I-Lyubaava Gredinov, eyaziwa kwindima kwinqaku elithi "uzuko", "ubomi obumnandi", "jika uthando lwam" "kunye nabanye abaninzi, baya kuba ngumama. Ngaphandle kwexesha eliqinisekileyo lokukhulelwa, umgcini womThetho oSebenzayo, othe waxelelwa kudliwanondlebe.
- I-lyubava, kungekudala uya kulinda utshintsho olukhulu. Isilumkiso?
-Ndingatsho. Kungcono ukuba unde, ogcwele luvuyo nolonwabo olugqibeleleyo kwimihla ngemihla. Le yinkqubo yendalo, apho kungcono ukuba uphumle, wonwabe kwaye uyonwabele ukukhulelwa kwaye wonke umntu onxulumene nayo!
-Ukhe sele uye kwi-cartit okanye ukhetha ukusebenza de kufike okokugqibela?
-Andishiyanga kabuhlungu: ekubeni ubuntwana bayoyika eli gama! Ngosuku olunye xa sele ukhulelwe, andizange ndihlale ekhaya kwiTV, i-buns yokumkani. Lo asindim, andazi ukuba. Phantse kwinyanga yesihlanu, ndalahlela kakhulu, kwaye emva kokuba ndingazange ndiyeke ukusebenza. Yaba ngaphezulu: ndizikhubekile ngokwakho kunye nomsebenzi.
-Khumbula usuku xa ufumanisa ukuba ndiza kuba ngumama okokuqala?
-Ndikhumbula yonke into: kwaye indawo, kunye nosuku, nendlela endiye ndaya kwagqirha. Ilanga likhanya, bekukho imozulu efudumeleyo. Ezi ziimvakalelo ezingathethekiyo ngokupheleleyo, imvakalelo enjalo ikhule i-pings! Ndihambe esitratweni ndonwabile, andikhange ndibize nabani na iiyure ezininzi, andizange ndithethe nto, kodwa bendihlala maxesha ngokwam, ndibabale. Ndifuna ukonwabela lo mzuzu kunye nonxibelelwano nomntwana. Ngeli xesha ndandiqala ukuthetha naye. Kwakumangaliswa kwaye kuya kuphela ngokupheleleyo!
-Ngabani uxelelwe yindoda yakho ngale nto, i-Actor Mikhaili yengqolowa?
Ndamxelela kwangoko, kwangolo suku. Wayevuya ngokupheleleyo, nangona ndandingalindelanga kwenye impendulo. Emva kweeyure ezimbalwa, nangona kunjalo, bahleka, bathi, ukuba yihlaya, ke lixesha lokuthetha ngayo ngoku. (Uhleka.)
Kungekudala, iLibaubava Gorenov kunye ne-Mikhail ingqolowa iya kuba ngabazali
Ifoto: Olga BayCher / Anastasia Polish
-UMikhail wakwenza isindululo emva ngo-2014. Kodwa awukalifumananga nexesha lokutshata. Ngaba ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana?
-Kude ukuba sibe yindoda nomfazi, kodwa okwangoku asinakufumana ixesha lokulungiselela umtshato endiphupha ngayo. Umsitho omuhle, unxibe ingubo yomtshato wokwenyani, iindwendwe, inyamakazi. Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, xa ndingena kwimo, asisayi kuphinda silibazise, kodwa siya kukupheka. Mhlawumbi bekule ke ukuba ithathe isigqibo ngomtshato.
-Uthatha kakhulu. Kwakufuneka nditshintshe izicwangciso ngenxa yesikhundla sakho esinomdla okanye, mhlawumbi, phinda ubhale iskripthi?
- Hayi, iincwadi zeempendulo azifanele zitshintshe. Ndibekwe kwinyanga yesihlanu ekuqhubekeni kwefilimu yeTV "KaCatherine", kodwa isisu sasingabonakali kwaye akukho mntu wayesazi ngayo. Ndifihle ukukhulelwa ukuya kwelokugqibela kwaye ndisebenze kwi-par kunye nomntu wonke, kuba ndifuna ukugcina ixesha elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka emfihlekweni. Kude kube yinyanga yesibini, akukho mntu ufundileyo malunga nesikhundla sam, nangona ndingazange ndizifihle naphi na, ndaya kwiisampulu, kwimisitho. Ndiyinkosi yeyelenqe. (Uhleka.)
-Ukhe wacinga xa usiya emsebenzini?
-Ukuba kukho iziphakamiso ezifanelekileyo, kukulungele ukusebenza okungenani ngosuku emva kokuziswa. (Ukuhleka.) Hlala ekhaya, andikwazi nje. Andoyiki, ndikwazi ukusebenzisa imizobo kwaye ndisasaze amandla. Ngaphandle koko, ndine-misha! Kwaye ndiyazi ukuba rhoqo nangayo yonke into endinokuxhomekeka kuyo.
