Ngaphambili, eRussia, kwiimama ezizayo ezazigqiba kwelokuba ziqale umntwana wokuqala emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu, zibambe igama elibi "elidinisayo". Namhlanje kubonakala ngathi kuyahlekisa. Kwakukho utyekelo lwehlabathi: Abafazi abaninzi ngakumbi bakhulelwe kamva, becela ukwenza umsebenzi kuqala, zenzeke kulo msebenzi. Phakathi kodumo lwemizekelo kaTom, uHalley Berry, Jennifer Lopez, Madasonna, Mediya Tourey, I-Olga Drotzdova, Marianna Mogilevskaya. I-Olga yase-Olga yabuya yathi yayizazala kumashumi amathathu anesihlanu, kwaye yayiphosakele unyaka nje. Kwavela ukuba isikhundla esinjalo sinoncedo oluninzi: Amava obomi sele eqokelelwe, iimvakalelo endifuna ukuba nesabelo, iimvakalelo zethu ziphunyezwe kwaye kukho ithuba lokunikela ingqalelo ngakumbi kumntwana. Ngokubanzi, ndijonga ezothusayo kwaye ndinoyolo, sonwabile yintsapho yakhe.
Njengoko oomama abancinci baxelela, emva kokuzalwa komntwana, ihlabathi labo liyatshintsha, liqala ukujikeleza indoda encinci. Lena Yinyaniso?
I-Olga yase-Olga: "Hayi, eli ayilibali lam. I-muz iyasivumela ukuba siqhubeke sinemihlali ebomini, kodwa ngoku, kunye naye. Ndihlala ndinemvakalelo yokuba akangonyaka wokuqala nathi: Kulula kakhulu kwaye ngokwemvelo wangena usapho lwethu. Andazi, kuba sasifanelwe ngumntwana oqaqambileyo, olala ngokuzola ebusuku, engabi namandla, atya yonke into enikiweyo, kwaye ancumile ngalo lonke ixesha. Xa ndikhulelwe, iintombi zam zaxelelwa, ngokuqinisekileyo: "Yonwabela imihla yokugqibela, ngaphambi kweminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo yeminyaka elixhalabisayo." Kodwa andikwazi ukuthi yonke into iguqukele entloko, hayi kwaphela. Mhlawumbi, ukuba uyazala kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini, ithothela ngandlela thile, kwaye ubomi bathobela kabukhali opholileyo le ndoda incinci. Kodwa kum, mna nosapho lwam, indlu ibisoloko iyinto ephambili, ke ngoku kukho into ethile eyimfuneko ukuze uphilele. Elinye ilungu losapho, esivuya kakhulu kwaye ngubani ongasinyanzeli ngokupheleleyo. Thina, njengangaphambili, siqhubeke sisebenza ngenkuthalo, sukulibala ukuphumla, yiya kutyelela. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye abakaze bacele uncedo kuBramoni. Ngapha koko, asicwangcisi ukuqala i-nanny. Ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuyisombulula ukuya enyakeni, emva koko siza kubona. Ndifuna ukuqonde zonke ii-charms zabazali kwaye ndibone inkqubela phambili yosana lokuqala. Ukuhleka okokuqala, amazinyo okuqala, amanyathelo okuqala. "
Wena no-Alexey yiminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu ubudala. Ngoku wavula into entsha kwindoda yakho ithandekayo?
