Ndiza kwenza indawo yokubeka ngokukhawuleza-iimpazamo ezingezantsi zibaluleke kakhulu: Amanye amadoda aziyothuse ngabom, kwaye abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, banoko. Ke ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba ukhokelwe kweli nqaku njengemiyalelo yesenzo, nxibelelana neqabane lakho - kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe nantoni na eluntwini konke konke.
Akukho phulo lobudlelwane. Isini esomeleleyo kuloo nto kwaye somelele ukuthatha inyathelo lokuqala, yenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, ukukhupha i-mammotis kwisidlo sangokuhlwa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngamanye amaxesha uya kuthatha "ulawulo kuwe" (umzekelo, ebonakalisa inyathelo lokuqala lebhedi), ayizukuba mbi kule.
Ingaba isebenza kanjani? Ukufezekisa ubudlelwane obuqinisekileyo, amaqabane kufuneka ahlolwe kakuhle imizimba yomnye. Oku kusebenza kungekuphela kwindoda kuphela-kuya kufuneka ufumanise ukuba isebenza njani "; Ke, uya kubonisa umdla wakho kwiqabane kwaye ubonise intlonipho yakho ngayo.
Ibhedi ayisiyo itafile yothethathethwano. Ngesondo, indoda ibaluleke kakhulu kule nkqubo ngokwayo, inikelwe kuyo intloko. Ukumxelela ngeli xesha malunga nayo yonke "isokisi" ngeveki - umbono ombi, kodwa usenokuba uphulaphula emva kobuso.
"Ingcinga yabasetyhini". Umbuzo onempikiswano-amanye amadoda abhinqileyo kwaye incomtomy anomdla kakhulu. Kodwa abanye abameli besini esomeleleyo basenokungakuqondi ukungakwazi kwakho ngokupheleleyo kwabo banomdla kubo. Ke ngoko, zama ukuba ubuncinci "ngesihloko", nokuba ude kakhulu kwibhola, iimoto okanye iindlela zokupheka inyama kwi-grill.
Umsebenzi wesini. Ndikholelwe, umsebenzi wakho ebhedini nawuphi na umntu uyakuxabisa ngesidima. Kodwa ukungabikho ngokupheleleyo kwephulo lomlingane kunokuba kukhubekisa - uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba akakukhathazeki. Okanye cinga ukuba walala.
Ukuzivavanya. Ngaba ukhe wanamaqabane ngesondo kwaye ungcono? Ewe, kuthetha ukuba unethamsanqa. Kuphela ngoku ukuthetha ngale nto kwindoda yakho yangoku ayifanele ibe, ukuba, kunjalo, awufuni ukumtyhalela kwangoko kuwe. Mnye umncede ukuba akukhangele - emva koko uya kuzibonakalisa kwelona cala liphambili.
Iimvavanyo. Nabani na umntu ungumphandi, kwaye kuyo yonke indawo, kubandakanya nebhedi. Kwaye ukuba uyala ukuzama into entsha naye, ke iqabane lakho linokuyenzakalisa. Nangona kunjalo, nakuphi na ukuvavanywa kulungile kwisakhelo sengqiqweni - ukuba sizibhukuqe kunye nabo ngentonga, kunjalo, akufuneki.
Isondo ayisiyondlela yokuqhelanisa. Sebenzisa ukusondela njengohlobo "lwengcinezelo ye-lever" ayimfuneko - iqabane lakho lisezantsi okanye kamva liyayiqonda le minuuve, emva koko isimo sakhe sengqondo ngakuwe unokubi ngakumbi.
Sukugxila kwiintsilelo. Phatha kakuhle kuwe kwaye unganikezeli kwindoda yakho kwiimbambano zakho ezincinci - ingakumbi ebhedini. Kwaye ke akazukukhathalela.
Musa ukuvalwa kwinkangeleko yakho. Ngokuphathelele ngqo inqaku elidlulileyo kukuchitha ingqalelo enkulu kwinkangeleko yakho; Indoda ayiqondi ukuba kutheni le nto i-narcissism iyafuneka kwezi zinto, kwaye iya kukhawuleza ichukunyiswe.