- Wonke umntu obhinqileyo, kwaye nangaphezulu loo mbango ubona ngendlela yokukhulelwa nasemva kokuzalwa komntwana. Ngaba uzibekelelane nesondlo kwisondlo okanye, njengoko besithi, yitya ezimbini?
-Ndivuma ngokunyaniseka-ndisitya isiqingatha sokukhulelwa okokuqala. Kudala kangangesihlanu, hayi kubabini. Fuck inkqubo epheleleyo. Nditya yonke into: i-pizza, i-rubers yemifuno, iitapile, i-ice cream. Kwaye oku kufanelekile: ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe ndacekeceke kakhulu. Kwaye ngoku kwaqala ukuba nzima njengoko umntu oqhelekileyo wokukhulisa kwam nod umzimba ubunzima. Kwaye, bendiqonda ukuba andisayi kutya kakhulu ndingatya: Ngexesha lokutya, emva kokuba ndibuyele kwisiqingatha sesibini sokukhulelwa, ndifuna ukutya okuluncedo, isalare, i-PRISDE . Kodwa inyama ayizange ikhuphe. Kodwa ndatsalela umdlalo! Iholo, yolula, iphuli yokuqubha. Ngamanye amaxesha nkqu nokusebenza kabini ngemini. Umzimba ufuna ukuxongoza. Kwaye umdlalo wathabatha ilungelo lokutya. Kungenxa yoko le nto yonke into emzimbeni yam yayilungelelene. Anditsho ukuba ndifumene amanqaku. Ndikwimo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye andizange ndizithintele.
- Ngaba unayo nayiphi na iminqweno engaqhelekanga ehlala ivela kubafazi abakhulelweyo?
-Ndibonakala kum ukuba andikho kwaphela. Kwaye uMisha akavumelani nam. (Uhleka.) Kubonakala ngathi ngamanye amaxesha ndicocekile! Ndaba ngumntwana wokwenene, ndinomntwana omncinci, kwaye imozulu iguquka njengentombazana encinci. Le bhola ifuna, ke i-ice cream, emva koko ulele, emva koko kwizibamba. Kwakukho amaxesha amaninzi ahlekisayo. Umzekelo, saqala ngolonwabo ukubukela iikhathuni, iifilimu zabantwana. Iinyembezi ezingaqhelekanga zaqala ukubonakala zihlekisa kum. Sitshintshe ukukhetha ekutyeni. Imango, iipinapples, iKRA-ndifuna zonke ezona zibiza kakhulu. (Uhleka.) Zonke ezi zinto ziyitshintshele ngesantya sombane. Ngelixa ndaya kwivenkile yento enye, ndaqala ukufuna eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo ...
-Atatomkhulu wakho bahlala kude. Sele icinge indlela yokujongana ngayo: abanye okanye bajonga abancedisi?
-Ngangacwangciswanga nto okwangoku - kuya kufuneka ulinde ukuzalwa komntwana, emva koko ubone. Mhlawumbi siza kuba ne-nanny, umncedisi wezoqoqosho, okanye noomakhulu bethu bafike kuthi - andazi. Ke ngoko, silungiselela zonke ukhetho. Ngamaxesha athile, kubonakala ngathi ukuba singakwazi ukujamelana nayo yonke into, kodwa okwangoku andikwazi ukuba yonke into iza kuba njani. Ekunene kwaye usombulule ...
-Unobomi obutsha. Sele uqaphele utshintsho?
-Uye waphawula iliso le-Ine: I-tummy yam sele ibonakale ngokugqibeleleyo kwii-engile ezahlukeneyo. Le yiyona le tshintsho lukhulu. Ndivakalelwa ngathi yimvubu encinci, ngokuthe ngcembe, ndijonga esipilini kwaye andiyikholelwa yonke into. Olu luphuculo olukhulu. Ndisahlala kwisondo, ndiye ndabandakanyeka kwezemidlalo, ndaya elwandle izihlandlo ezininzi. Kusekho ngobuqhetseba, ndikhokela ubomi bentlalo-ntle. Ngamanye amaxesha oomama abanamava babonakala ecaleni ukunika ingcebiso kwaye babi kakhulu - ukuba baxelele ukuba kuya kuba nzima njani. Uluvo lwabo ndizama ukungamameli ukungathobeli ngokwam kwi-negative. Ubomi obutsha bulungile! Ndiyaqonda ukuba ngokuzalwa komntwana yonke into iza kutshintsha, kodwa iya kutshintshwa ibe ngcono!