IMary Powder - Ukusuka kwalabo bafazi bamangalisayo abalawulwa ngendlela emangalisayo kwaye bafikelela ekuphakameni komsebenzi, kwaye babe ngumama ononobumba omkhulu. Kwaye uMaria ayisiyo nje umama, kodwa kane uMama! Uthi yonke le nto ayinakuphinda ikhuphe enye, kodwa xa kukho umntu omthandayo, nayiphi na ingxaki ivunyelwe.
1. Malunga nomsebenzi
Andisokuze ndiwalibale usuku lokubhalisa kwiSikolo se-Schukin. Khange ndive ngamagama am okugqibela anemvanamva endifunda naye kwixesha elizayo, kwaye xa ndandiphelelwe ngumnyango, ndabizwa ngokuba: "Uphi? Ngoku baqokelela yonke ikhosi. " Kwavela ukuba sibizwa kuqala. Ndasinda kwi-gamber yeemvakalelo- ukusuka kwimvakalelo yokuwela ekuthathweni ngokupheleleyo.
Sele ndihlala ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo kwimodi etyebileyo kakhulu Ndiye ndafunda ukuba ndisasazwe kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu - ndingazisoli. Ukuba uqala eludongeni, njengoko unzima, yonke into iza kuya kwimpompo kwaye ilizwe lengqondo liya kuba nzima.
Wonke umlingisi onesiphelo sayo , umntu namhlanje unokuba sencopho, kwaye ngomso uya kuba nophondo olupheleleyo, kodwa xa umntu elinde ixesha elide kwaye eqokelela imithwalo yangaphakathi, unokutyhala ngequbuliso.
2. Malunga nam
Ndihlala ndihlala nemvakalelo yokuba ngalo naluphi na ubunzima konke konke kuya kuphila , Namaxesha anzima, ndicinga ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke. Nditshixiwe kwi-negative, nokuba bendinexhala kakhulu.
Zonke izinto ezinzima zihamba ukusuka ebuntwaneni , Impazamo yolo xabazali nabazali, ukungaqondi, ukungathembani. Ndiyabulela kuThixo, ndakunqanda. Kwanomtshato wabazali, ababekwenzeka xa ndandineminyaka emine ubudala, andizange ndichaphazele, nangona ndibuthanda kakhulu bobabini. Kodwa uSata wayelixesha lonke.
Ndinebhentshi yesikolo yayiyintombazana eneentloni kakhulu . Enqanaba lakwazi ukuncuma, umdaniso wokudanisa, kwaye ebomini bendiyoyika yonke into kwaye ndambethe. Kwaye ngoku ndine-scenic kunye nokuzixhasa okubonakalayo akuhambelani.
Ngamnye wethu waphumela amanqanaba anzima, ngamanye amaxesha kwakubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka ukuba uphile iintlungu, Kodwa emva koko waqonda ukuba yonke into onokuyiva ubunzima. Utshintsho kwibhegi emnyama emhlophe, ukusuka kwelinye ilizwe ukuya kwelinye, ukusuka kuthando lokungaluthandi, ekuzithembeni kukungaqiniseki- mhle. Kula mahluko, uyayiqonda into ohlala kuyo.
Xa unothando, nokuba ufumana okufanayo Eyona nto iphambili kukunika. Kodwa, ukuthanda abanye, akufuneki ulibele ngesiqu sakho. Sohlwaywa ngenxa yokuhlonelana.
3. Ngokuphathelele abantwana
Ndihlala ndihamba: ukuntywila, ukhathalelo Kodwa ndicinga ukuba abantwana abakhathalelwanga ingqalelo yam. Ndihlala ndinxibelelana, nokuba kude. Kwaye xa benesidingo sokuncokola nam, kwaye kum ihlala inesidingo, singathetha nge-skype iiyure iiyure. Andiboni naziphi na iintombi eziveza ubuhle okanye isizungu.
Umama undibiza Kuba ndihlala ndilawula yonke into ngabantwana. Ukuba andikho eMoscow, ndinxulumana nabo bonke, ndikukhumbuza ukuba kufuneka ungalibali, ndifumanisa ukuba yonke into ihleli ukuze itya nokuba zikhona izifundo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukugcina lonke olu lwazi entloko, kuba izinto ezininzi.
Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ahlale evakalelwa kukhuseleko nguMama noTata. Umama unokuba uthambile, kwaye uTata kufuneka akwazi ukubeka endaweni yamandla akhe angamadoda, kwaye kwangaxeshanye ahlala ethembekile, ebahlonipha.
Ndandinomnqweno wokuthanda ukuzala inkwenkwe Kodwa ihlala iphela ngenkangeleko yamantombazana. Mhlawumbi andizukunikwa nje abantwana bam, kodwa sineentombi ezimangalisayo.
4. Malunga nosapho kunye namadoda
Unxibelelwano nendoda ngumsebenzi othile. Ubudlelwane kufuneka bugcinwe, kwaye ke, buhlala buqonde xa umntu othandekayo ediniwe xa efuna ukuphumla xa kufuneka uhlale kunye. Yonke into mayibe senzeka kwitrasti.
Wonke umntu kufuneka aziphathe ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba yayingakhathazeki, ukuze bobabini babenengxaki yokuhlekisa, ukuthembana nothando. Ebomini, zonke iintlobo zeemeko, kufuneka ukwazi ukuzilungelelanisa ngokuchanekileyo.
Bendihlala ndifuna ukuba nosapho olukhulu. Uye wakhula wenyuka waphupha umzalwana okanye udade. Kwaye ndichukunyiswe kakhulu ngamabali omkhulu wam, owayenoodade abasibhozo. Ngoku ndinentsapho enkulu yase-Itali yase-Itali. Kwaye kulungile! Ndinomnqweno wokuzala abantwana ababini abancinci.