Abaphulaphuli bethu abaphambili ngabafazi, ke amaxesha ngamaxesha bathumela iphupha kwimibandela yomntwana. Ewe kunjalo, ndingathanda ukufumana iphupha kunye nendoda yamaphupha, kodwa ukuza kuthi ga kuphela abafazi abasebenza kwesi sihloko kumaphepha odidi.
Ngendlela, lo ngumzekelo wamaphupha abafundi bethu abaqhelekileyo. Wabelana ngololo lwamaphupha, kunye nokubonisa ukuba kutheni bephukile ngoku, ngenxa yoko akukho magqabaza entliziyweni yam. Kubonakala ngathi umsebenzi wekholamu yethu wenzeka okungenani ngenxa yokuba ngabafundi bawo abanomdla kwaye bangenelwe kumaphupha abo, bafunda ukuchaza imiyalezo yamaphupha.
"Iinyanga ezintandathu ndidibana nendoda-peter (ndineminyaka engama-47). Uqhawule umtshato, unaye unyana iminyaka emi-5, uyamthanda kakhulu. Sinobudlelwane obuvela kudidi 'olunzulu. " Sithetha kakhulu. Amaxesha amaninzi yayiyingxoxo nangokukhulelwa, kunye nabantwana: Singathanda - ngamnye umntu ngamnye. Wabuza, ndingathanda abantwana kuye ukuba ndingaba nabantwana abaninzi ngokwasemzimbeni. Ngeenyanga ezi-1.,5 ndaphupha ngale nto.
Inombolo yokulala 1. : Ndibona umhlobo wam, umdala kuneminyaka emi-5-7 ubudala, oko kukuthi, yiminyaka engama-535-55 ngoku. Ukhulelwe ephupheni lam kwaye ukhangele kakhulu. I-tummy inkulu kakhulu. Ndihambahamba naye, ndivuya kakhulu, ndiyavuya kwaye ndicela lonke ixesha: "Uneminyaka emingaphi ngoku? Ndixelele ukuba mdala kangakanani? " Kwaye akayithethi yonke into, encumile ngokungaqhelekanga. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba ephupheni: "Ukuba wagqiba kwelokuba ukhulelwe, kwaye yiyo indlela yonke into imnandi, ndoba ndincinana!"
Inombolo yesibini yokulala 2. : Umhlobo wam uqhelene. Onguntanga wam. Ine-boqueet yokuxilonga kwezonyango, ibaluleke kakhulu, nganye kuzo isuswe ukuba kwenzeke ukuba ukhulelwe, kodwa kubomi bokugcina ubomi. Ndimbona ukhulelwe, encumile. Ndicinga nephupha: "Simele, sipholile kangakanani!" Ndiyahamba, ndimxelele ukuba, bathi, Ndiyavuya kuba nigqibile,
Ukukhulelwa ephupheni akusoloko kuhambelana nokuzalwa komntwana
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Mhlawumbi akukho nto eyongezelelweyo. I-SnodictA yadibana nendoda, ubudlelwane abafuna ukuqhubela phambili kunye nophuhliso. Eyona nto "ilula" ngale ndlela ngumnqweno wokuzala umntwana. Ngandlel 'ithile, oku kuthetha ukuba phakathi kwabo kukho into engaphezulu kokuba bafuna ukwabelana nabanye ngezinto abafuna ukunikela ubungqina. Isenokungasoloko ingumntwana: Ngamanye amaxesha iprojekthi, ishishini, linokuhamba, isifundo esihlangeneyo okanye indawo edibeneyo yobomi apho esi sibini siza kuzibona singabantu abangahleliyo.
Umntwana sesisombululo esilula ukusuka kwinqanaba lokujonga le bhayoloji. Nangona amaphupha ethu hayi yena hayi ubudala obuchumileyo ngumceli mngeni omkhulu. Ungaba ngumama? Ngaba iyachuma? Ngaba unokunika umntu ubomi?
Ngale ngxaki kukho umfazi ovuthiweyo, kwaye indlela yokuphuma kuyo ayisoloko ingumntwana kamva. Kuxhaphake kakhulu ukuhlakulela ubuchule bakho bokuyila, ukuqala kokuqala. Unokunika ubomi obutsha ngeendlela ezintsha. Kwaye ephupheni, ubona abasetyhini bekwazi ukwenza entsha, nokuba umsebenzi wabo owalathileyo awunakwenzeka. Kwaye uthi entliziyweni yakhe: "Banako, kwaye ndiyakwazi."
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Uthetha njani kwaye njani umfazi ngaphakathi kuwe? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: inforhit.ru. Indlela, amaphupha alula kakhulu ukubhala phantsi ukuba uza kubhala phantsi ukuba uza kubhalwa khona ukuba uza kubhala phantsi ukuba uvule kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin