Ukwahlukana ngalo mzuzu emva koko wonke umntu uzama ukuphosa ingcinga yabanye abathandekayo entloko. Ezinye iinwele ezisikiweyo kwaye zitshintshe kakhulu isitayile, abanye bafumana into entsha yovelwano - indlela yokuziphatha kwabantu iyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwi-psychotype yabo. Kodwa eyona nto inzima kwabo baqala inoveli emsebenzini - amehlo obizo "uthatha phantse ipesenti enye yeengcinga zakho. Sichaza indlela yokususa le ntliziyo iqinileyo yemvakalelo yengqumbo kunye nomona.
Awokuqala
Ngo-2013, i-Vtsiom yaqhuba uphando, apho i-26% ye-Steam yavuma ukuba badibana emsebenzini. Kwaye le yinxalenye yabo babenolwalamano namaqabane-abanye kudala behlukana kwaye bakhetha ukungakhumbuli amaqabane kwixesha elidlulileyo. Iinkcukacha-manani zibonisa ngokucacileyo: akunamfuneko ukuba uzicwangcise ngokuzithandela kweemvakalelo, ukuba impazamo "efanayo yenza phantse wonke umsebenzi wesibini. Thanda kwaye unike intando yothando-ulonwabo, hayi isohlwayo soluntu.
Shiya umntu wedwa
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Yiyeke ukujongana
Kumaxesha okuqala, emva kokuhlukanisa, uya kuba noburhalarhume kwiqabane lakhe, kwaye ke i-theave yesisa iya kutyumza kunye nawe-iya kufuna ukuthathela ingqalelo indoda kwaye iqalise ukhathalelo lwendoda ephantsi komxholo ubuhlobo. Yeka! Ungazenzi ngokwakho - olu ayibuhlobo, kodwa ukunqongophala konxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo kunye nemvakalelo yomntu okufutshane. Ngokupheliswa kwenoveli kubuntu bakho, umnqamlezo awubekwanga-linda de umntu omtsha aza kubonakala kwindalo esingqongileyo, ekwazi ukunomdla kuwe. Kwaye ngeli xesha, sebenzani ngokwakho: Qaphela ukuba wena nomfo wangaphambili ningamabini ahlukileyo, kwaye ungayithandi iyonke. Ukususela ngoku, uya kwakha ikamva lakhe kwaye, malunga nokothuka, de aqale ubudlelwane nentombazana entsha. Ubomi bakhe asiyiyo inkxalabo yakho, ngoko ke shiya umntu kwaye aphile ngokuzolileyo.
Sukucinga malunga nabantu osebenza nabo
I-fantasy, ngokungathi yonke kwimo engqongileyo yenza kuphela ukuba bahlebeze iinkosi zesahlulo kunye ne-petit, ehlekisayo. Thatha inyani: Abantu banesivumelwano kubomi bakho buqu ngokoqobo imizuzwana eli-10-15, ngelixa umntu ebazisa ngekhefu lakho. Emva koko baya kwesinye isihloko okanye baqhubeke nokuzibandakanya kwimicimbi yabo. Cinga malunga nendlela oqiqa ngayo wena malunga nobomi boogxa bakho ... soze, akunjalo? Ke uyeke ukuzithoba ngokwakho kwaye uthathe uxanduva ngqo ukusebenza.
Oogxa bakhe baya kuphumelela kwaye balibale ngawe
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Iimpawu eziyimfihlo kuyo yonke indawo
Amantombazana amaninzi akhwaza impumlo yakhe kwaye ezenze ngathi bakhethekile kwaye bahlukane nabo ngaphambili hayi abahlobo abalungileyo. Kodwa inyani lolondolozo 'lwabahlobo "kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, ukugcinwa kwembalelwano kunye neefoto ezidibeneyo zibubungqina bethemba lokudibana kwakhona. Ukuba yonke into efana nesoka othandana ne-hit, uyazi ukuba ayilunganga. Umntu ofuna ukuphinda aqhubeke unxibelelwano angabhalela ngokwakhe, kwaye ucele ngcono ukudibana nomsebenzi wangaphandle. Shenxisa inkohliso kwixesha elidlulileyo-ubudlelwane bufikile esiphelweni kanye ngexesha lokwahlula kwakho.