I-Acress Satirikon ithiyori, inkwenkwezi yeefilimu kunye nemiboniso yeTV, uMoMama abathathu. Abasebenzi beMvume yeTV isongeze kongezwa kolu luhlu lubalulekileyo lweenkxalabo ze-Glafira Tarkhanova.
- I-Glafira, akudala ukuba yinkqubo ekhokelayo "isindisa umntwana wam." Uninzi lwabalandeli bakho, lungalindelekanga ...
- Abadlali ngamanye amaxesha basebenza iinkqubo ezikhokelayo. Ndithathe iisampulu, kwaye ndakhethwa ngenxa yeenkokheli ezahlukeneyo. Mhlawumbi yandinceda ukuba ndingunina wabantwana abathathu.
"Emva komsebenzi omtsha, ngaba ukhe wabona ukuba ingakanani na ebantwaneni, indlela ocinga ngayo ngoonyana bezempilo ngandlela thile?
"Ukuba umama wam ngequbuliso uqalisa ukubandakanyeka emntwaneni kwaye akamphefumli, oko akuthethi ukuba uza kumnceda." Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ngenxa yalo naliphi na i-piippeng yokuqhuba koogqirha kwaye inyanzelise imisebenzi. Okanye baphathe umntwana esibhedlele ngenxa yempumlo ebalekayo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uyihlole imeko kwaye ungabi yinkqubo yokugqibelela kumbandela wempilo yabantwana.
- Yiyo, wena ungabaleki ngayo nayiphi na ingxaki esibhedlele?
-Um, ungabaleki. Xa umama ebaleka kwenye indawo, ikwinto eyothusayo. Kwaye xa esentlungwini, akanakumnceda umntwana wakhe. Ke ngoko, mama bafanele bayihlolisise imeko. Anditsho ukuba ndiyakuthanda ukuhamba ngoogqirha. Mhlawumbi akunjalo. Oku kuphela njengendawo yokugqibela.
- Njengoko besitsho: Ngaphezulu komntwana wokuqala, umama akaphefumli, kwaye ukuba umntwana wesithathu utye kwisitya sekati, le yingxaki yekati, sele ingumama kathathu, sele eyi-guru yokuzola .. .
- Ewe ngokuthe ngqo. Naxa wayefunda kwi-prechology, kwabonakala kum ukuba yonke into kufuneka yahluke. Kodwa yonke into ayakhiwe njengoko injalo, kwaye kufuneka usebenzise imizamo enkulu yokutshintsha imeko.
Kwinqanaba elithi "ukuvukela" kweGlafira Tarkhanova kudlalwa umntu ochithiweyo ofuna ukuziphindezela kwindoda yakhe etyebileyo
-Uhlala uphupha ngosapho olukhulu olunje?
- Hayi, andizange ndiphuphe. Nangona abantwana abathathu entsatsheni abasasebenzi. Ngoku abantu kulula ukwenza njalo. Kwaye abafazi abakhulelweyo ezitratweni baninzi kakhulu.
- Mhlawumbi umyeni unyanzelise usapho olukhulu?
-Sinobudlelwane obuncinci obahlukeneyo, kwaye isigqibo sokuzalwa esithathu sasingamkelwa ekhitshini. Xa ndazala okokuqala, andizange ndicinge ukuba ndiza kubathathu. Kodwa yenzekile. Esi sisigqibo sam. Isigqibo kukuba ukuba kukho ukukhulelwa, umntwana kufuneka ashiywe. Ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya.
-Une nyana abathathu, kwaye iphi isithandwa sakho ?.
-Wathi uThixo uyanika, iya kuba. Sobona. Ewe kunjalo, sizicwangciso zethu, kodwa kungekuphela yonke into ixhomekeke kuthi.
-Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uthini ukuba abantwana bakho banazo izibumo?
Andinawo umsebenzi wokujonga kubo italente yobugcisa, kuba bayabaninzi, njengabo bonke abantu. Banohlobo oluthile lweminqweno, kwaye bazimele kwiminqweno yam. I-MAPENDE, Iingcambu, zinomdla kwiirobhothi kwinqanaba labaqulunqi. Embindini, eYermolai, ngoku uneminyaka emithandathu, ayikhathalelwanga emangweni, kwaye yonke into inxibelelana nabo. Ewe, kwaye umncinci, iiGordes, yeyona incinci, inkanuko yakhe yinqwelomoya kunye noololiwe.
-U kufuneka ube netalente enkulu ukuze ukwazi ukudibanisa umsebenzi nabantwana. Ngaba unokufumana ntoni abo bafuna ukuba ngumama ophumeleleyo kwaye kwangaxeshanye benze umsebenzi?
Anditsho ukuba ndihlangabezana nayo yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo. " Andisoloko ndingenaxesha, kodwa kule nkqubo ndihlala kule nkqubo. (Uncumo.) Ewe kunjalo, ndizama ukunikela ingqalelo kubantwana ngexesha lakho lokukhululeka. Kodwa iyaphumelela kangangoko iphumelele.
-Ndicinga ukuba akukho sizathu silapha ngaphandle kwamava akho okuphakamisa udade omncinci, owazalwa xa ubuneminyaka elishumi nane ...
- ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuqala ... kodwa kwishumi elinesine, ndaqala ukuzama ukuphepha imisebenzi-yayiyindawo yam ecacileyo, ndatsho nditshoyo. Ngapha koko, lo dade wazalwa kumtshato wesibini kaMama. Kodwa kuseyimfuneko ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya xa uMama efunwa ubuncinci iiyure ezimbalwa ekhaya. Umgama owawuza kuhamba iiyure ezimbini zenziwe ngemizuzu engamashumi amathathu kwaye ubuyiwe ngamagama: "Sele ndihambe!" (Uhleka.)
- mhlawumbi, kwintsapho yakho enkulu umntu iqhuba imoto?
-Ndiqhuba imoto, kodwa umyeni akakho. Nje ukuba ndingabantwana abathathu, nam andizange ndiqhubele, kuya kubanjiswa endlwini. Isinceda, kunjalo, nanny. Ngaphandle kwawo, andikwazi ukusebenza. Kuba udadewethu unomahluko weminyaka elishumi elinesine, kunye nomninawa wam - amashumi amabini, emva koko umama unento yokwenza. Kwaye abazali bomyeni wakhe abakho eMoscow, kuba kunzima kubo ukuba bancede.
- Ngaba uyazifumana izinto ozithandayo kwishedyuli?
- Ngexesha lam elikhululekileyo ndiyaluyela, kwaye ihlala yenzeka kwindiza. Ewe kunjalo, ukungxama kwiklabhu yomzimba. Ukuba ekuseni abantwana ekuseni kwi-kindergarten nasezikolweni kwaye akukho msebenzi, ndiye ndakwenza emsebenzini. Yinyani, phaya kuphela.
- Ngobunzima, unokukholelwa ukuba umama wabantwana abathathu, elona xesha lamaxesha ngamaxesha ebandakanyekile ezemidlalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubonakale ngolu hlobo. Ngaba awukukutya nto?
-Kwayingozi! Kodwa ndikhangela ibhalansi ethile yesondlo. Ayilula. Ukutya ukutya kule nkqubo izihlandlo ezithandathu ngemini, ekucetyiswayo ngabahambisi, kunzima ukumelana neenqwelomoya, ihambo yeshishini. Ke andihlali nakuphi na ukutya ngoku.
NjengoMama onamava kamama, uGlafira Tarkhanov uyazi indlela yokunceda amaqhawe yenkqubo yakhe "sigcine umntwana wam"
-Iqabane lakho uAlexey FideeV ukwangumdlali weqonga. Mhlawumbi udibene neseti?
-Sidibene neesampulu. U-Lesha wayesele evunyiwe kwaye edlale i-arties, ekuhambeni kwabo naye besahamba. Ewe, kwaye emva koko kwaqala ukudubula. Kuyinto entle ukuba yonke into yenzeke eMoscow, kodwa ngaphandle kwesixeko - kwindawo eyahlukileyo evaliweyo. Kwenye indawo akude kurhwebo. Ulwalamano lwethu luye lwaphuhliswa, akunakwenzeka ukuba uthi luthando ekuqaleni.
- Ngaba uhlala uxoxa ngemibuzo yasekhaya?
-Ukuyilahla ngokupheleleyo ingxoxo ngezihloko ezinjalo, kunjalo, akunakwenzeka. Kuba siphila ngeendlela ezininzi. Kodwa asingabo abaxhasi omnye komnye kwaye asinikezi iingcebiso. Singakwazi ukuchaza uluvo lwethu, kodwa ukusuka kwimbono yobungcali, wonke umntu wenza isigqibo.
-Ungaze ugxeke?
- Abagxeki baninzi: Ukuqala ngezalamane ezikufutshane, ukuphela noogxa. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba sixhase omnye komnye.
-Uceba uphi uhlangane nonyaka omtsha?
-Ungayi kusebenza, kuba nge-31 kaDisemba, ndidlala kwivili "ivili lethamsanqa". Ngaphambili, andizange ndithathe inxaxheba kusomashishini, kodwa ngamava anomdla kum. Kubandakanya namava okutyelela izixeko ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye ukuqhubeka kwikomkhulu, ababukeli abavulelekileyo nababandakanyekayo.
-Ngenokwenzeka ukuba ukhethe izipho zokhenketho?
Uninzi lwazo zonke ndachukunyiswa yinqanawa enkulu yetshokholethi, eyayinike i-terhown bonsarenko. Wabekwa ngokomyalelo. Andikhumbuli ukuba ngalo nqanawa ekugqibeleni, kodwa thina, sinaye, sifotwe ...