I-Olga: "Kuphela kukuphela kweempawu zam kuphela kwaqinisekiswa ukuba uAlexey wayenguBawo omangalisayo. Uchitha ixesha elininzi nentombi yakhe. Kwaye idlala kwaye ilungele, kwaye imibongo ifundwe, kwaye ibonisa ezinye zeziklitho. Ndithi: "Thixo wam! Kwasebusaneni omfundise umntwana kwi-iPad. " Ewe, kunjalo, inomdla kuye: Phambi kwamehlo eminye imifanekiso yoxolo, utata unika into. (Uhleka.) Kodwa nangona kunjalo uAlexey wenziwe kakuhle. Abahlobo bam banoncomo ngokupheleleyo. Ndihambile uhambo lokuhamba ngeshishini ukuya ePrague kangangeentsuku ezimbini, kwaye uAlexey wahlala nemyuziyam. Ndambuza amashumi amabini amashumi amabini: "Ngokuqinisekileyo ungafuni ukuba umama aze angene?" Waphendula wathi: "Nantsi intombi yam, yintoni engazange ndiyicele uncedo . Ndibuze wonke umntu: "Ngubani imyuziyam imyuziyanga?" Kwaye ukufunda ukuba noTata, umnqweno wesaqhwithi wavakaliswa. Ndinokuzola ngokupheleleyo intombi yam uAlezey, uyazi yonke into. Nangona bekukho incoko yokuqala, besithi, andiyi kuyitshintsha i-diaper. Kodwa akukho nto, isetyenziselwa.
Uhlala wathi isitampu kwipasipoti singabalulekanga kuwe, nangona kunjalo, ngoku umtshato wabhaliswa. Ngenxa yentombi yam?
I-olga: "Hayi. Ngenxa yephepha elinye lobuntu, elifunekayo ngokungxamisekileyo ukukhupha izindlu nomhlaba. Asikwenzi nakuphi na ihlelo kulo msitho, imitshato ayiyi kubonakala kungekudala. Masilinde de intombi ihambe ukuya kusasazeka i-gosels phambi komama notata emtshatweni wabo. .
"Olona gumbi lokufundela okwenziwa okwethutyana ebomini bomntu luvela kumashumi amathathu ukuya kumashumi amane. Xa isemncinci kunye nomzimba, nomphefumlo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye unamava obomi obukhulu. " Ifoto: Vladimir Chistyakucov.
Ngaba usanxiba ifani?
UOlga: "Ewe."
Ucinga ntoni kubafazi abazalayo emva kwamashumi amathathu anesihlanu, kwilizwe lethu sisesimo sengqondo esikhethekileyo?
UOlga: "Mhlawumbi ewe! Abantu bayakhawuleza ukuba baphile kwaye benze inani elikhulu leempazamo. Ukubandakanya ukukhuliswa kwabantwana ababezelwe kwangoko. Uninzi loomama abancinci baphumele ukuba balungiselele le ngqokelela. Abantwana batshintshelwe ezandleni zabakhulu kunye ne-nanny okanye kufuneka bashiye umsebenzi kwaye baphakamise umntwana. Kwaye ke amantombazana atyumza kangangokuba babengenalo ixesha lokwakha umsebenzi, kwaye basola abantwana. Sithathe isigqibo sokuba ndenzele ixesha elide ukuba sifune ukububona ngokupheleleyo obu bomi, ukusebenza, ukuhamba, ukonwaba. Kwaye xa yonke le sele yanele: kukho itafile, kunye nendlu, kunye namava obomi- unako ukuzala abantwana. Kodwa uluntu lucinga kuwe. Uluvo lunamandla lokuba ukuba emva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu, umntu akazange ayifumane inzala, kukho into engalunganga kuye. Ngelishwa, i-stereotypes ihlala iphila kakhulu, kodwa ndizama ukujongana nabo. "
Kwenye yeenkqubo "ntombazana" ozikhusela ngobuqaqawuli basetyhini ababhinqileyo. Uluvo olutshintshileyo nokuzalwa komntwana?
UOlga uthi: "Ndisayalela isikhundla sokuba umfazi unelungelo lokukhetha indlela yokuphunyezwa kwayo. Abanye nje babona ukuqeshwa kwabo entweni, abanye beshishini, abanye - kubuchule. Akukho sidingo sokugweba kunye nokugqobhoza ukungafuni ukuba nabantwana. Mayibe ngcono esi sisigqibo esingabazi ukuba singahambi izimvo zikawonke-wonke kunokuba sikhule umntwana ongathandaniyo oya kukhula ngeqela elikwanti, eliya kuthi ingonakalisi ubomi bomntu. "
Ngaba isimo sakho sengqondo satshintsha sakukhetha iiprojekthi zikamabonwakude ngokunxulumene nokuzalwa kwentombi?
