Malunga nantoni na-yozuko lonke - i-Evelina Bleans bakwazile ukufunda kubudala oboko. Umfanekiso we-nuls ye-sexy, awadlalileyo ethandwayo ngelo xesha "Imaski shaw", yagungqa inani labemi belizwe. Namhlanje, i-Evelina iyavuma ukuba, mhlawumbi, ayililo eli bali, kuya kubakho indima enkulu kwi-piggy ye-piggy. Nangona kunjalo, idrama yanele ebomini bakhe. Kwaye ukuba uphuma njani kubo, luthando 'lwayo' lwaBantwana 'olunelanga' lomntwana, lufaneleyo.
1. Malunga nexesha
UNyaka oMtsha-Iholide yobuntwana , Umthi weKrisimesi onebhobs yezibane kunye neenkwenkwezi ngaphezulu, iithoyi ze-vintage. Kodwa oku ndiza kuqalisa ubomi kwiphepha elingenanto kunyaka omtsha, andikhumbuli. Ukuba bendifuna into, ndingayenza phakathi konyaka.
Yintoni endingathanda ukuyitshintsha ebomini? Mhlawumbi ngendingavumi kwindima yabongikazi "kwi-Mask Show" kwaye ndithintele olu luzuko lwemanyano, xa onke amazwe elizwe awandimela kwimibono yabo yokwabelana ngesondo. Emva koko ndingaqhayisa ngoku uludwe olunomtsalane lwendima enkulu, kuba ndingumdlali weqonga olungileyo.
Ubeneminyaka engamashumi amabini ubudala bendiza kuthi : "Evelynokka, sithandwa sam, musa ukundingcatsha, hayi i-lni kuwe. Ungabi ngumntu ombi. " Nangona zonke ezi cebiso endizivayo kwizalamane zam. Ke ndihlala - akukho nto yoyika.
Ndinonyaka wokukhumbula, ndineminyaka engamashumi amahlanu. Anditsho ukuba ndiwele umda, nangona kwakunzima kum inyanga ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwam. Kodwa emva koko bamrhoxisa kwaye baqonda ukuba ubomi buqhubeka.
2. Malunga nam
I-Trait Trait endithintela ukuba ndingaphili , kunye nokuzithemba okungachaphazelekanga. Izinto ezininzi ebomini bakho andizange ndimoyike ukuba azizukusebenza.
Ndabanyamezela abanye. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiqhekeza, kodwa ubukhulu becala ngokunxulumene nabantu endinomomoni, owomeleleyo, endimbonayo. Andisokuze ndenzekalisa okanye ndihlaze abo banenqanaba elingezantsi.
Ndingcatshwe, ndafumana, ndaphinda. Kodwa andifuni ukuba nexhala. Ehlabathini ndivumela abo bandiphoxekileyo, abazange bathethelelene nethemba.
Umfazi kufuneka ahlawule ixesha kuye , Kufuneka ndizithande, ndidumise kwaye ndiyayithanda. Kodwa ndiyalithanda ihashe elibuhlungu, uPasha noPasha. Kwelinye icala, xa ndisebenza, ndisezikhundla.
3. Malunga nothando
Ndiyazi kakhulu malunga nabantu, "ndafunda ngokukhawuleza, njengoko ndibonayo. Kwaye ndinomdla omncinci, kuba andazi kwanto entsha. Kodwa baninzi, ndonwabile ukunxibelelana. Amadoda asabela kum, kuba abaninzi ndisenento yomnqweno. Abanye bade banike isandla nakwiintliziyo.
Ngamadoda am onke, bendifuna ukulunga, ndibalungelelanise. Inxibe, ukukhokelwa yinto yokuba bayathanda. Kwaye ngokunyaniseka, ndidiniwe yiyo. Ngoku ndifuna ukuba nguThixo. Kwaye okwangoku ndilungile ngobomi bakho bobuqu.
Uthando luhlala lundiphefumlela. Ukophula intliziyo yam kunzima kakhulu, ndinentliziyo entle. (Ukuhleka.) Ukusinda kokuhlulela, andizange ndivume ukuba ndisebenze, kwahlala ndivulelekile eluthandweni, ulonwabo.
Sukungafuneki ukuncama ngegama lothando - Emva koko ukuzisola kakhulu. Ndilahlekelwe yindima, ndinikeza umdla, ndibeke izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka kosapho apha ngasentla.
4. malunga nabantwana
Uthando lothando alunamda. Ngale nto ndithetha kwimizuzu yokuqala yokubonakala konyana wam, umntwana onesifo se-syndrome. Kungenxa yoko le nto ibaluleke kakhulu kum liziko lam lesiQinisekiso "# lenkozo", elinceda abantwana abanempawu zophuhliso. Iwadi yeziko lam zihlala phantsi komqondiso wothando olungapheliyo kwaye phantsi kwesiqubulo: "Sonke sahlukile, kodwa sonke sikunye!"
Ukwaziswa kobunye nonyana wam wokuqala kwaye ngoku ngumahluko omkhulu. Ukuzalwa komntwana kubudala obungakumbi lolunye uxanduva, kunye nolunye uncamathiselo. Eselula, yonke into ibonwa lula. Ngapha koko, abazali bam babeluncedo kakhulu kum.
Ndifuna ukubona ntoni abantwana? Ukujonga kwikamva, ndifuna ukubona kubo uncedo, ukhathalelo. Ndidibene nomhlobo wam kutshanje: Unyana wakhe uthenge itikiti elihle, elithunyelwe ukuba liphumle kwihotele i-chic. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku akukho mntu uthenga nantoni na. Ndingathanda lonyana olizibulo we-nicholas bonakalisa iimpawu ezinjalo.
Ukuvela kwabantwana, njengamsixhenxe, luvavanyo oluthe vele uThixo uthumela lolona lomeleleyo . Ndiyaqonda ukuba ayikabi lilize, ndinendawo oya kuyo, uthumo. Umntwana wam "welanga" wam kunye namawakawaka amawaka ayafana njengaye, andifundise ukuba ndincume kweli lizwe.