Ubunzima bexhoba busoloko bengaba bantu baqinisekile ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini babo akwenzeki ngempazamo. Rhoqo le ngxelo: "Ubomi bundenza ndinjalo. Undikhokelela. Kwaye ukuba yonke into injalo, ezi zinto zindikhululile ekuthatheni inxaxheba kunye noxanduva lomntu ngamnye. " Aba ngabantu abasebenzisa abantu kuphela ngokuqalisa, uvelwano kunye nemfesane ngothando olufuna kakhulu, kodwa ezinye iindlela zokutshintshana uthando azifumaneki. Konke ukusilela kuthetha ukungqina kwento yokuba bangakufanelekeli ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo apho bafuna kakhulu. Ayifumaneki kubo, kuba banamava okusilela, kwaye kuphela kwamava apho akholelwa khona.
Baziva bebon 'ukuba baqinisekile ukuba wonke umntu ojikeleze ukuba azabalaza neemeko, kodwa iimeko zingaphezulu kwabo. Ukubandezeleka nokuzithabathela kolu bomi bungenabulungisa, banethemba lokuba ukubandezeleka kwabo kuya kuhambelana kamva, kwezinye, ngokucacileyo, bunye ubomi. Kwaye, njengommiselo, ubukho obungazi nto, bungaphantsi kweenkolelo zobuxoki kuphela kwaye, kunokwenzeka, iimvakalelo, zikuvumela ukuba uphile kwaye ungabi nakuphi na ubomi bakho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ucinga, ayamkela ezo mpendulo zilungele kwaye zikhuselekile ukuze ziphile kwaye zingenakuthelekiswa nanto kwaye zingafanelekanga, kodwa zinomtsalane. Le yimbambano engapheliyo kunye nomzabalazo, nangona kunjalo, ngesiphumo esicacileyo-umnqweno owoyiswayo. Kwaye yonke le nto kwinqanaba lokuqonda liyaliwe kwaye ligwetyiwe, kodwa kwimeko engaziyo. Ixhoba leemeko ngabantu abanokuzithemba ngaphakathi, benemvakalelo enzulu yokungaphantsi kunye nokuxhomekeka kulindelo olubi.
Yintoni omele uyenze kwinxalenye kunye nedini lakho kwaye uqale ngokuhlonela wena kunye nobomi bakho?
Ukuqala - yeka ukuthetha malunga nelahleko yakho kunye ne-insulvency kuye wonke umntu osecaleni kwakho.
Oku kungenziwa kuphela ngogqirha wengqondo okanye ugqirha wengqondo. Ukuba sele ugqibe kwelokuba ahlukane nendima kunye nazo zonke iimeko ezimiselweyo. Ngalo lonke ixesha, ukuphilisa amanxeba akhe kwaye ukuphilisa ekugqibeleni, unokuthetha ngayo kamva njengamava anamava anokubanceda abanye.
Ukuba unemvakalelo yokuba ulixhoba lobomi bakho bonke kunye nazo zonke iimeko ezikungqongileyo, kunokubangela ukuba uxhamla ngokwam ubudlelwane obukhulu, uhlehlise uthando kunye nempumelelo ebomini bakho. Kwaye emva koko ulandele indlela yemeko esele yenziwe.
Hlalutya idini layo.
Iya kuba linyathelo lokuqala lokususa, okokuqala, ukusuka ekucingweni okulangazenxa.
Ukucinga okuncama kucinga ukuba yonke into ejikeleze wena ngunobangela weengxaki zakho. Inokwenzeka, kwaye uninzi lwenzeka, le ndlela yokucinga sisiphumo seenkolelo ezinzulu nezisekekileyo, ngoku zenza uluvo lwakho, umfanekiso wehlabathi nobomi bakho, kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye iyingozi Imeko enjalo lithemba kunye nekamva lakho. Ngapha koko, iimeko zangaphandle kunye nento ekungqongileyo ngoku inxulumene ngqo neenkolelo zakho zangaphakathi.
Thatha uxanduva ngento eyenzekayo ngoku ebomini bakho.
Hayi umsebenzi olulula xa kungekho mkhwa unjalo. Kodwa ukwamkela ukuba ngokwakho kufuneka wumbile ngento eyenzekayo ngeenxa zonke kuwe,-yindlela yokukhulula. Ukusukela ngalo mzuzu unegunya lokutshintsha yonke into ebomini bakho kwaye uphile njengoko ubuphuphayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha kubalulekile ukuba uthi "yiyeke".
Ukuthi "Yiyeke" yonke into eyenzekayo, kwaye uqalise ukwenza izigqibo malunga nobomi bakho. Kuba xa uthatha ukhuselekile, njengoko ucinga, izisombululo ezizakhiweyo kwiingcamango ezifanayo kunye neenkolelo, uya kwisangqa esifanayo. Ukufumana ezo ziphumo zihambelana nolindelo lwakho. Ihlawulisiwe kakhulu, amava eemvakalelo ngamanye amaxesha womelele kangangokuba ungahlulela ukongeza kwabo bonke ubomi bakho. Kwaye bonke ubomi bakho bungqina ukuba iyinyani.
Kuyimfuneko ukudala yonke imihla ejikeleze indawo yeemvakalelo ezintle.
Umntu uyachaphazeleka kuyo yonke into ekuthini, nayo yonke into ejikeleze yona.
Ke ngoko, isuswe ngengxelo yakho enzulu kwaye yabona imeko yendlela oziphethe ngayo, lixesha lokuba ujonge lowo unijikelezileyo. Aba bantu, mhlawumbi, bakuphatha kakubi, kwaye aba bantu bafuna ububi. Suyinaka. Kubalulekile ukuba lo ngabantu abahlanu ophakathi kolwalamano olusondeleyo ngokweemvakalelo. Zama ukufumanisa ukuba bazise ebomini bakho.
Uyinto oyijongayo kwaye umamele.
Oku kukwasebenza kuzo zonke iinkqubo kumabonwakude, umculo kunye neefilimu. Kubalulekile ngokukhethekileyo kwaye ukhethe ngokuchanekileyo le, kuba yonke le nto ichaphazela nawe.
Kwaye, mhlawumbi, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ziingcinga ezintle ngokunxulumene nawe.
Thatha umthetho yonke imihla, uvuka kusasa, kodwa ungaphandle kwebhedi, fumana ezo ngcinga ziza kukuxhasa imini yonke. Emini, khumbula into emnandi ekuseni, kwaye ngokuhlwa, ngaphambi kokulala, zikho ezi ngcinga zihle. Kunzima kakhulu. Ngapha koko, sele kukho umkhwa othile, ocinga ngokuzenzekelayo. Kwaye kwiingcinga ezimnyama zokuqala okanye ukungabikho kwabo kuya kuba yinto yokuqala ocinga ngayo. Silungiswe kakhulu. Silungisiwe ukwenza lula. Sukuphelelwa lithemba. Khumbula: Unelungelo kwaye unako ukutshintsha yonke into ebomini bakho. Kwaye awungowokuqala kwaye ungabi ngumntu wokugqibela oza kuphumelela.