Kutshanje, uhlala uva amazwi othando kwaye wayeqinisekile ukuba usela ulwalamano lwakho. Nangona kunjalo, ngokungalindelekanga eluthandweni nawe, le ndoda yaqala indlela yokuziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kwaye ngoku awusazithembi kwiimvakalelo zakhe. Ungayiqonda njani into awayeyityibi ngayo, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uyilungise imeko kwaye wenze ntoni kule meko? Ugqirha wezengqondo, imvumi u-Alina Dibessis inika ingcebiso kwabo bahlangabezana nengxaki enjalo.
Alina Delisse
Imiqondiso yokuba umntu akathandi:
1. Intsimbi yokuqala yentsimbi Ngubani omele alumkise, onokuba ngumphumo wokungakholwa kunye nomnqweno wokuzikhela kuwe. Ngequbuliso waqala ukuqaphela ukuba indoda yakho ibukhali kunxibelelwano, ihlala inyamalala, ayivuyeli xa ufike ekhaya, kwaye ungabelaniyo nezimvo zakho. Ubonakala ekwenzeni ukuzithemba - isiphelo sicebisa: oko kuthetha ukuba ndifumene isimo sengqondo sokuthemba kwenye indawo.
2. Intsimbi yesibini yentsimbi Isandi ngeli xesha xa indoda iqala ngokuya kusibatha malunga neholide ezidibeneyo, iziganeko ezibalulekileyo kuwe kwisibini. Ngomgama ongumdezisi ezihlobo zakho, cinga ukuba ibuyela njani ngokukhawuleza. Ubonakala enciphisa ixesha elichitha nawe.
3. Intsimbi yesithathu Kuyavakala ngaloo mzuzu xa umyeni eyeka ngequbuliso ukukunika iintyatyambo, echaza oku kusilela kwemali okanye ixesha. Ngapha koko, iintyatyambo azisoloko ziyinto entle, ngamanye amaxesha zanele ukunika i-rose enye. Nje ukuba ukuqonda kobudlelwane bakho kuyafuneka ukuba umntu obhinqileyo afune ukuba abe yimpahla, kufanelekile ukuthatha amanyathelo okusindisa imeko.
ezine.Intsimbi yesine Kuvakala ngokukholisa ngakumbi: Indoda iyayeka ukukuxelela ngothando kwaye uyeke ukuthoba ezi mvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Akasamenzeli ukuba afumane naliphi na imeko elula, akasabeli izandla, akasathobelili.
Ntlanu.Intsimbi yesihlanu Ivakala sele ifana ne-nabat: Indoda ibanda kuwe, iyekile ukwenza uthando. Izikhumba ziqala, kukhala, umfazi uqala ukrokrela ulwaphulo-buthathaka, onokuthi, kodwa kukho iingxaki emsebenzini, kwishishini.
Ungayilungisa njani imeko?
1. kubudlelwane bokuba kungabikho sirhanelwa, ubuxoki - Intsapho enjalo kungcono ukuba yenzele, kuba abantwana bakho bayakubukela yonke le nto. Ukuba uziva ngathi le ndoda iqalise ukuba upholile kuwe, kufanelekile ukuba kuqonde ukuba kwenzeka ntoni phantse kuzo zonke izibini, ukuthatha le meko kwaye kungabikho mgama kakhulu ukuba ulungise. Hlala phantsi itafile yothethathethwayo kwaye uzame ukubiza inqaku lengxoxo.
2. Ungazama ukwenza ngathi awuqali utshintsho, kodwa ngokungxamisekileyo hamba ngokwabo ukukhula kunye nokuzonwabisa . Bhalisa kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, yiya kwi-psychologist. Mhlawumbi ufuna nje "ukuphumla" komnye komnye.
3. Buyela kubudlelwane obungapheliyo iminyaka emininzi - I-Romance Raid . Ukumema umyeni wakho kwikhonsathi ye-artist yakhe ethandekayo, kwimovie okanye kwi-cafe. BONISA UMNYANGO OKUNGAKUMBI, kwaye oku kuqinisekisiwe ukuhlawula ikhulu.
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Awunakho ukucwangcisa izityholo kwaye ugobe kakhulu imeko ngokokuhlwanje kwakho. Ukuba utshintsha ngaphakathi, uya kutshintsha kuwe. Thatha eli binzana lezixhobo.