Ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba abantu abaphumeleleyo bahlala beqinisekile. Ngaphandle kolu phawu, akunakwenzeka ukuqhubela phambili ngenqanaba lomsebenzi, ukutsala umdla wamadoda amaphupha akho kwaye uphile ngoluhlobo. Ngapha koko, kwiimeko ezininzi, sithobela kwimiqondiso yokunxibelelana malunga nokungakhuseleki kwabo, ngaphandle kokuqonda malunga nayo. Sizamile ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni kanye kanye esisinika yona, nendlela yokujongana nokungaqiniseki kuthi.
Wenza isincomo esingenakufaka isicelo sakho
"Mhle kakhulu kule jacket! Ngendingazange ndiyifumane into enjalo evenkileni, kuba andinambizi, "Uxelela umhlobo wakho, ngokoluvo lwakho, owenza ukuba uzigxeke. Umntu ozithembileyo uya kubangela uhlobo olunjalo lokuncoma kuphela. Enye inguqulelo yophuhliso lweziganeko: umntu uya kuphuma ngokungaqiniseki, uya kuqinisekisa ikratshi labo. Ke uyeke "ukwehla" kwaye uzigxeke, oku kuya kukuvuyela ukuzibandakanya kule nto.
Sukuthatha sonke "ityala" lokunxibelelana
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Uphendula ngaphandle kokulinda ukuphela kombuzo
Umnxibelelanisi wakho akazange agqibe kwengcinga, kwaye ukulungele ukuphendula, ngaphandle kokucinga ngaye. Njengomthetho, oku bangonakali abantu abangaziyo ukuba bayala. Umntu uyakuphepha ukuqhekeka, ukoyikeka okwethutyana ukuba umnxibelelanisi acinge ngaye into engalunganga. Akumangalisi ukuba indlela enjalo ikhokelela kwiingxaki kwaye iphinde izisole kubuntu obungakhuselekanga. Soloko uzinika ixesha lokucinga, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uphendule kwangoko.
Ukuthula ngexesha lencoko ibangela ukungalunganga
Kunzima kumntu ongenakuthelekiswa nothuli: Uyaqala ukufaka amagqabaza angalunganga, adlule okanye avelise amabinzana, ukusika nje ukunqumamaka.
Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa kwimeko enjalo yokuzithatha ngesandla kwaye zizolile kuqala. Khumbula ukuba uthetha nomnye umntu olilungu elinomsindo kwincoko, kutheni uthatha yonke "ityala"? Funda ukwabelana ngoxanduva lokunxibelelana nomnxibelelanisi kwaye uyeke ukufuna isizathu.
Ngomntu ozithembayo uhlala efuna ukujongana
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Awuncumi
Kwangoko imbali yobuso inika imbambano yakho. Ewe kunjalo, kuya kufuneka uqonde xa uncumo olufanelekileyo, nangona kunjalo, abantu abanokuzithemba okuphantsi baninzi ixesha eligxile kwaye babethwa, ngakumbi xa bekwimeko ebikekayo. Zama ukugcina uncumo oluncinci olubonisa ukuba akukho lula ukususa ibhalansi.
"Qwalasela" Jonga
Ukungakhuseleki ngokwawo, njengommiselo, awunakunyanzela ukuba ujonge emehlweni omnxibelelanisi: Inkangeleko yakhe ibhekiswe kuyo, okanye "ibaleka" kwizinto ezijikeleze. Ukunqongophala konxibelelwano olubonakalayo akufuneki kunxibelelane, kungabikho bonke abaqeqeshi beshishini bacebisa ukuba bonke baqeqeshe inkangeleko ethembekileyo, nomntu onako ukujongana naye.