I-Desser yi-psychology yifom emsulwa, ikhula. Kwaye lo ngumsebenzi ophindwe kabini: Ngaphambi kokusondela esilwanyana kwaye ucele into kuye, kufuneka usebenze kuwe, kuba umntu obuthathaka ngaphandle kwentonga engaphakathi ayinakuba ngumqeqeshi. Ugqirha akanyanzeli ukuba isilwanyana sikuthobele, kuthetha ukumqonda, ukufumana intembelo yakhe kunye nokudlulisela kuye ukuba sidlulisela kuye. Kwaye ngenxa yoko kufuneka ubaphulaphule, ulungelelanise. Umqeqeshi ngokusisiseko ugqirha wezengqondo kunye notitshala olungileyo. Izilwanyana, njengabantu, zahluke kakhulu: Inetalente enkulu, ubuqili, engaqinisekanga, ikratshi, ikhukhumeleyo, ikhuthele, ikhuthele, iphelele ... Ngamnye kubo ngumntu ohlukileyo.
I-Cheetahs ndithathe kuba ndifuna ukuthabatha ngokungaqhelekanga. Namhlanje, abayi kudibana nabo kwisekethe, akukho mntu usebenza nabo ngenxa yobunzima babakhathalelwe. Ewe, kwaye i-motos yam "ayinakwenzeka mhlawumbi" isebenze nangelixesha. Ngoku andikwazi ukuzimaza ngaphandle kwabo - zizilwanyana nje ze-cosmic! Bakhawuleza kakhulu, nkqu nezitali azizinzanga kakhulu ngokwemeko. Ndihlala ndibuzwa ukuba ngaba umsebenzi wam uyandinceda ebomini, kubudlelwane nabantu. Ndingachitha umntu phakathi koluntu kunye nomdlwenguli kunye nomntu, ngakumbi, nendoda. Kukho into eninzi apha. Isimo sengqondo somntu nakwizilwanyana ezibonakala kum - olu luthando olunyanisekileyo, isimo sengqondo sokunyaniseka. Ukuba lo ngumntu, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyixabisa, kwaye yonke into iza kuphuma - yiba luhlobo lothando okanye lube nobuhlobo. Nazi ezinye iindawo.
- Isilwanyana asinakwenzeka ukukhohlisa Abanye i-tinsel, ihambelana kancinci kwaye ngoko nangoko babona ubuxoki okanye into oyifihlayo. Kwaye nokuba yimeko embi yendoda inokuthathwa ngoncumo, ubuncinci kulo ubudlelwane obuqala kakhulu (umyeni wabo wemveli sele kuqala yonke into iya kuqonda), kodwa ngaphakathi Unexhala, nayo iqale inoloyiko. Kumadoda, intuition ayiphuhliswanga njengakwasetyhini, kwaye iingwenkala kwesi sicwangciso zinovelwano ngakumbi.
- Ingwenkala ayizukulala ngokunxulumene nawe Kwaye ukuba unemood engalunganga, iya kubonakala kwangoko. Ukuba awuthandi, uya kuyibonisa kwangoko. Indoda ingayifihla, ngandlela ithile ize isebenzise ukuba into ifuna into kuwe. Indoda inokukhohlisa. Isilwanyana - hayi. Oku kusebenza kungekuphela nje kumadoda, ndithetha ngoku malunga nokufana nobudlelwane namadoda. Kodwa yamkelekile nakulo naluphi na ulwalamano. Ukuba wena ungayazi indlela yokubona inkohliso kwangoko, kuyakuqonda ukuba iimvakalelo zinqabile, emva koko uchitha ixesha elininzi emntwini. Ngomdlelo, yonke into ilula- inokubonwa kwangoko. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, awudingi uburharha kuwe, uyakuthanda, hayi ngento ethile hayi kuba efuna into kuwe. Kwaye abantu, ngokukodwa, amadoda, ahlukile.
Daria Kostyuk - umqeqeshi kuphela owenziwa kwiqela lakwaHepardiades
-Ukufumana i-themba kunye nesilwanyana, kwaye indoda inokuba yindlela efanayo -Kuyinto entle, kukucinezela kunye nothando. Zininzi izinto ezifanayo nezininzi ezahlukeneyo kule ndawo ifanayo.
-Ukuba sithetha ngemood, emva koko Ingwenkala kule nto ayizinzanga kakhulu Kodwa kum ukwigama. Ewe kunjalo, ayizange ifikele ngokukhawuleza ukuze iqonde indlela yokuqonda ixesha. Njengayo nayiphi na indoda, kufuneka banike ixesha lokuphumla, bacinge, ukuba bodwa nawe. Kuyimfuneko nakulo naluphi na udla ubomi, kodwa i-hepdrads yenzeka rhoqo. Ngokubanzi, ngokweeHepardiades, banekati eninzi, nangona uzahlulelo lwawo yinja.
