-YiVictoria, intombi kaMamare ye-Mathure ye-Mathure yezulu ivela ezulwini. Uye walinda phantse iminyaka eli-13! Ngaba uyakhumbula iimvakalelo zakho xa uyazi ukuba kungekudala ndiza kuba nguMama?
- Xa sele ukhulelwe iminyaka engama-38, ngaphandle kokungenelela kwezonyango sisipho sezulu ngokwenene isipho ezulwini. Uvuyo alunamangaliso kwaye kwangaxeshanye uxanduva lobomi bomntwana. Ngocwangciso lwethu lobugcisa lobugcisa kunye nendlela yokuphila, kuye kwafuneka nditshintshe yonke into ngemini enye. Ndibhabhele inqwelo moya yokuqala ukuya kwaSirayeli, kuMama Anton, ukhenketho kunye nokurekhoda i-albhamu yaseMelika.
Ngaba ngokwenene ngummangaliso okanye nje "lonke ixesha lakho"?
- Lixesha lommangaliso! UMasha wethu ngumntwana onamafutha. Kweyona ngqiqweni yala magama. Ngoku, ukuhlalutya yonke into eyenzekileyo kuthi ngaphambi kokuzalwa kukaMasha wethu, ndiyaqonda ukuba ngaphambi kokuba singakulungeli ukuba ngabazali balo mntwana mhle. Ndiqinisekile ukuba ngoku sonke siphila ngexesha lokutshintsha olukhulu ezingqondweni zabantu. Ixesha xa bengakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo ngokuthe ngcembe baqala ukuqonda ukuba i-phyology yethu yeyokuba, enye okanye enye, ukubonakaliswa kwehlabathi lethu lokomoya. Andisokuze ndikhule, kwaye oku kuyinyaniso nje yokuba ebesoloko ehleli, ngokutogqirha, enempilo emzimbeni wayo ngokupheleleyo umfazi. Nje ukuba mna no-Anton siye sanikela ingqalelo kwimpilo yethu yokomoya - UMasha wazalelwa.
-Ngalowo udliwanondlebe owaxele ukuba ngelo xesha umyeni wakho wayenexhala malunga nengxaki yokwenyani ... Uhlangabezana njani nayo?
Xa abantu abanenzondo nganye bekuqala belungele ukugqithisa zonke iingxaki kunye, unokukwazi ukujamelana nazo naziphi na iingxaki ebomini bosapho. Siyathandana kakhulu. Ingxaki ekunganyameni iqabane lam yayingeyo ngenxa yokunqongophala kwabantwana, kodwa ngenxa yamathandabuzo ngokuchaneka kokhetho lomsebenzi. Kwaye ngenxa yokunqongophala kwabantwana, ndintsomi kakhulu. Sobabini sanceda utyelelo kwidolophu yakudala yaseBulgaria, kwiTempile ka-Abraham Bulgaria, kunye nengxoxo kunye noBawo Vladimir Golovna. Wasinceda ukuba siqonde ukuba, okokuqala, wonke umntu makabe kwindawo yayo apho wagqitha khona, kufanelekile ukuba aphile kwaye kumnandi ukusebenza. Ukuba ungumculi - ndiyavuya ebantwini, akukho nto iphosakeleyo kuloo nto. Okwesibini, iBalushka yasihlukumeza i-US kwiNkqubo yokuHlazamisa i-Artatical, icetyiswe ukuba uthandaze umhla womntwana. Kwaye mna no-Anton samthobela, sasingahambi e-Eco, kwaye emva kweenyanga ezintandathu ndithandaza rhoqo, uMama wakhulelwa.
Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, i-pericmonism yento "enjalo" iyakwazi ... kwaye unjani?
-Ukuqala kokukhulelwa, umzimba wam wawubonakala ngathi uyaphilisa. Ngokutsho kweemvakalelo zakho, kwakubonakala ngathi ndikhule iminyaka engama-20. KwaSirayeli, ayisiyonto yesiko ukuya kumfazi "i-Akin". Akukho mntu "ubusuku" ndim ngamabali ahlekisayo malunga nokuzalwa kade. Ngokoluvo lwam, yinto engacacanga ... Ungambiza njani ixhegokazi elinokukhulelwa? Kumhlaba ongcwele ngawo onke amamkeli kwagqirha - kuphela iimvakalelo ezintle. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yoko ukukhulelwa kwam kudlulile ngokulula, ngaphandle kokungaqhelekanga kwaSirayeli ngehlobo lowama-2012. Nditsho ne-Premory Pression kwiiveki ezingama-32 ukusuka kwihydration engazange inyamalale ngokupheleleyo. Khange ndiyeke ukuzithemba komzuzwana okwesibini ukuba nomntwana wethu yonke into ilungelelwano! I-Premenenev, ndaqala ngokutya okwahlukileyo. Kwakuyimvakalelo yokuba uMama ngokungqongqo nditsho ukuba kunokwenzeka, kwaye yintoni engenakwenzeka. Andikwazanga nokubona lonke ukukhulelwa ngaphandle kwesicaphucaphu yonke inyama kunye nokuzibophelela kweentlanzi, nangona ukutya kwam kubandakanya intlanzi enetyiwa kunye nenyama eyomileyo. Ndiqalise ukutya imifuno, iziqhamo, amantongomane, itya "i-cakens" ikladashi ye-cabbid kwaye i-pame ye-pame kunye neekeyiki. "Ukutya okungaqhelekanga" kukuphazamiseka kancinci. Kodwa ugqirha wam uPorr ucebise ukuba angahambi kakuhle, akukho tyala "zimbini" kunye notywala kwiminqweno yabo. Kukho umfazi okhulelweyo ofuna ukuba umzimba ungaphili, ukuba andifuni ukukhulelwa "itshizi" eluncedo "ye-cottage kunye nezinye iimveliso ezibophayo.
"UVictoria, awungumama kuphela, kodwa nemvumi, ke ngoko ubuntu bokudala." Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba udibanise ezimbini zezi ntende okanye kwisizathu esithile kufuneka ndivume?
-Akuphatheke kangakanani ukuba kukhaliseke, kodwa, njengoko kwavela, ukuba ngunina - eyona njongo yam ibaluleke kakhulu. Xa umfazi engumama kwaye ephatha kakuhle lo msitho, yonke into ejikeleze iba yintsingiselo yokwenyani. Kwityala lam, ukuba nolwalamano lundivulele ukuba ndingacacanga ngawo nawaphi na amazwi obomi bobomi kunye neemvakalelo ezintsha ngobuchule, endifuna ukuwa ufumana lonke ilizwe ngothando. Nditshintshe ngokupheleleyo isimo sengqondo kwabanye. Bendihlala ndikhuselwe ehlabathini. Ngoku-thanda wonke umntu, nokuba ungakanani, kuba ndibona umntwana. Xa kukho utat'omkhulu ophakathi, ndiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umama wakhe ezulwini uyambona kwaye uyazithanda kwaye ancedise ezandleni zakhe ... kunjalo, yonke le nto 'yayiphalaza "ukuya kwimigca egqibeleleyo kwiintetho zam. I-Mandala yandinika isiko elimangalisayo lezimvo ezintsha. Kodwa! UMasha-kwindawo yokuqala. Zonke ezi zimvo kunye nezicwangciso ezikhulu endizisebenzisayo kuphela xa uMama abhabha emhlabeni wonke. Ngoku ndisoloko ndinentombi yam kwaye ndimka ndedwa kwiikonsathi kufuneka ndifumane imali, endiyicwangcise ukutshata ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezingama-7 ukuya kwezi-10, qho kwiinyanga ezimbini. Ecaleni kweMasha ngeli xesha, umakhulu wethu othandekayo, uMama Anton, uhlala. Uyayithanda i-masha ukuya ekuphefumleni, ngaphandle koko, ungumfundisi omangalisayo kunye nomzukulwana wazo ulwalamano olumangalisayo.
"UVictoria, akukho mfihlakalo yokuba ukuzalwa komntwana 'yephepha le-lacmus" laba amaqabane. Ukuzalwa kwentombi kwabangela njani ubomi bosapho lwakho?
-Ukazalwa kukaMahasha kwasinyanzela ukuba sithandane, wayeqhele ukucaphuka. Kwintombi yethu, zonke iimpawu zethu zalunga ngokumangalisayo. Xa u-Anton wayenomsindo kwaye waphakamisa amashiya akhe, andikwazanga ukuyijonga ngokungakhathali: "I-Brobley iphantsi! .. Xa uMama ngoku iphakamisa ngoku, ayindibangela yona. Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukuzalwa kukaMasha ekugqibeleni ibe yintsapho egcweleyo neyonwabisayo. Kubudlelwane bekukho ubunzulu bothando, malunga nobukho besiphambi kokuzalwa kwentombi kwaye bengakrokrelwa.
-UVictoria, wena no-Anton - amakholwa. Ngaba uyayithobela iposti yecawe?
Esona sicelo sixhaphakileyo kwaye siphosakeleyo seso sithuba secawe sixhunyiwe kuphela ngesondlo. Ukuba ubukele umabonwakude kusasa ngobusuku ekuseni, ufunga nabamelwane bakho, awunakumxolela umntu, ayinamsebenzi oko ukutyayo. Ndithanda indlela omnye umbingeleli waphendula ngayo ebantwini onomdla kumandla aseburhulumenteni: "Eyona nto iphambili kwisithuba ayinamnye."
- kwaye iyokugqibela. Batsho ukuba ngeminyaka, esi sibini "siqhela" omnye komnye. Ngaba yonke into iye yafundwa, idiniwe, yatsho. Iyintoni imfihlo yomtshato wakho omde?
-Ngaba bodwa kunye. Ixesha elingaphezulu, sitshintsha kakhulu kwaye, ndiyathemba ukuba siyakhula kangangokuba ayinakwenzeka ukuba "iqhele" kwintsingiselo engalunganga yale ngcinga. Ayikho enye into kweli lizwe ingafundiswanga nyhani, ayiphelelwanga, ayitshonga! Uthixo Luthando. Asazi into ngoThixo, ke uthando alunakwenzeka ukuba liphikisane kwaye uqonde ngokupheleleyo izina ezine. Kwaye xa umntu ehlala kulo mnqweno uhlala ekwandisa indlela athetha ngayo uthando - ukwaluphala kwenzeka konke konke. Kanye nje ukuza ixesha lenguqu kwihlabathi yeyona ilungileyo. Ehlabathini apho uthando luhleli ngonaphakade.