I-Olga: "Hayi, ndisakwenza lonke ugqithiso lwam. Kodwa kuyathandeka ukuba iinkqubo zabantwana zaqala ukuvela. Umzekelo, umdlalo "uyandiqonda" ukuthandwa kakhulu: Izikolo kulo lonke ilizwe zikha amaqela abo kwiTV. Kuyahlekisa kangangokuba ndafumana ithuba lokuba yinkqubo ekhokelayo, endiyibukele ndayibukela esikolweni. Kwaye ngoku wahlwaywa wandibiza. Inomdla. Kwikhathuni "ye-squirrel yokwenyani" ndibonisa i-pug ehlekisayo i-bunny, kwaye "kwi-Ice versies" - Mammothich. Ke kwishefu yam sele kukho iidiski ezininzi ezinekhathuni endiza kubonisa induli xa ikhula kancinci. "
Inkqubo yakho entsha yeTV "ndiqonde" ndikufundise ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantwana?
UOlga uthi: "Undifundise ngcono ukuba ndiqonde okwenzeka ngcono okwenzekayo kweli lizwe labantwana - ukuba bayazibuza ukuba badlala ntoni, zeziphi iincwadi ezifundwayo. Ngapha koko, abantwana bale mihla bahluke kakhulu kuthi kweli xesha! Sithetha nentombazana eneminyaka elishumi elinesine kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ucinga njengomntu omdala. Le sele iyintombazana ebeka iifoto zakhe kwisuti yokuhlamba kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Abantwana bane-intanethi, bahamba kakhulu, banyanzelwa ukuba bakhulise ulwazi olukhulu kakhulu. Sele bethandabuza ezo filimu esibukeleyo. Kutshanje, bendinentombi eneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala. Ndambeka "ezingama-33 ezingathandekiyo" - intsomi entle enoJim Carey kwindima ekhokelayo. Ndiye ndahlala phantsi ukuze ndibukele, kuba ifilimu inomdla kakhulu, kodwa imizuzu elishumi kamva ukuba intombazana iyakhathazeka ngokungagungqiyo. Ndibuza: "Ngaba ungcono" ukubandakanya abaguqukiyo? "Iimpendulo:" Ewe. " Zonke ezi "ukutyelela ibali" alinamdla, ngesithukuthezi! Esi sizukulwana sahlukile ngokupheleleyo, banomnye ukuqonda umbala, ivumba, isandi. Ndikhuphe inkqubo enye kwi-iPhone - kukho umculo opholileyo, amaqamza amnandi avuthayo, kwaye awukhulula i-mus ukusuka kwiscreen. Ndicela ugqirha: "Ngaba kuyingozi kumntwana?" Kwaye Uphendula athi: "Abantwana bale mihla bahlukile omnye komnye. Xa umama wakho ekugcine ezandleni zakhe, yayiyi-monophonic shatter eshatrobe kuyo, kunye ne-t-shirt enemibala eqaqambileyo kuwe. Sasinemibala yeshumi le-gushi, kwaye inamawaka angamashumi amabini anesihlanu amawaka kwi-iPad. Aba ngabantu abohluke ngokupheleleyo. " Kwelinye lezikolo zaseMelika, sagqiba kwelokuba siyicime idlule-ngaphandle kwemvume. Kwaye sele kunqabile ukuba sibhalwe ngesandla, kwaye sibe nabantwana kwaye sitye rhoqo kwiikhompyuter. Uluntu luqale ukuba lucelwe ukuba likhutshiwe: bathi, kanjani, iirejista zikhulisa ukuthuthuzela okuncinci! Kwaye enyanisweni, abantwana bale mihla sele becinga ngezinye iindawo zobuchopho. Ke intlanganiso nesizukulwana esitsha ikhosileyo, andifuni ukubamba. "
"Ndisayalela isikhundla sokuba lo mfazi unelungelo lokukhetha indlela yokuphunyezwa kwayo. Abanye nje babona ukuqeshwa kwabo ngumama, abanye kwishishini, okwesithathu - kubuchule. " Ifoto: Vladimir Chistyakucov.
