kukufumana isizathu.