Umxholo ofanelekileyo wokufumana amandla kuqhawulo mtshato. Kuzo zonke iiplani kunye nengqondo, uqhawulo-mtshato uphelile ukuba ngumnyhadala onqabileyo: Iindima zentlalo kunye namalungelo amadoda nabasetyhini basebenza ngokufanayo, oko kuthetha ukuba yonke into iye yayeka usapho kunye nolunye, kwaye abanye beyekile , ukuba ngamnye uthe wasilela ukuvuma, okanye uyeza ukuphazamiseki apho usapho olungayazi indlela yokunyamezela.
Ngamaxesha athile adlulileyo, uqhawulo-mtshato yinto engekhoyo, ayichanekanga, isenzo esikhohlakeleyo ngokunxulumene nabantwana, umzekelo, okanye kwibhinqa elalihleli kwindibano yakhe kwaye elahlekelwe ngumsebenzi wakhe. Izibini ezenze isigqibo sokusasazeka sizibuza ngakumbi imibuzo emihle: Kutheni le nto ninye? Ungayenza njani le nto, ngelixa ugcina uthando nentlonipho? Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba siyanyamalala? Buya kubuya kubudlelane bam emva kwentsapho?
Apha ngezantsi ngumzekelo wephupha eliphuphayo, elikwiinqaba ezinqamlezileyo.
"UJulia (usapho oluqhelekileyo) ukhulelwe. Umyeni wam uyahlangana naye. Uye endlwini yam kwaye ehlamba kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Ndikhangela ezinye zezinto zam kwiiphakeji ngelixa ethatha ishawa, ndimbuza: "Ngaba uza kulala naye? Ndibelana ngesondo ukwenza? "Ucinga kwaye uthi:" Ewe. " Ndiphendula: "Kwaye akukho nto ikhulelwe?" "Utsho esuse isisu esincinci," utshilo. Ndiyamangaliswa. Ngequbuliso kwipaseji ende, apho ndiyaqhubeka nokujonga izinto, intombi yam iNastya ivela ngokungalindelekanga. Kwaye akazi malunga ne-lilly. Kwaye andazi ukuba ndithini na. Mhle. Ungena egumbini, kwaye ngalo mzuzu uJulia uphuma kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Kwigumbi lokuhlambela eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, elifana nemakhishithi. Unezitshisi ezibomvu ezikhanyayo njengoko inyibilikisiwe. Ndiyaqonda ukuba uyintombazana engaqhelekanga. Nge-idiot. Ndiyabulisa, kwaye uthi kum ukuba umama wakhe uza kundinika lo mhle kwaye uthandane. Ndibuza ukuba umama wakhe malunga nam ngequbuliso? Uthi: "Ukulungisa la macala mabini." Chwetheza mna noNyana kwaye ngoJulayi nomyeni wam. Oku kuthetha ukuba kubonakala ngathi unenoveza ixesha elithile, kuyalazi kunina, kwaye baya kuba kunye. Ngequbuliso, i-wave yengqumbo iqengqeleka! Ndimi kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndiyayenza. Usendlwini yam. I-chiban kancinci. Umyeni wam uza kulala naye. Ukhulelwe. Hayi kuye. Ukuya kwisisu. Intombazana yam ngequbuliso yatyelela. Ndifuna ukwahlula naye. Banenoveli kangangexesha elithile. Ndimi kwaye ndikhaba kwiimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo, kwaye andenzi nto, ndijonge nje kwaye ndiphefumla. Ndibona. Ndigqiba kwelokuba ndivuthuza i-braid yakho esandleni sam kwaye ungayiphuli ekhaya? Okanye wavuya kuba walungiselela ubomi bakhe. Kubonakala ngathi ndifuna nje ukuba ndifuna. Ngenxa yoku phumla, wonwabe kwaye ngentliziyo ebiwe, ndiyavuka. "
Ngaphambi kokulala, bendicinga nje ngeyona nto inzima yokwenza, kodwa ukuze ndiphile intlekele. Kunzima kum. Thatha isigqibo sokuba ungazenzi izigqibo. Oku kuthetha ukubajonga ubuso ngobuso nangenxaxha yakho. Ngokungazi, mandenze ntoni, le ndiyifunayo, apho ndiya khona. Ndinomzekeliso onjalo: ndimi kwindawo enqamlezileyo kwaye ndigqibe kwelokuba ndihambe phi.
Lala, ngendlela, ehamba kunye namagqabantshintshi ngamaphupha, engasenyanisweni ayikho imicimbi enjalo. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, bona kunye nomyeni wakhe bazibonele ngokwabo ithuba lokuqhawula umtshato, bangabizi abathandi, iinkolelo kunye nabanye abantu besithathu.
Ngendlela, malunga noxantathu, kubandakanya nabathandi. Ephupheni, utsala iimilo ezifanayo: Indoda yakhe ngumntwana, umyeni wakhe uyinkosikazi ekhulelweyo. Indoda yakhe yinkosikazi kanina, umyeni wakhe womhlobo wakhe, ungumntu ongumhlobo wakhe. Kwaye ungaqhubeka. Unyango losapho lumele into yokuba kungekudala ubudlelwane kwisibini esinengxaki ye-thrilis, emva koko isibini singazi ukuba "ugcino" - umntu wesithathu. Kwanase-jometri, lo mthetho usebenza - emva kwamanqaku ama-3 onokuthi uhlale unenqwelomoya, kwaye le yinto esizinzileyo.
Kubudlelwane bosapho, esi sibini siqala ukutsala "sobomi" ukuya kuhlangula. Kwiimeko ezininzi, lo ngunxantathu wothando. Umntu wesithathu unamandla obuxoki, ukukhohlisa kolawulo lwemeko, kuba amathemba esibini abelwe kuyo. Umzekelo, indoda ifuna into engekhoyo kumfazi wakhe. Kwelinye icala, isithandwa siba yintuthuzelo ngemvelaphi yendoda endala yabantu abadala.
Kwangelo xesha, imanyano yababini eyavela ngaphambi kokuba imbonakalo yesithathu ifuna ukuba ngubani na onokwazi ukumelana nesaqhwithi. Xa sele eyeka, umthathi-nxaxheba wesithathu akazukudingeka. Ekubeni intetho ephupheni yamaphupha malunga nenkosikazi yendoda yakhe, mhlawumbi ubuthongo bayo bubonisa ukukhangela okungazinzanga ngenxa yomtshato wakhe. Kuyenzeka ukuba indlela enjalo ephuma ebomini bokwenyani yayiza kunika isiqabu sokukhululeka ukuba unokuhamba. Mhlawumbi, umqalisi wesahlulo nguye, ngenxa yoko, ayisonjululwa kwaye ishiye iqabane lakhe, kodwa ke azisongela umlingane kangangokuba wahlukana naye ukuze adibane nomfazi onomdla kuwo.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ingxelo eyamkelweyo yamaphupha ibalulekile: Iphupha libonisa ukungqubana kwalo lwangaphakathi: Uninzi lweevoti "ze" kwaye "nxamnye nomphefumlo wakhe. Ubunzima buye kwaye buquka: Yonke into akunakwenzeka ukuba ubaphulaphule, kwaye xa uzama ukukhetha into enye, amazwi aphikisayo aya kuvakala ngakumbi. Mhlawumbi xa ungazi ukuba wenzeni, kungcono ukwenza nantoni na. Bukela nje, inkxaso yoqhakamshelwano, ukuba kukho imfuneko. Kwaye uthembele kwinkqubo yokufumana ubunzima kunye nobunzima. Sinqwenela ithamsanqa ngephupha.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin