Yonke loo nto injalo, kodwa apha silibele ukuba umntu akayomoto esebenza ixesha elide kuba ngcono. Kufuneka ngokwenene afune ukufezekisa le njongo, ngamanye amagama, enenkuthazo eyomeleleyo. Ukuba ufika ngokukhethekileyo amandla akhe, uya kuhlala engaphezulu kwe-produncctisence, kungekudala okanye kamva ophethwe kolu vimba uya kuza, kwaye emva koko uya kukhangela izizathu zokufezekisa iintshukumo ezifanelekileyo , ebizwa ngokuba ligama elinde "Ukuhlelwa" kwaye kwaphela kuya kwenziwa ngobomi obungenamiqathango. Ke ngoko, kuyimfuneko ukuba baqwalasele umbuzo: indlela yokuzikhuthaza ukuba indlela eya empumelelo ayiguqukeli kungcelele lwezinto ezixhaphakileyo emfazweni kunye naye ukuze enze izinto eziyimfuneko kwindawo yokuzingela?
Iingcali zengqondo ziyacetyiswa ukuba ziqale ngokwazo ngokweenkcukacha, eziya kuthi zifezekise injongo, zize zenze uluhlu lwezinto eziluncedo ekuphunyezweni ngempumelelo kwemisebenzi ebekwe phambi kwabo. Kwisenzo ngasinye esiphumeleleyo, isiphumo esinqwenelekayo, kufuneka sizivuze-ayimfuneko ukuba singamalini, unganezidumbulo. Ngamanye amaxesha ungaphupha: Khawufane ucinge ukuba isukelo sele ifezekisiwe kwaye ukuba ubomi bakho buya kujonga njani kwalo mzuzu wovuyo.
Awunako kuphela "ukusuka ngaphakathi", kodwa kunye nemithombo yangaphandle. Funda iincwadi okanye ubukele i-movie ngesihloko esifanelekileyo, umntu unokude ade ade athi "ibali lendoda" ye-boris Plelevoy, fumana isangqa sokuphumelela kwabanye abantu abaya kwinjongo ekujongwe kuyo kwaye uchithe ixesha elininzi kuluntu lwabo, kwaye abathandi kunye neempempe zokususa umntu.
Imozulu eqhelekileyo, umntu okwimeko esemoyeni esisigxina unentsingiselo ebonakalayo, uninzi luhlala luyinto enye. Ke ngoko, kuyimfuneko ukuba uzigcine kwithoni, yento oza kuyisebenzisa, unxibelelwano nabahlobo kunye nayo nayiphi na enye, ekwaziyo ukuphucula imvakalelo yakho. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ayingqinelani ngokupheleleyo ukukholelwa ngamandla akho, kwinto onokwazi. Kwaye ke indlela eya empumeleni iya kuba lula.
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