Mhlawumbi eyona nto ingathandekiyo enokwenzeka kwimpilo yakho yomtshato-ukuvutha kweqabane. Ngapha koko, i-modifier inokutshintsha iqabane ecaleni iminyaka emininzi, kwaye isiqingatha sayo asiyi kuqikelela nantoni na. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumane indlela onokubala ngayo umntu ongalunganga. Ulungile?
Ulwalamano lwakho kunye neqabane luqala ngenkohliso
Enye yeempazamo ezinkulu ezenziwa ngumfazi wesibini okhohlisayo, "ucinga ukuba akasokuze atshintshe le ndoda ukuba ingaze itshintshe, kwaye ngenxa yoko ivumela ukuba ubudlelwane nomntu onobudlelwane. Khumbula ukuba ukuba iqabane lakho lomtshato lishiye isiqingatha sakhe, akukho nto iya kumthintela ukuba angangeni ngokufanayo nakuwe.
Ukutshintsha kube kanye, indoda ayiyeki
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Uqala ukukubamba ngenkohliso
Njengommiselo, amadoda azivayo ityala labo ngaphambi kokuba umfazi aqalise ukuhlasela owokuqala, ngethemba lokuba awuyi kuba namandla okubamba. Umntu uphonononge nje indlela aziphethe ngayo kuwe, ecinga ukuba unokuba nenkohliso yenkohliso.
Iqabane liqala ukuchitha ngaphezulu kunangaphambili
Ukuba wayelumkisile ukuba uza kuchitha okukhulu, kodwa akukho sizathu sokuthambisa, kodwa ukuba imali yayo iqala ukunyamalala ekhadini, kwaye kwisayizi enkulu, kukho isizathu sokucinga ukuba ihamba phi yonke imali Ngaphandle kolwazi lwakho.
Uqala ukwenza isimilo sakhe kuwe
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Indoda iqala ukukumangalela
Ulixesha elide kubudlelwane, kodwa ngequbuliso iqabane libonisa imimangaliso ebhedini, elaphambi kokuba ungaqapheli. Kuyenzeka, indoda yagqiba kwelokuba ihlukane ngesondo sakho, ngakumbi ukuba ukhetha isini se-classic kuzo zonke ezinye iindlela. Ukanti kufanelekile ukuba lukhuseleke iinguqu ezinjalo kwimo yesondo.
Uqala ukukumangalela ebhedini
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Uhlala uva ukugxekwa kwidilesi yakho
Ingabonakala, kubudlelwane bakho yonke into ihamba kakuhle, kwaye ngequbuliso uqale ngokufumana iingcikivo nezityholo ezikuzo zonke iingxaki ezenziwa ngumtshato wakho. Kule meko, indoda imela ukungcatshwa njengento eninzi kwimeko efanayo, njengommiselo, oku kuyenzeka xa uqikelela into yokuba umntu onento yokufihla, kwaye ke uyazama Uxanduva lwakho. Apha kufuneka uqonde ukuba nayiphi na ubudlelwane bakho, impazamo ekuvukeleni ilele emntwini ogqibe kwelokuba athathe isigqibo malunga nokuvukelwa, kuba ukhetho kukutshintsha okanye ukuseka ubudlelwane-kuhlala kunjalo.