-Ngokonwaba kwabantu yeyona nto inzima - ukukholelwa Kuba awusoze wazi ukuba ufuna ntoni umntu kuwe. Unokuvula umntu, emva koko uya kuphambuka. Mhlawumbi nantoni na. Kwaye abaxhaphazi abanawo. Kukho ubudlelwane obunyulu obungakumbi, okusesikweni, yonke into icacile kakhulu. Kodwa awunayo ilungelo lokunganyaniseki - abayi kuyivumela. Wena wahlala unxibelelana naye - kwaye isiseko sibekwa. Kodwa phantsi kokusekwa komfowunelwa apha kwenzelwe ukuba ihlengahlengise ixhoba, kuba ufuna into kuye, hayi, kwaye, ukuba ufuna ukuba uthathe imithetho yomdlalo. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukwenza oku kwi-smart kwaye imbeke ngokunyaniseka kubo nothando. Nakwisilwanyana ngasinye, ingulule nganye ikakhulu - isimo sabo sengqondo, imigaqo yayo. Ukuba ufumene inqaku lokunxibelelana nesilwanyana, ke sele likho ngonaphakade, akuyi kubakho sithetha ukuba sithetha kolu lwalamano, kwaye yonke into ixhomekeke kuwe. Kwaye kubudlelwane nomntu wonke oxhomekeke kuzo zonke, kwaye awukwazi ukuziqhelanisa ngokupheleleyo phantsi kwendoda - ke awuzukuphulukana nawe kunye neentetho malunga nolwalamano olonwabisayo. Apha i-tandem. Kwaye akukho ntembeko injalo ngeli xesha nangonaphakade. Namhlanje, umntu osecaleni kwakho, ngomso wanyamalala okanye ubudlelwane bakhe batshintsha.
Makubandezeleke ngokuthetha-thethana nomntu, kodwa oko kuya kukukhokelela kwento enokwazisa . Ngezilwanyana, indlela inzima ngakumbi, kodwa umphumo ukho ngonaphakade.
Ukuthambisa
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba awudingi kumadoda ahlabayo. Kuba ukunciphisa-kuthetha ukucinezela, cinezela, fumana. Kum, kum, kum ngokwem, oko kukuthi, oku akuyonto isimangalo, oku kukhula. Indoda evumela ukuba ityhafise, ngokoluvo lwam, yindoda ethambileyo, indoda ethambileyo. Kwaye kubonakala kum ukuba umntu abe nomelele, iVolveev, ifanele ibe nentonga engaphakathi, umlilo. Inye kuphela into eguquguqukayo - xa indoda ikulungele ukufumanisa ukuthobeka okanye kwenye indawo ukuba inikezele kwinzuzo yolonwabo lomfazi, ubudlelwane obulungileyo njalo njalo. Kulungile. Kodwa ke ukuba ubayalele, -ndiyamkeli le nto.
"Unxibe i-psychology kwifom emsulwa, ukukhulisa"
Okokuqala, umntu obhinqileyo uyayiqonda indoda yakhe, yithabathe njengoko kunjalo, emva koko uya kudibana. Kwimicimbi yempikiswano, kufuneka ukwazi ukubonisana ukuze uthathele ingqalelo iimfuno zazo zombini. Umzekelo, awuthandi xa kukho iinkampani ezinengxolo ekhaya, kodwa uyayiqonda into afuna ukumemela abahlobo, ukuba anxibelelane. Emva koko kufuneka thethane thethana nokuba ndimkile kule ndawo kwi-cottage, okanye uhambe nabahlobo kwivenkile yokutyela, okanye ukumisela ixesha osekhaya, kwaye ndiye ndaya kwenye indawo, kwaye ndiya kulala. Oko kukuthi, aninqabi, kodwa, nicinga ukuba nihlala kunye, nifuna ukulalanisa. Ewe kunjalo, kuba wonke umntu ukwi-taboos ezithile. Ndinayo le ngcan, kwaye ayithethi. Kubudlelwane kunye nabaxhaphazi kukho omnye "kodwa", azikwazi ukungxama.
Thatha umntu ongenakwenzeka. Ukutsala yingcinezelo. Ke uloyiko lubonakala, kwaye ubuxoki buza kuqala, njalo njalo. Apha, ndiyaphinda, akunakubakho mbuzo wobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo obunempilo. Entliziyweni yalo naluphi na ulwalamano-ngesilwanyana okanye indoda-uthando kunye nokunyaniseka kufuneka kuxoke. Emva koko unokuthethathethane. Kodwa uthando nokunyaniseka akufuneki ukuba lungabi gwenxa, kufanele ukuba lubekhona bobabini. Kule qonga kuphela kweli qonga linokwenzeka ixesha elide, elinokuthenjwa kunye nolonwabo.
Ngokwam, ndiye ndikwintsapho yeklasikhi, ngentsebenziswano. Indoda kufuneka yomelele, ayixoxwa, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndizivumela ukuba bomelele kumaxesha athile asebenzayo. Kwaye onke amaxesha ahambelana nosapho, sigqiba kwelokuba akukho mntu ucinezela nabani na. Kukho amabhinqa alungile phantsi kwendoda eyomeleleyo, kwaye bona ngokwabo abathanga ngqo, bahlaziya yonke into, abakwenza nto, bamamele yonke loo mntu. Abanye abanyamezeli xa umntu esomelele kunabo, kufanelekile kubo ngokungagungqi, bakhanyisela amadoda. Iifom zosapho zinokwahluka, kwaye ukuba zombini zilungile, zenzeka. Omnye umbuzo kukuba rhoqo icala lizama ukutyhoboza enye, "traime". Andiqondi le nto. Ngokoluvo lwam, okanye uyamthanda umntu, ukuba yintoni, okanye akunjalo. Kwaye ukuba uzama ukwaphula kwaye uhlengahlengise indlela ocela ngayo - loluphi uhlobo lothando onokuluthetha ngayo?