Ndinokuthetha ntoni ngomfazi wale mihla? Indlovu iyakuyeka kwaye itrunk iya kummisa isiqu. Eli binzana libonisa ngokufanelekileyo inyani yale mihla! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kubudala bethu obuhle, umntu obhinqileyo unokwenza yonke into-imisebenzi, akhulisa uqoqosho, azibambile ezemidlalo, aqhubeke nokulunga kwangaxeshanye! Kwaye i-rimeyahoctile yabasetyhini yayiyinto engaqhelekanga. Ukuba konke kulungile ngamanqaku okuqala - sijongana nobuntu obuqhelekileyo, emva koko ilindelwe kwingozi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iOshhoholism yingxaki enkulu enokukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi kakhulu. Iingcali ezininzi zibhekisa kuxhomekeko kwindlela yokuziphatha. Ndivakaliswa ngamagama alula, umntu uxhomekeke emsebenzini wenkqubo yomsebenzi ngokwayo. Yonke enye into yimali, impumelelo yinqanaba yesibini.
Ke, eyona nto iphambili "ye-Oolism:
1. Uhlala unomdla emsebenzini kade, ngeempelaveki baya emsebenzini okanye emsebenzini. Kwangelo xesha, esi asisosizathu sicokisekileyo, kwaye uhlala usenza mahala.
2. Kwikhefu, uhlala unxibelelana nomphathi, ngefowuni okanye nge-imeyile.
3. Usukelwa ziingcinga ezigwenxa malunga nomsebenzi kunye nokungaqondi amatyala.
4. Uhlala uthetha ngomsebenzi kuphela. Ngokubanzi, awusathethi malunga. Khange uye kwindawo yemidlalo yeqonga okanye iimuvi kangangeminyaka eliwaka, akazange azimele imiboniso, engafundanga iincwadi. Ndikunye nabahlobo kuphela nge-Intanethi.
5. thintela iimfuno zonyuke kwaye usebenze.
6. Uhlala esiya koyika ukusilela okanye, kubi, ukugxothwa. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uyakuphathela nzima ukuba uqale ubugqwirha umyeni wakho ngealarm yakho.
7. Ngaphandle komsebenzi, awukwazi ukuphumla, njengoko uhlala ucinga malunga nomsebenzi. Ukuphumla luphawu lobuvila, ukungasebenzi kakuhle kuchithe ixesha.
Ndifuna ukugxininisa oko kubomi bonke kukho amaxesha e-Adrals. Okanye iimeko zinyanzelekile ukuba zisebenze kakhulu (kuya kufuneka ukhuphe abantwana, umzekelo). Inketho encinci ebalulekileyo- Unomdla wokwenyani ngomsebenzi wakho, le yeyona ndawo oyithandayo ekunika ulonwabo olunyanisekileyo. I-Clashalilics ayisebenzi ngenxa yesiphumo, kodwa ukwenzela ukusebenza nje.
Uyintoni unobangela wezinto ezimbi, ngakumbi obhinqileyo:
1. Ukugqibelela ngokuthanda okanye "isifo sokugqwesa" - umnqweno wokwenza yonke into igqibelele. Ihlala ivela ebuntwaneni: abazali abazingisileyo basasaza umbono wokuba yonke into kufuneka igqitywe ukuba igqibe kwaye kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
2. Isizungu. Umsebenzi yindlela efikelelekayo yokugcwalisa ukungabinamsebenzi, ukujongana nokulangazelela. Khumbula i-Lymilaprolafievna evela kwi "Inkonzo yaseRoma".
3. Ukuzithemba okungakhathaliyo. Umntu osoloko uthandabuza ubuchule babo yimfuneko yokuqinisekiswa kwemihla ngemihla ngokuziqhelanisa. Bafuna ukwamkelwa rhoqo kwabanye. Ukwamkelwa entlokweni okanye oogxa, kwanokucinga, baxhasa ukuzithemba kwabo.
4. Umnqweno wokuhlangabezana neemfuno zentlalo kukuba ube ngumlinganiso weholide.
5. Ukhathalelo lwenyani okanye ukubaleka ngokulula kwiingxaki. Le yindlela efanelekileyo nesebenzayo, enokuthi, ngelishwa, ayisombululi ubunzima, kodwa ibuhlungu.
