Iphupha elinomdla elabiwe nathi umfundi omncinci wekholamu yethu. Kwaye isihloko, ndiza kuthi ngqo, ndichulumancile kwaye ndiwuthathe umphefumlo, ukuba ayinguye wonke umfazi, emva koko, ukuba.
"Kutshanje ndihlukane nendoda yam ngenxa yobuhlobo bakhe nenkosikazi yangaphambili, eyayingayiqondi kwaye ayizange yamkele. Ndinomsindo omkhulu kwaye ndinomona kunxibelelwano olunjalo. Watsho ukuba akasokuze abe bubudlelwane naye. I-Intuition yam yathetha ngokuchaseneyo. Kwaye ukusuka ekuqaleni kweveki, waqala ukuhlala naye. Namhlanje ndiphuphe ukulala ukuba ndinxibelelana naye, ndandibahlobo kwaye ndihamba, iimvakalelo zazifudumele kakhulu kwiphupha (ebomini iqhekeza elipheleleyo). Kwaye phambi kwam, bendihlala ndiphupha ngamaphupha, apho ndingabahlobo khona kunye neevilini. Njengoko bendiqonda, eli phupha ngoxolelwaniso nonxibelelwano kunye nenxalenye ethile yam. Kodwa indlela yokufumanisa ukuba yintoni?
Ngokwenyani, ukulala kubonakala. I-heroine yethu ayizange imbize imfundiso yakhe kwaye iqhubeke nokudibana nendoda kangangexesha elithile, yazi ukuba wenza indawo yomnye umntu. Olo lwalamano, njengommiselo, thatha kuphela amandla abo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba. Yonke iminqweno yokomoya ijolise kumzabalazo, umona, ingqumbo kunye nokhuphiswano, hayi uxolo nendalo yolwalamano oluqinileyo. Nangona umzekelo we-heroine yethu uqhelekile ukuba uninzi lweendlela ezinzima. Umzekelo, bonke aba bantu banokutshata. Imidlalo ye-Driangle yoThando idlalwa sijikelezile kuyo yonke indawo, kwaye ukongeza, uninzi lwabafazi balithatha eli nqanaba ebomini babo. La mava ukuba ayokuxabisa ngakumbi, ukuqonda malunga nento elungele mna, kwaye yintoni engeyiyo. Ndikhe ndeva abafazi abaninzi 'abalahlekileyo' kunye neentshaba zabo. Ekuqaleni, la mava labuhlungu, kodwa kamva bafumanisa ukuba balwalulwa nomntu othile, kodwa oko kwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane. Kule meko ukuba kunye nalo mntu, babengafuni kwaye bengakhange babone umbono wexesha elide naye. Nangona kunjalo, uloyiko lokuhlala ludlula kulo lonke ixesha lokuqonda malunga nemeko kwaye inyanisekile ekuveni izizathu zaso.
Ngokuphathelele iqhawe lethu, iphupha lithi ulixolelaniswe ngokupheleleyo nento yokuba iqabane lakhe langaphambili libuyela kuThando lwakhe lwangaphambili. Imfundiso yakhe iphakamise ubuqaqawuli bakhe ukuba zinjani izinto. Ngoku iya kuqala uviwo lokwenene: Nokuba iya kuba nakho ukuhlala ixesha elinye ukuba ithathe isigqibo sokuba ngubani na, aze aqalise ukwenza.
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UMaria Zmvuskova, ugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango losapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqesho loQeqesho loQeqeshe leMarika Khazina