Sihlala simamela kangaphi ukuthandabuza, uloyiko, uloyiko? Simbi kangakanani sinyanga amava ethu, ngakumbi ukuba azisengqiqweni? Indlela eqhelekileyo yokucinga iphakamisa ukuba yonke into "embi" kufuneka ikhutshwe entlokweni. Kodwa amaphupha awaqhelenga iindlela zethu zokuthintela nawaphi na amava. Ukulala kunokuthetha ngento yokuba thina, njengabantu bonke abaphilayo, sithande ukuba, sisoyika okanye sicinga ukuba siqhubeka nale nto: Yakha iprojekthi okanye ufeze.
Nanku umzekelo olungileyo:
"Ndandiphupha. Imbumbulu yam ihleli. I-Toyer ilusizi kakhulu, uxinzelelo. Kwaye uthi: "Andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni ngoCyril (lo ngumyeni wakhe)?"
Omnye uthe, wayengeyiyo indlela. Ke, uya kubandezeleka, nokuba uza kubakhusela, nokuba abe kunye. Ndimxelele ukuba anosapho, umntwana. Sele bedibene. Kutheni ebuma umntu? Ndithi kuye: "esele ikhuselwe, okanye wena, okanye ngaphandle kwawo. Uya kufumana phi omnye umntu ozicingileyo nothando? "Ephupheni, yena. Nangona ebomini 'ulikhoboka leziyobisi, simahla ekuthandeni kwakhe iminyaka nje ezimbalwa. Into yokuqala eyakhumbuza xa ndivuka kukuba uthando luthandabuza. "
Iphupha elimangalisayo! I-heroine yethu ibona isibini esitshatileyo ephupheni, apho ubudlelwane bubuhlungu kangakanani: iqabane elixhomekeke kwinyanga, elithandabuzayo.
Ewe kunjalo, amaphupha ethu achaze ngokufanelekileyo isithembiso sokulala: Uthando yinxalenye yakhe kangangokuba uyagxeka isimo sengqondo sokuya kumyeni wakhe kunye nentsebenziswano yabo. Le yinxalenye yayo, edanile, iyacinezelwa kwaye sele ikudelele ukutyala imali. Kwangelo xesha, eli candelo aliyenzi ukutshintsha imeko yemicimbi, kodwa ukubandezeleka nje. Elinye icala lomphefumlo walo uyalela yena, afowunela ulwalamano oluxanduva.
Ukulala kubonakalisa amaphupha ethu kwinxalenye yakhe edanile ngokubambisana. Ngendlela, ayingombono wemifanekiso ekhethwe ngamathuba: Kumaxesha akutshanje, isikhohlisi kunye nenkosikazi yakhe abadlelane kwaye senza imizamo yokuphucula ubomi babo.
Ewe kunjalo, kuyo yonke into ethe tyaba enye: Kuye ukubandezeleka. Wonke umntu uya kuqonda. Kwangelo xesha, kumfazi, esi sikhundla sexhoba kunye nomtshutshisi ngaxeshanye sinceda ukubalekela kwityala labo kubomi babo. Ngelixa esenza isityholo kunye nokugxekwa kwenye, izicwangciso zakhe zikhona.
Mhlawumbi iphupha lamaphupha ethu libonisa ukuba sisikhundla sezinto: ukulungisa iqabane, libale ukuba lithandane ngakumbi, linokuthenjwa - kulula kunokulonwaba ngakumbi ngakumbi kwaye wonwabe ngakumbi.
Kwaye anixelela ntoni amaphupha akho? Thumela amabali akho ngeposi: [email protected].
UMaria Zmvuskova, ugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango losapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqesho loQeqesho loQeqeshe leMarika Khazina