Imini emnandi kuwe, abafundi! Ukususela kwimifanekiso yamanzi, imilambo, ulwandle aluqhelekanga ephupheni, masijonge umzekelo welinye lala maphupha, eli liphupha ngamanzi njengophawu.
Apha ngezantsi kukho umzekelo wephupha le-heroine yethu yanamhlanje: "Ngamanye amaxesha into efana nesihloko iphindaphindwa. Amaza amakhulu, ithoni. Kodwa amanzi amnandi, ayonzakalisi, amanzi athambile kwaye afudumele. Ndiyayibona indlela amanzi endivalela ngayo. Kwakuhlala ngathi kukho into ethile, okokugqibela umntu wandikhupha, isandla sentla. Ngokuqhelekileyo bendiqala ukwenzeka ... yintoni? "
Kwi-Uongian Therapy, uphawu lwamanzi luhlala luninzi kangangokuba sinokuhamba ngokulula ngaphaya kwesakhelo senqaku kwaye sibhale isincoko.
Kuba umfanekiso ngu-volovotric, ke ndiza kukuxelela kuphela izikhombisi ezininzi apho amaphupha ethu kuya kufuneka acinge ngokuzonwabisa. Eyona nto ithembekileyo iya kukushukuma kweengcinga eziphakamayo.
Amanzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, Amanzi-uphawu lweemvakalelo . Kule mzekelo, kushushu, nangona kungenjalo. Amanzi luphawu lwecala lethu le "bhinqa" esikuyo, ulwelo, ukuguquguquka, ivolumu. Amanzi abonisa intsingiselo yethu enobuthathaka, engqondweni, apho i-roine yokulala "inyibilika".
Yintoni, ngendlela, ihlala intle kwaye ingeyomfuneko. Ukhuseleko, ukupakishwa, ukuphumla, ukuthoba, uthando, uthando - ngamanye amaxesha luyimfuneko kangangokuba iimvakalelo ezigutyungelwe ziintloko zazo. Ukuphuma kakhulu kule ndlela kukuhlangabezana neemvakalelo, ukuba kukho imfuneko, ukuzibabeka ecaleni kwaye kusekwe eminye imicimbi, kuba kusekho kwamanye amanqanaba amava esijonge ebomini, ngaphandle kweemvakalelo zethu.
Amanzi njengophawu lobunzulu. Ubunzulu bungahlukanga: ukunxibelelana nawe, ukusondelelana nabanye. Kule miba yolwalamano lomntu kunye nabo kunye nabanye bunzulu. Okukhona unxibelelwano oluqinileyo nomntu onam, kokukhona kubudlelwane nabanye abakulungele ukubeka esichengeni. Kwaye akukho mntu uthi kukhuselekile. Kuyo nje kukho umngcipheko wakho. Ke ngoko, amaphupha e-heroine yethu ayikho malunga nendlela azichitha ngayo emanzini angaphantsi, kodwa malunga nendlela amaza aguqula ngayo. "Ikhaya" lethu lisayingozi.
Amanzi njengophawu lukamama. Kuphela unyango lwe-yongian olufanayo, endisele lukhankanyiwe, luqwalasela amanzi njengomfanekiso kamama. Ukunxibelelana noMama, njengamanzi, yeyona nto iphambili: efudumeleyo okanye ebandayo, egqumayo okanye enomtsalane, efumana okanye ecocekile okanye ecocekile okanye ecocekile okanye icocekile okanye icocekile okanye icocekile.
Ukuba ujonga umzekelo wokulala, emva koko nxibelelana nonina ufudumele, apho unokuhlala uphume khona, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha - ukusebenzisa isandla somntu. Mhlawumbi iphupha libeka phambi kombuzo wamaphupha: Ngaba wenze uthando olwaneleyo lomama, lushushu ukuba luye emva kokuba luye, okanye usalinde uncedo kunye nezandla zomntu ukuba ziqhubeke nendlela yakho?
Amanzi anokufanekisela iimvakalelo okanye ulwalamano noMama
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Amagama amabini anokutshiwo ukuba uncwadi olungakumbi lwengqondo, uphando oluguqulelwa kwi-Russian, ulwazi lwento yokuba okona kunamabanga abekiweyo kunye ne-mama, ngakumbi umntu owaziyo ukuba angazithembi ngakumbi Ukuzibhokoxa kwimicimbi yokwakha ubudlelwane nabanye: ihlonipha eyayo nenye imida, iveza iimvakalelo kunye nobudlelwane bayo, iyakwazi ukwenza imilinganiselo yabo kunye nemisebenzi yabo.
Inxalenye yolwalamano olusempilweni kunye nomama ukwahlula-hlulwa kwaso ukusuka kuyo. Le yinkqubo yokuhlanganiswa xa umntu emdala ekhupha umntwana wakhe, kwaye umntwana uyaxhomekeka kumandla ayo, ngelixa esenza ubomi bawo bokuzimela.
Mhlawumbi iphupha libonisa iphupha lethu le nkqubo. Ngapha koko, akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yigrader yegadi okanye yesikolo esibona la maphupha. Iminyaka yobudala ye-phanoforas ayisoloko ihambelana nokuziphatha kakuhle. Kwizifundo zaseNtshona, kukholelwa ukuba ubudala bokutyibilika xa umntwana oqhubayo ebomini kwimali yakhe, kwintsimi yayo, edla ukutya kwakhe. Kwinkcubeko yethu, ngamanye amaxesha zonke izinto azifumaneki nakwabantu abaqolileyo kakhulu, kwaye ukuba ziyafezekiswa, le nkalo inokuvela njengoxanduva lomntwana kwintlalontle kunye nempilo kamama. Kodwa eli bali elahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo elifanelwe linqaku elahlukileyo.
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku siza kuhlala kwinyani yokuba amanzi anokuphupha ngesibonakaliso senkqubo, esele ikhulile ibonakale kubudlelwane kunye nomama oqolileyo.
Makhe sihlale kwezi ndawo zokucinga kwabo baphuphayo umqhubi, kunye nephupha, elithumele iphupha.
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