Abasetyhini-ukudala iPragmatic. Emva kokudibana nendoda, bayakwazi ukumnika imizuzu emihlanu nomyeni wabo noyise wabantwana, ukuba babhabhe engqondweni nasengqondweni yabo. Amadoda onke alula. Baqikelela intombazana kwixesha elifutshane: ubutshaba bakhe, imbonakalo, uncumo. "Yiza, ndabona" - kunqabile. Nokuba upholile kangakanani, kufuneka uqhume ixesha elithile ukuze wagqiba kwelokuba: "Ndifuna ukuba ngumfazi wam!"
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwamaqabane zahlukile. Kwabanye abafazi, ezi ziintlanganiso zesondo kathathu ngeveki. Okanye ukungcungcutheka kwiofisi kwi-Xerox. Umntu othile ulinde inguqu ukuya kwinqanaba elitsha, kuba "lixesha, kudala sidibana-isithayithi seenyanga ezimbini." Ngamanye amaxesha ubudlelwane buxhasa i-Intanethi ngokusebenzisa izixeko kunye namazwe. Kodwa ubudlelwane obuhambelana nokuhambelana bupheleleyo kwiqela lemvakalelo kunye nomzimba. Akukho makhonkco axabisekileyo aneleyo kwibhokisi encinci.
Xa kuza iphulo lokufika kwangoko, akunakwenzeka ukubeka uxinzelelo kwindoda. Kodwa amaxesha amaninzi le ntombazana ibonakala iqhutywa yi-alam yangaphakathi: "Lixesha! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, sele ndineminyaka engama-20. Okanye 30. Unamanqaku. Iingcebiso ziya kwiincoko zemihla ngemihla kwaye zide zijikeleze ngomtshato, ngelixa le ndoda ayiqali ukuphosa ingqondo.
Kuyimpazamo ukucinga ukuba ulibele okanye akazange aqaphele. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, le ndoda imisa isindululo sengalo kwaye intliziyo yinto evakalayo - intembelo yokuba akakakulungeli. Ngelishwa, sisizathu nje. Kulungele ukuba yindoda enentombi, akadingi ngaphezulu. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, ubudlelwane obunjalo buza kukhokelela ekuphulukaneni nexesha. Ukuba indoda ilungile ecaleni komfazi, ufuna ukuba njalo. Kwenzeka ukuba kuthintela uxanduva lwezezimali. Khumbula indlela kwintsomi yefani malunga nesithupha xa uMole wabalwa: "Utya umgangatho wengqolowa ngosuku. Ndiyatshata! " "Kwaye unyaka ... - Hayi, musa ukutshata!" Indoda iyazi ukuba ukugcina inkosikazi yayo ayifani nento yokutyela ekhokelela kunye nezipho zokunika. Ngokubhekele phaya kuya kulandela inkcitho engakumbi ebantwaneni. Kwaye wayefuna ukuhlaziya uphawu lweemoto, ziphila ...
Sukubeka uxinzelelo kwindoda yakho ethandekayo
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Kukho amantombazana abonakala ngathi abhalwe emabunzini: "Hee, umntu, uthatha umtshato!" Amadoda aqhelekileyo afundwa kwaye akhiwa ngokukhawuleza kubudlelwane kumanqanaba okuqala. Kwaye amadoda aqhwayo anomdla kumantombazana, oonyana bakaMamenikina okanye iipikipes. Abo baqala ukoyike izilangazelelo zakhe zokwenza umtshato ngokukhawuleza. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uyazi kakuhle-le ayisoze yenzeke!
Kodwa bayeka ntoni amadoda aqhelekileyo? Amadoda asoyika. Kuyinyani, ngokungafaniyo nebhinqa, uloyiko lwabo luqhubela amandla. Apha zihlala Izinto ezifuneka kuzo zoloyiko lwamadoda:
-Khetho. Isisombululo esihle kwindoda kunzima ngakumbi ukwamkela umntu obhinqileyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uye, ngenxa yeTestosterone, i-hemisphere yasekhohlo yengqondo iphuhlisiwe, inoxanduva lwe-Logic. Indoda icinga ngobuchule, uhlalutyo. Abafazi baneemvakalelo ngakumbi, ke ngoko bahlala besoloko 'besiza' beza kutshata. "
-Ilahleko yenkululeko. Ngapha koko, nokuba esi sibini sihlala kunye, ukukhohlisa kwenkululeko kwindoda kusekho. Uyothukile ngoluvo lokuba "liphelele." Ubulumko babasetyhini kukushiya imvakalelo yenkululeko nangomtshato. Ngaphandle koko, indoda ibonakala ngathi ayisiyo iringi kuye, kunye nemingxunya.
-Koyika uxanduva Xa esiqonda ukuba emva komtshato, kuya kufuneka ukuba yindoda kuphela, kodwa nguBawo. Umhlaba uya kujika, inqanaba loxanduva luya kunyuka ngokukhawuleza nje emva kokuba liwela umqobo wererimon. Kodwa uxanduva alukhutshwanga nesatifikethi somtshato. Isemvelaphi yendoda okanye hayi.
-Imizekelo engaphumelelanga Uqhelekile, izihlobo kunye nezeninzi abazali. Akazi ntoni uqhawulo mtshato, idrama, icandelo lepropathi, i-alimony. Olu loyiko luya kususa kuphela umfazi onobuchule obuqinisekileyo, ukuba akayi kwenzeke kuthi!
-Uyoyika i-perm. Usaziva umoya ovuthuzayo ngobomi bebachelor. Nokuba uhlala kunye. Uyalithanda ithuba lokukhanya kwitheko kunye nenqaku kubusuku kwibhayisekile. Akayi kuwasebenzisa. Kodwa mhlawumbi! Isitampu kwipasipoti linyathelo lokukhula. Kwaye ayingawo onke amadoda alungele ukukhula, kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe kukhululwa kule nto.
-Koyika ukusilela Njengendoda ayifuni kuphoxeka kukhetho. Kuya kufuneka enze ama-200% ukuba lo ngoyena mfazi wahlukileyo kunye nomama ogqibeleleyo waBantwana bakhe. Kwaye wanyula ukuba kungenxa yemali, uqhagamshelo okanye ummiselo wedolophu.
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I-ring kunye nesitampu kwipasipoti ayisoloko iphambili kubudlelwane obunengxaki.
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"Utshata nini?" -Umbuzo owuthandayo wezihlobo nabahlobo. Akavakali nantoni na kwirediyo kwimoto yakhe. Ngaphandle kwezizathu zibangela ukwala abantu, ukuphendula umva: "Kutheni le nto ndifanele ndiyenze, ungu-Anti uxela njani?" Kule meko, kubalulekile ukuba wenze iimeko ezinjalo ukuze umntu akakhathali. Ngaba umama wakho uyabuza ngayo rhoqo? Ewe uyakhathazeka. Kodwa ke makucacisele ngobuchule bakhe ukuba emtshatweni buphindwe kade, kodwa ngesazela.
Ngokubanzi, ngoku sijika kwizenzo ezithile ukuze isitampu sivele kwipasipoti yakho.
1. Thetha ngokuzolileyo. Fumanisa ukuba akakufanelanga njengamfazi. Okanye ngokuchaseneyo- ufuna okungaphezulu koko akulungele ukunika. Ukuba indoda ivala, ifihla isizathu sokwenyani. Ukulungele ukunyamezela ukungaqiniseki kwaye uhlengahlengise? Hlukana okanye uqhagamshelane ukuze ufundile? Akunjalo ngendlela engafaniyo kulwalamano olusempilweni nolinganayo. Indoda ifanele ifune imitshato ngokwayo. Kuphela kule meko apho umtshato uya konwaba.
2. Beka umthengisi wakho. Uziva ntoni? Ngamanye amaxesha kukho ingxaki yokuzithemba okuphantsi. Eli bhinqa libonakala ngathi akukho mntu uya kuyithanda, anelise kwaye athabathe, njengale ndoda. Oku kunolwaneliseko, ukusuka kuloyiko olunesizungu. Ndikholelwe, kukho amadoda amaninzi emhlabeni onokuthi wonwabe kubo!
3. Zithathe. Yiba ngumfazi ofuna ukutshata. Sebenza ngokuzithemba, mpompa iimpawu zakho zomfazi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, isitampu kwipasipoti ayisiyiyo indawo oya kuyo. Le yindawo ephakathi kwimephu enkulu yokuhamba ebizwa ngokuba luhlobo olonwabisayo. Unemibutho-lixesha lokuba uhambe endleleni!