"Ndikwinqaba enkulu esuswe kwiqela. Baninzi abantu abahlukileyo, kuquka nomnye wam oqhelekileyo. Ndihamba kweli gumbi ukusuka kwigumbi ukuya egumbini: Kungenjalo isiselo esithile, kwenye indawo sinxibelelana, kwenye indawo iziyobisi, kwenye indawo ababelana ngesondo. Kula magumbi ndikhona, kodwa andiziva ndiyinxalenye yolonwabo. Kwelinye amagumbi, ndoyika, kodwa andiyeki, ndilinde isithandwa sam sangaphambili. Khumbula imvakalelo yokulinda. Emva kwexesha sasondela kunye naye kweli phathi, iqala ukukhanya. Emva kwethuba, uyanyamalala emehlweni, ndimfuna, ndiye ndafumana abanye abaqhelene nabo, endiza kufuneka ndikhulule kulo mcimbi. Emva kwentsasa, ngaphambi kokuba ide ibekho kwi-Central Starserserse, ndibona eyona yaqala intanda, ihleli kwiparapet. Uhlala phantsi, azigobe ngezandla zakhe kwaye ethoba intloko yakhe ezantsi. Ndiyaqonda ukuba ubi. Ndiya kuye, ndizame ukukhokela nam. Akayi kuqala andindiqaphele, emva koko aphinde apele kwaye athi akayi kuya nam ndawo.
Yayiliphupha elinjalo landixelela ibhinqa eliselula. Onjani ukuba mhle umzekelo obangela umdla kunye obonakalayo!
Ukulala kubonisa amaphupha ethu, oko akubona amadoda: Ukuziphindezela, ukungafikeleleki okanye okungapheliyo.
Esi siqwenga sokuntywila sixelela umfundi wethu, izigqibo ngezigqibo ezizenzileyo malunga namadoda.
Mhlawumbi ngenxa yamava ayo adlulileyo okunxibelelana namadoda amakhulu, akazange afumaneke amava okwala okanye ukuphoxeka. Mhlawumbi wazama ukoyisa umntu ixesha elide, njengoko indoda ephupheyo ayifumaneki kuye, ayikwazi ukuhlala nokunxibelelana naye: emva koko kufuneka inxile, emva koko uye wanxila.
Abafazi abanamava afanayo okuqokelela umsindo oqokelelweyo, intiyo okanye ukuphoxeka, indoda akukho lula ukwenza ubudlelwane obuthembekileyo kunye nokuthembana.
Ngenxa yokuzimela kwalo ngokungazi ukuba amadoda anjalo - engafikeleleki, ukubanda, atyibilika, angenakuthelekiswa, angathembeki, abasetyhini ababoni ukuba bolule kuphela kumadoda anjalo. Amanye amahlakani abonisa umdla, ingqalelo, inkathalo, ibonakala inesidima kwaye iyakhathala. Njengama-moths ebusuku abhabha esikhanyayo kunye namaphiko amnandi, abafazi abanjalo abaqapheli ukuba kwaoko bevela kwaoko, bakuphelisa ubume babo.
Mhlawumbi iphupha lixela iphupha lethu malunga nemeko yokwenene yemicimbi. Isibakala sokuba kwakufuneka aphile ecaleni kwendoda, kwaye injani yona ngoku. Kule meko, xa uzama ukudala ubudlelwane obutsha, amava okuphoxiza kwangaphambili, ukucekiseka kwaye ukungabi nakhohlakeleyo akuyi ndawo. Itsiba kakuhle okanye okwethutyana ilityelwe, kodwa kwithuba lokuqala, inxeba elidala lityhila kwakhona.
Lixesha lokuba siqwalasele isimo sakho sengqondo kumadoda, ndiphilise amanxeba amadala akwishawa enokuba yinkqubo enzima nengaphambili.
Nangona kunjalo, kunokuba kubalulekile ukuba uphupha ubudlelwane obuzele kwaye bunothando. Kubalulekile ukususa indala, eqokelelweyo ukulungiselela indawo yolutsha ngakumbi, ngqo kwaye igqibelelene nendoda engafanele yoyiswe, ilawulwe okanye ijonge ukuchasana nobudlelwane. Unokunandipha nje ukonwaba kunye nolonwabo.
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UMaria Zmvuskova, ugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango losapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqesho loQeqesho loQeqeshe leMarika Khazina