6. ukuthandabuza ukuphila yinto eqaqambileyo. Olu luhlobo olufanelekileyo, oluselula lokuzibulala, i-akin kwimidlalo egqithileyo kunye nemikhwa eyingozi. Phila kanzima kwaye ungangakhathali kangangokuba umntu ngokwakhe wasitshisa emsebenzini.
Nguwuphi umngcipheko umfazi wenkonzo yenkonzo?
1. Usapho. Masiqalise ngento yokuba umfazi osebenza umsebenzi kunzima ngakumbi ukudala usapho ngenxa yokunqongophala kwexesha. Ngapha koko, kukho amadoda ambalwa azakunyamezela umntu ecaleni kwabo, othathe ngokupheleleyo umsebenzi kwaye akanamkhosi weemvakalelo kusapho. Abantwana bayilwe ngokufudumeza kunye nokuya kubeleka, njengommiselo, yibani nesikhuselo sezinto zonke zengqondo.
2. Ezempilo. Ukutyibilika ngokweemvakalelo, okubandakanya uxinzelelo. Imeko yoxinzelelo, ukungabi nathemba kunye nokungazinziswanga kusoloko kusenziwa ngamatellite. Ubomi buyaphela, imihla ngemihla kukho into efanayo-umsebenzi, umsebenzi kunye nomsebenzi. Ukongeza, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kubonakala-ukuncipha kokugonywa ngenxa yokungaphumli, izilonda ngenxa yemithambo yesondlo kunye nesondlo, iingxaki ngomqolo wokuhlala, njalo njalo.
3. Umsebenzi wakho. Ukudinwa ngokweemvakalelo akunjalo akufanelanga ukuba negalelo ekukhuleni komsebenzi, kodwa thandambene naye.
4. Ubuntu. Ukupholisa emsebenzini, umntu wokuqhuma umda wokuqhuma kweminye imimandla yobomi bayo kwaye akaphuhli kwaphela. Kwinyani yomfazi-yendlu kunye nabasetyhini abasebenza nzima benza ngokulinganayo ngenxa yokusikelwa umda.
5. Intsingiselo yobomi. Njengoko sele nditshilo, imisebenzi yomsebenzi yenzelwanga isiphumo sokugqibela-ubutyebi, unyusa ubuchule, isimo, nangenxa yomsebenzi womsebenzi. Ngenxa yoko, okhokelela kwipenshini, kuya kubangwa ngaphandle kokuba kungabizi mntu. Intsingiselo yobomi ilahlekile.
Kuthekani ukuba uyakuqonda ukuba yonke le nto ikuwe?
Okokuqala, ukufumana unobangela. Kutheni le nto indawo yokusebenza itsalela? Kutheni ungafuni ukuya ekhaya? Kuya kwenzeka ntoni ebomini bakho ukuba ususa umsebenzi ngaphandle kwayo? Ukufumana isizathu sokuba sele uyicombulula ingxaki nge-50%.
Ngokulandelayo-Jonga i-antidote. Ukomeleza ukuzithemba ukuba uyakoyika ukugxothwa. Phakamisa inqanaba lakho lobuchule. Khumbula ukuba akukho nto ilungileyo kweli lizwe ukuba kuhlala kukho umntu ongcono kwaye enobuchule, ke, ukuza kuthi ga ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye angaze ayifezekise. Yenza ishedyuli yexesha lokusebenza ukuba ukrokrela iingxaki ngokucwangciswa, iincwadi zolawulo lweencwadi ezifundayo. Funda ukuphumla. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula: ukusebenza kakuhle-kufuneka uphumle kakuhle. Sukuvala amehlo akho kwiingxaki zasekhaya- yiya kwi-psychologist, iyanceda. Isizunguso asiyi tattoo, akunzima kakhulu ukuyisusa. Qhubeka nemihla, ubekho imicimbi eyahlukeneyo. Zama ukuphuhlisa amanqanaba ahlukeneyo. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu - khumbula, eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukujonga ingxaki ebusweni, yonke enye into ilula kakhulu;)