Kuyavela, kwimpikiswano yootata nabantwana beyona nto iphambili kubantwana abalungileyo, njengoko ezona zinto zibalulekileyo zanamhlanje ziyaziqonda ngcono?
Ewe: "Ewe, sibafundisa kwi-Bell tower yethu. Kodwa njengamava obomi, amasiko nenkcubeko adluliselwa. Indoda ibeka imyuziyam ingoma yale mihla, kwaye bayayithanda kakhulu. Kwaye ndiya kuvuma "iinqanawa ezimhlophe" kunye "nengoma malunga neMammoti" - ezi ziingoma zobuntwana bam, ndakhulela kubo kwaye, ndithembe ithemba, ukuze ibali lam liya kuba yinxalenye yebali lakhe. Amava am yinxalenye yamava akhe. Olu lunxibelelwano lwezizukulwana. "
Ngaba ungowokhubazekile okanye ukuthoba ukuphakamisa?
UOlga: "Ngenxa yothando. Kubonakala kum ukuba umntwana uya kuvakalelwa, uya kukuphendula okufanayo. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza kuya kufumanisa ukuba ithini, kwaye yintoni engenakuqonda: kuba ndiza kuqonda: Umama ufuna okona kulungileyo kuye. Kodwa esi sesisigqibo sam sokuqikelela. Ngubani owaziyo ukuba nguwuphi umntu oza kuba yintombazana yethu? Kodwa andifuni ukupakisha. Ukusuka ecaleni kwento ijongene nenkani: Ndifuna ihashe - kukho ihashe kuwe, ndifuna imoto - emotweni. Namhlanje yinto enye, ingomso lahlukile. Kufuneka kubekho ukulingana okufanelekileyo. "
Yeyiphi icebiso lemfundo oliphulaphulayo?
I-Olga: "nezona. Kwaye andizinikeli. Kubonakala kum ukuba yonke into ithile kakhulu: Le migaqo yemfundo esebenzayo "yomntwana omnye ayisebenzi kwenye. Kwanaxa ukhulelwe, xa ubomi behlala behleli kwiiforamu kwaye bahlakulela ngolangazelelo amava omnye umntu, andizange ndiyenze loo nto. Kwaye bonke abahlobo bakhe, intombi, umama wathi ndiyayixabisa kakhulu inkathalo yabo, kodwa ukuba ndifuna ingcebiso, ndiza kuzibuza. "
I-olga, kwaye yintoni egqithileyo, ihleli ebomini bakho?
I-Olga: "Oh yeah! Wonke umntu uyaphupha ngehlobo, kwaye mna - malunga nobusika, xa sisiya ezintabeni! Ngenxa yokukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa kweMyuziyam, kuye kwafuneka nditsibe ezimbini (!) IXESHA LOKUGQIBELA! Kodwa kulo nyaka ndiza kufika. Indoda sele ikholelwa xa imyuziyam ineminyaka emithathu ubudala. Yonke imihla ibonisa iividiyo ezintsha: "Jonga, le yiminyaka emithathu kuphela ubudala, kwaye sele ekhwele ikhephu. Khangela, le ndoda ibini kwaye inesiqingatha, kwaye ime ebhodini. " Ke, ndiziva, imyuziyam iya kuba ngumntwana wokuqala oza kuwa ebhodini enekhephu ngonyaka kunye neenyanga ezimbini. "
"Andazi ukuba yintoni i-US yathunyelwa ngumntu oqaqambileyo, olala ngokuzola ebusuku, engalunganga, atya yonke into abayinikayo, kwaye ancumile ngalo lonke ixesha." Ifoto: i-Instagram.com (@olgasheeght).
Ngaba ungathanda oku?
UOlga uthi: "Ndingathanda ukuba wazi ulwimi lwasemzini, waphuhliswa ngokwasemzimbeni. Ukuba sibona uhlobo oluthile lwetalente, siya kwenza kolu lwalathiso. Kubonakala kum ukuba ebuntwaneni ayifanelanga ukuba nomthwalo kakhulu umntwana, kufuneka simnike ithuba lokukhula ngokuthe cwaka. "
Kutheni upela malunga nonxibelelwano lwezizukulwana, uyabona njani iminyaka yakho?
I-Olga: "Mkhulu! Ndiyakholelwa ukuba le yeyona minyaka iphambili kubomi bomntu-ukusuka kumashumi amathathu ukuya kumashumi amane. Xa abancinci nabaselula kunye nomzimba, kunye nomphefumlo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye unamava obomi obukhulu. Uzimisele ukwenza izigqibo kwaye azisoyiki ukwenza iimpazamo, kuba izinto ezininzi zazibonakala kwaye uyazi ukuba ungaphuma njani nakweyiphi na imeko. Ndimnandi! Ewe, emva kwamashumi amane, njengoko besitsho, ubomi buqala nje. Ke ndisekulindele! "
Kwaye malunga nempahla yempahla itshintshile? Unxibe iimpahla ezimfutshane?
UOlga: "Hayi, yile nto endingenakuyiqonda le nto. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uyazi ukuba mdala kangakanani, nokuba inzima kangakanani imilenze yakho. Elwandle-nceda. Kodwa kwezinye iindawo, ngokoluvo lwam, kubonakala kubi. Andililo isihogo konke konke, kodwa xa ndibona i-julia endiyithandayo kwi-roberts kwi-hard rober ebomvu kwisiketi ngaphezulu komphezulu wethanga, ndifumana kamnandi kuye. Kwaye emva kwayo yonke imilenze yayo ipholile, kodwa ubuso sele bungumfazi odumileyo. Le ntsuma iyandidida. Okanye abanye abafazi abakhulileyo banxiba i-t-shirts kunye ne-mickey mouse okanye imibhalo ehlekisayo. Ewe, kanye, ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba unciphise umzimba, kodwa yonke imihla ishiya indlu, idlala kwishumi elivisayo enobunzima obuphelileyo, ininzi kakhulu nokuba sisijwili. "
Mhlawumbi le yeyona ngxaki yobudala obuphakathi?
I-olga: "Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ewe. Ngapha koko, uluntu ukholelwa ukuba sele iyimfuneko ekufezekiseni into kobu bomi. Yakha indlu, tyala umthi, utshahlise unyana. Kwaye ukuba into evela kwizinto zenkqubo ayizalisekanga, umntu uqala ukothuka, kwaye nakusebuntwaneni, uzama ukutsala iyure ye-X. Amathemba athile akazange azaliseke, akazange azaliseke, kwaye ulutsha luyaphela - ngenxa yoko uxinzelelo. Kwaye ngethemba lokufumana le trailer yokugqibela yolutsha oluphumayo, abantu banamathele ngokupheleleyo. Phusela abafazi, isiphene oselula omncinci okanye uyeka ukuhlala eGoa. "
"Yintoni umfazi angathandi ukunxiba!" Ifoto: i-Instagram.com (@olgasheeght).
Ukuba mncinci - ifashoni. Sifuna ukubona abantu abancinci kwiscreen, kwaye abaninzi bakulungele oku ukuba balele phantsi kwesitshixo sotyando.
I-Olga: "Le meko ivele eMelika: Ukuhamba ngaphezulu kwemisebenzi yeplastiki ebusweni bakho, ukuphakama kwenqanaba lentlalontle. Uhleka ntoni? Ukuhamba utyando lweplastiki-uyolo lwexabiso, ayinguye wonke umntu onako. Kwaye ukuba uyabona ukuba umntu wenza ubuso obukrokrela, wambetha ibunzi kwaye wandisa imilebe yakhe, "unemali. Ewe, ukungasebenzi kakuhle. Zonke ndizityhala intombi yam endala i-rita mitrofanov: "Hambani, niyenze into endandinomzekelo ophilayo phambi kwamehlo am. Ngapha koko, kungekudala ndiza kuba nayo yonke. " Ngamanye amaxesha uyabona ukuba umntu ochithe phezu kwakhe inkqubo ethile, yaqala ukubonakala ngcono, yaqala ukubonakala ngcono, incinci, kodwa ingathandeki ukubuza: Wenza ntoni? Ukongeza, ayinguye wonke umntu ovuma ukuba batyelele i-cosmetologist, uninzi lwendlebe ozivayo: "Ndisaphumle nje kwindawo ekuchithelwa kuyo. Ugqirha wonyango. Ngendlela, uRita ngumzekelo ophilayo, indlela yokujonga abantwana kwiminyaka engamashumi amane anesine. Kuyinto nje yomphefumlo welitye, waleka ukubulawa, kwaye olu bunxano lobomi bonwabile kukonwabisa. "
Wena, ngendlela, umfazi omhle kakhulu kwaye unokuzibeka njengezibubuxoki. Kodwa yiva ngokuzola.
UOlga: "Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, ewe. Kodwa ndihlala ndisamkela ukuncoma kunye neentloni kwidilesi yakho. "Amehlo amakhulu kunye neenwele ezinobunyameko" bendinike indalo, akukho mfaneleko wam. Kumnandi kakhulu xa besenza ingqondo kwingqondo yam yengqondo okanye imvakalelo ebalaseleyo yokuhlekisa. Kum, inkangeleko yam, imbonakalo yesibini. Ke, ngubani onokubonisa ukuba umhle wam? "
Kulungile, ingqalelo yamadoda intle, mhlawumbi?
UOlga: "Kuqala, ndinomyeni, ingqalelo yakhe yanele kum. Okwesibini, ndingqongwe ngabantu ukusukela kusasa. Ewe kunjalo, basasaza izincomo, kodwa ndibabona bezolile, kungenjalo abafana ngokubanzi "abayi kuyishiya."
Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ugcoba ngovuyo kwimpahla yangokuhlwa ngokuhlwa yokudubula kwethu?
I-olga: "Lo ngumsebenzi wam. Kwaye ke, lo mfazi akathandi ukunxiba! Ndikhumbula ngandlela thile saphakamisa isihloko "ngamantombazana" ukuba ihambe ntoni ekhaya. Konke njengoko umntu waxelelwa ukuba: "Akukho mpahla yokuhlambela kunye neenwele zeenwele! Kuyimfuneko ukuvusa indoda yangaphambili kwaye ngokukhawuleza yenza ukuba uberawe ukuze ubone uzuko lwayo. " Kodwa ndinoluvo lwam ngale nto. Ndibuyela ekhaya ezinzulwini zobusuku, vuka imizuzu emihlanu ngaphambili- kum nje ongumsebenzi ongahlawulwanga. Ekhaya ndinxiba into elula: ngamanye amaxesha ndanxiba i-chirrobe, ngamanye amaxesha i-jean, ihempe. Kodwa umyeni wam uyabona into entle endiyishiya ngayo umsebenzi - ngokuzonwabisa, ukubetha kunye nengubo ehlekisayo. Kwaye ukubuya okufanayo, kunye neparade epheleleyo, kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sosapho. Ewe, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ndingaya kwimpelaveki yam esemthethweni ukuze ndiphumele kwindawo oyithandayo ?! "