Ndiyayithanda ivolumu kunye nobunzulu bomhlobo wephupha! Yintoni ke enokuthi ichazwe kwizivakalisi ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-4 ezinokutolikwa kwi-frets ezahlukeneyo kwaye ukhethe Lowo uza kuphendula. Ndiza kunika ngezantsi iphupha labafundi bethu. Ukusuka kumzekelo wayo wephupha, kuyacaca ukuba icace gca malunga nayo kangangeminyaka, kwaye iphupha libalasekile, ke ndisazisa kumbuzo wombuzo.
Ke: "Ndiphupha ukuba kufuneka ndiqhubeke ndisebenza, ndibuyele kwi-4 yeziko leZiko lam, kwaye iseshoni kungekudala, kwaye eyadini nge-2 kaDisemba ngoDisemba 2. Andizange ndifundiswenye ukusukela ngoSeptemba, phambi kweemviwo, kwaye ndiyaqonda ukuba ndino-2 "umsila" endingenakudlula ngenxa yongqubano kunye notitshala. Kwaye ephupheni, ndothuka, kuba ndisebenza, ndingayenza njani kwakhona kwiZiko emva kweminyaka engama-30, ndiligqibile njani? ".
Iphupha ngokwalo alikwazanga ukuphendula umbuzo wobutho bakhe. Kwakuvunyelwe kakhulu kwaye kwagcinwa. Kwaye ukuze bakwazi ukujongana noMyalezo, kufuneka ubone ukuba yonke into yenzekayo kwinxalenye.
Umfazi ovuthiweyo ubona ephupheni ukuba kufuneka abuyele kwixesha lobutsha bakhe, apho kukho ukungqubana nobunzima, kwaye wabasivala ebudaleni, ngoku, ukuba nobomi bawo. Ingamxelisa ntoni? Kwaye kutheni ngoku?
Ndiyakwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuba ikwanobunzima obufanayo kubudlelwane obukhulu nangolo xesha sele lugqithile kabini. Kodwa ukusuka kwiindawo zobutsha bayo, zengxwabangxwaba, malunga noviwo, ekufuneka zidluliselwe kwaye zihlale "imisila".
Mhlawumbi iphupha lamxelela ukuba emphefumlweni asaqhubeka nokutya ngaphambi kokuba aqhubeke nonxibelelwano.
Mhlawumbi ulala ubonakalisa ubuthathaka bakhe, apho iminyaka edlulileyo inokujika ibe ngamava, ukuguquguquka okanye uxinzelelo. Mhlawumbi, malunga nonxibelelwano kunye nonxibelelwano, kusafuneka afunde kwaye athathe iimviwo zabo, boyise izifundo zobomi.
Amagama ambalwa malunga neengxabano. Vula i-Intanethi kwaye unyuke kwizindululo zesigqibo sembambano, iminqweno yokuphila ngokuzolileyo nangokuvisisanayo. Kwangelo xesha, imbambano yinkalo eyimfuneko yokukhula, ukwenziwa komntu. Ngaphandle kwengxabano, akukho mbutho. Awuyi kufumana usapho olungazi ukuba yeyiphi impikiswano. Ingxabano yinto eqhelekileyo yendalo yomntu. Asinakucinga okufanayo, sifuna enye kwaye siyaziva kwaye siphila ngokudibeneyo. Ngomloxa, sifumana ukuqonda kwethu ukuba singubani, oko sikufuna kwaye sihamba apho sishukuma khona, oko kukuthi, umahluko, yima kwimvelaphi ngokubanzi. Ukuba licala eliphikisanayo ngamanye amaxesha luncedo ngakumbi kumda wesitokhwe wobuntu bethu kunokuba ugule kwaye uyichithe. Isigqibo sokuqonda kwengxabano, kwaye singabaleki kuyo, sinika ubomi amagama amatsha. Ungathetha ngokungafikeleliyo malunga nokungqubana, njengoko kufunyanwa ngaphakathi nakuphi na unxibelelwano lomntu ekhaya, emsebenzini, esikolweni, nabantwana - naphina. Elona nyathelo lichanekileyo liza kufunda indlela yokuphatha le nxalenye yonxibelelwano lwabantu, ukuba bhetyebhetye, kukwazi ukuzicombulula ngokwabo ngenzuzo.
Kwaye ngawaphi amaphupha akho? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin